REVIEWS

Sundance Review: An American Crime

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January 21, 2007

  • US Release Date: Sundance Film Fest 2007
  • Genre: Drama, Crime
  • Running Time: 92 minutes
  • Directed by: Tommy O'Haver
  • on IMDb
  •    7/10

Before the screening started the director of An American Crime, Tommy O'Haver, gave a brief introduction and stated that we need to "submit to this journey", turn off the right side of our brains, and try to feel the same spirit that the cast and crew felt that drew them to work on the film. Interestingly, An American Crime wasn't as twisted and skewed as O'Haver made it seem after giving that speech, but is rather a straightforward period drama about a harrowing experience that young Sylvia Likens goes through.

An American Crime

Set in 1965 in Indianapolis, An American Crime tells the story of Gertrude Baniszewski (Catherine Keener) who becomes the caretaker of two young children, Jennie (Hayley McFarland) and Sylvia Likens (Ellen Page) in addition to her own five offspring, including a baby. Gertrude is a deranged mother who protects her own children more than anyone else and becomes convinced that Sylvia is spreading lies about one of her daughters and locks her in the basement where she is tortured and beaten by her, her children, and their friends. It's a shocking and harrowing tale that even sounds unentertaining from the start.

An American Crime is one of the most twisted and deranged films involving a family to hit the big screen. It's a harrowing, chilling experience that silences the entire theater; a crime drama of perfect style and scripting, but with some troubles in its form and final execution. Keener delivers a spellbinding, vile performance of never-ending cruelty, yet stills seems too nice in some scenes and wicked in the next. As always, Ellen Page is incredible, even if her character is four years younger than her real age (19) and most of her performance involves lying still and being beaten. The biggest question running through my mind was would anyone actually want to go out and see this? Honestly, probably not. Although a fairly well-made film that maybe horror fans could appreciate, it doesn't deliver on a mainstream level.

An American Crime

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  • Carmel IN
    Funny how they talk about this movie as though they did it out of the kindness of their hearts like it's some kind of public service message... When in fact they waited untill they had an audiance of people that go to movies like, Saw and Hostel.... My guess is they have only one thing in mind and that is to reep huge profits for the "Hollywood gluttons" to line their deep pockets with... If this film was in fact made for the benefit of helping abused children then everyone involved should "NOT" recieve a dime of profit but instead give the money to a charitable organization ... To me it's no different then trying to attract people to an incident in the same sick way Gertrude did in trying to make something like this intertaining for people with little or no intellect and bad judgement...
  • stacybundren
    Hello my mother was good friends with Sylvia Likens and I would like to know where we could see this movie I know my mom would like to . I personally have always been very interested about the Likens story
  • Tristan Jarred
    Stacy, I do not know where you can find this, but i do know it comes out August 17th.
  • Ruth Jeffers
    I understand the movie is now set for release on August 31st due to some distributor issues. I'm glad the movie was made. It's about time! The make movies about the murders of OJ Simpson's wife and her friend; they make movies about the Klutter Family massacre in Kansas so why not Sylvia Likens? I've grown up knowing about this horror here in Indianapolis. I'm just glad now days that family members, neighbors, and strangers (In most cases) would not stand for this kind of abuse. It wouldn't have gone on that long before someone was hauled off to jail. What's really sad is, it only took that vile, sick, deviate Gertrude and her evil brood 3 months to kill Sylvia. Though this movie won't change anything about what happened, it may make us all realize that all children are at the mercy of grown ups.
  • rocky
    I was 10 yrs. old when this happened here in Indianapolis. Ofcourse adults wouldn't tell us much but I read the paper everyday after my Dad finished it. It was all we talked about on the bus. We'd end up sort of in a circle in the bus seats and tell everything we'd overheard from listening to the 'grown ups' the night before. It was so terrible. The burning skin from cigarettes, the bottle shoved into her and then broken off, you could hear a pin drop on that bus between the info and the reactions. I know we'll remember Gertrude Banichevski's name forever. I remember when she was released she changed her name and took a bus to Montana or someplace around there. She's probably still alive.
  • Mitzi Rogers
    I was eight years old when this happened, most people that are around my age remember this tragedy. I do know that Gertrude passed away in 1990 and Jenn passed in 2004. Sylvia will always be remembered, I just wish that someone could have helped her.
  • Ron
    Ironically, one of Gertrude's nephews is the high school principal of a large Christian school in Indianapolis. If students knew this they would be frightened of what might be in his genes.
  • stacy
    where can i get this movie??????????????????????? has anyone read the girl next door if so what other book are there i have also read the basement.
  • John Mellencamp
    Please let me know where I can see this movie.
  • steve hostetter
    John,,, I hear there having problems with the release of this movie... Steve Hostetter
  • Caleb Baker
    Gertrude used to babysit my sister and myself. Can anyone tell me when this movie is coming out please call 317-420-9369.
  • SMHostetter
    Caleb Baker,,,, Where did Gertrude live at the time she watched you...? The death house on New York?
  • stacybundren
    i want the movie!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • Where can I see this movie or buy this movie
    Where can I see this movie or buy this movie?
  • Kevin
    #9- Are you John Cougar Mellencamp, the singer?
  • Steve H.
    He should change his name back to Cougar and start doing rock and roll again...
  • stacy
    i seen the girl next door and IM still waiting paciently for An Amwerican Crime.. ME personally and obsessed with sylvia I want and need closure, if i'll ever get it
  • stacy
    caleb baker #11 I would ove to talk to you, me and a friend are writing a book about sylvia please email me stacybundren616@att.net please thank you
  • Kevin
    In life, we as a society failed Sylvia. For that, we should be ashamed. Let's not make that mistake in death for her.
  • stacybundren
    kevin, is that intended for me or what??????? I didnt fail her i wasn't even born I'm just trying to let indiana not forget her. I think its great I Love Sylvia. Ihate GERTRUDE. who are you to judge???
  • Kevin
    ^^^^Not you. It's a general statement that is sadly true of our society.
  • stacy
    yes it is very sad and i think indiana has forgotten how they fail so many children i also think indiana has poor system. they give yah more time for drugs than they do murder???????????? sorry i thught you was refering to me writing a book
  • Mike
    the movie don't come out till 2010
  • Mike
    There is another movie called, "Jack Ketchum's a girl next door" about the same story very graphic and made me ill to my stomache for two day.s and cant sleep that good anymore, the movie affected me bad, just as the story has about this poor girl. What I find is tragic also is the fact that gertrude only did 20 yrs, and the kids did only 18 month stint in juvenile hall. Indiana should be ashamed of itself.
  • SMHostetter
    I live in Indiana,,,, Indiana is a Republican state ran by women for women... Hence is why a person like Gertrude can even have custody of children...
  • MikeM
    I hate gertrude, and those teens that helped do that I hope they live a torturous life.Anybody doing this kind of stuff, shoudl forfit there right to be on the streets forever.She was such a beautiful girl and these maggots destroyed that.If I ever met these teens in real life I would slap the hell out of them. BURN IN HELL GERTRUDE, you sicko
  • Michael
    YOu can google info about this movie it said it isn't due out till 2010, I don't know why. It's made already,must be having problems releasing it,it is horrifying, what that girl had to go through, I am just sick to my stomache about what those freaks did to Sylvia Likens.This is the kind of story that makes me embarrassed to be an american.Gertrude only spent 20 yrs in prison, (she should have gotten the death penalty) and the teens should still be locked up. That is what would happen today if that happened.
  • tony
    The theatrical release date of this movie is 12/31/2010. Why are they releasing it so late.
  • stacy
    #23-#28 have any of you read by sanction of a victim by patte wheat???????????? i just finished it and it is based alot on sylvia but i dont know if written about her?????????????? anybody have any info about sylvia??????????? where is the web site that says 2010??????????? stacybundren616@att.net
  • carrie
    When is the movie comming out? I saw on one site it said Augest 19th, but I've heard March and even May ... and then dvd in october? so when ?
  • Good Grief
    Stacy, you say you're writing a book ... I certainly hope you have a good editor in mind who has unlimited time and the patience of a saint. Your overuse of question marks, absolute lack of capitalizaton and other 'quirks' don't really reveal any talent to speak of. The 'death house' was bought and rehabbed, and there are plans to turn it into a shelter for homeless women aged 18-24. However, it's also had trouble keeping an owner, so this information might be outdated. Additionally, there is a monument to Sylvia downtown, but I've no idea where ... logically, it would be on the 'death house' property, but I can't say whether or not that is true. If you do indeed live in Indiana, go take a look at the house sometime. Also, I read somewhere that this is actually planned to be released in America in June of 2008, with the DVD release scheduled for October. As for Sylvia herself, may she rest in peace.
  • Trader E
    The Sylvia Likens Memorial is in Willard Park, at State St. and E. Washington St, on Indy's east side. The house at 3850 E. New York is currently boarded up and vacant, probably for sale. The house two doors down, where R.Hobbs lived is currently empty and for rent. As far as I know, the only one who may still alive is Paula B., somewhere in Iowa. Hubbard died within the last couple years. Johnny B. is now John Blake, and supposedly a preacher.
  • Trader E
    For those, like me, obsessed with this story and her tragedy: In memory of Sylvia Likens, a place for those who mourn Sylvia to meet and discuss her story. http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/sylvialikens/
  • Stephen Hostetter
    I worked for Lester Likens ,once when I was 14 and again at age 15 when the Marion County Fair came to town... I worked on a rig called a rope ladder .... Was a prize game and the object was to climb to the top and honk a horn to win a huge stuffed animal... I ran away from home w/ a friend at age 16 to join up with Lester at Crown Point IN.. Right away Lester wanted to know if our parents knew where we were... We told him no they did not.. Lester right away took us to his trailer and made us call our parents to let them know we were alive and well and traveling with the carnival... I can remember going into the trailer his wife was there and she was talking to Lester in a whisper voice telling him she didn't want anymore bad happening in the family... I also remember seeing a large pink trunk which I found out later held memories of Sylvia.. I always thought Lester was a good man, I know my parents thanked him.. The whole time I knew Lester I knew he had something terrible happen to his daughter (Sylvia) but I never made the connection untill many years later... As I said I was only 16 the same age as Sylvia when she died... Lester told me once that I reminded him of someone ... I asked him who and he said someone that is gone now but was very dear to him... I noticed that Lester's character in the movie is drinking beer and portrays him as kind of a drunk.. Lester may have drank in those days I don't know but in the time I knew Lester (1975-77) I never seen Lester drink... never. And I seen Lester many times... The friend I had ran away with stole 50 cents from Lester's rig for a pack of smokes... Lester found out and fired us both.. When I begged for my job he said no he said go home and go back to school ,get into sports maybe but you have no future here.. Lester knew the hardships of being a carnie, with little pay and long hours.. Well, I went home and back to school ... I completed Vocational technical school for building trades, I wrestled winning 17 lost one tied one... I ran track and got my highschool letter.. I graduated HS and went on to be a house carpenter (framer) and a large format photographer... Looking back, I truely think Lester saved my life by leading me in the right direction.. I had a lot of respect for Lester and so his opinion mean't something... I hope this movie don't exagerate and put Lester in a bad light ..! He doesn't deserve it..! I know God bless you Lester I will never forget you..!
  • Stephen Hostetter
    I forgot to describe Lester ... He never gave an impression he had money.Lester was a short heavy set man but he moved fast.. Always seemed busy.. You always knew Lester was coming long before you seen him.. Lester had an exposed key ring hooked to his beltloop... This ring had 40 or so keys so with the fast movement and ringing of the keys , there was Lester... I also forgot to mention that it seemed like everyone really liked Lester,,, He was very likable. Lester had three stands (rigs) when I knew him,,, The crane: turn a crank to manuver a minature crane to pick up a toy, The rope ladder : Two ropes joined together by metal rungs tapering at both ends to single cable ... Object is to climb to top and ring a buzzer without using knees or elbows to balance.. The third stand : Object was to place a quarter on a color and turn a large wheel with a ball on it...The ball lands in your color you win.. Now I don't know if Lester owned this stand but he did run it because he had me work it..
  • Stephen Hostetterh
    Oh, and Lester had dark hair from what I remember... not red
  • patti
    I am from Indianapolis and I have followed the story of Sylvia since I was 13 yrs old. In 1972, I read the book 'The Indiana Torture Slaying' and since then Sylvia has been forever imprinted on my mind. After I read the book I talked to everyone about this story and everyone had something to tell me. I just couldnt believe something like this could happen. As time went on people didnt talk about Sylvia much but I always wondered what happened to some of the people involved. In 1980, I was married and had a son and I was pregnant with my second child. A friend of mine needed aplace to stay and we let her come to stay with us for awhile. Not that it matters but my friend was a lesbian. She had a lover named Annie Alexander, Annie was a very nice person and she seemed to care about my friend alot. I liked her. Well as time went by Annie seem to be at our house alot and she used my phone alot. I didnt mined. Annie had a sad story about life. She was rasied in foster care and was treated very badly. Before she met my friend she was married but not for long. She married a wealthy man from Carmel, Indiana. He owed car lots in Carmel. Afew days after they were married they were in a car accident. She was a sleep in the car and he was driving, he fell asleep while driving and drove up under a semi and he was decapitated. Like I said a sad life. One day Annie started getting phone calls from the woman prison here in Indianapolis, after a few calls I ask my friend about them and she wouldnt tell me. She told me to ask Annie, so I did. After all she was in my home. I wasnt trying to be mean about it I just wanted to know. Well Annie started crying, Annie ask me if I ever heard of Sylvia Likens and I said yes. I still didnt put two and two together. I ask her what does Sylvia have to do with the womans prison. She told me that where Gertrude Baniszewski is and she is my mom. Annie was Shirley Baniszewski. Annie left my home that day, never to be heard from again.
  • Dorothy
    I was about 15 years old whe I read the basement. It was by accident that I was reading that book. I was a freshman in high school and I had to do an essay on child abuse. After searching news articals for what seemed like forever. I found one about a 16 year old girl that was tortured in 1965. At the time I lived in the fountin square area however my sister lived on New York street. My mom liked always would ask me how school was going and I told her about my essay. Then she seen the book on my bed and fliped out. Come to find out my mother was friends with Sylvia. She remembered everything that happend. She was told many times that summer that Sylvia had run away. My mother heard the noises comming from inside the house. I always wondered why my mother wouldn't visit my older sister and her 2 grandchildren when they lived on New York. Now I know why. I have been waiting for this movie to come out. I have looked everywhere for information. I have been told several times that it will not be released in the U.S.. If there is anyone that can give me any info on this movie please let me know.
  • Sharon
    #27, Dear Michael, I agree totaly with your opinion about giving Gertrude the death penalty. She got off way too easy as did the juveniles. However, I also feel that these things are still happening way too often and people remain unresponsive. No one wants to "get involved". As we read the story, we are all saying to ourselves, "Why didn't anyone help her?" "I certainly would have called authorities." "This is an outrage." There were reasonably numerous people who could have called the proper authorities. Syliva's own sister did not respond to their pleas. The neighbor, for whatever reason, I'm sure I'll never know, stood by and did nothing. Even when an anonymous call was made and a social worker arrived, Gertrude managed to lie her way out of the situation. I saddens me to say that even in today's society much child abuse goes unreported, unnoticed. We hear about it on the news and say, "How did this happen?" "Didn't anyone know?" We've become a nation of careless citizens wanting only to "mind our own business". That is why I have to disagree with your final comment that if it had happened today she would have gotten the death penalty. Probably not. I can tell you would happen if it were today. The bleeding heart liberals would come out in the hundreds demanding Gertrude get proper psychiatric help, (because after all, she probably had a horrible life that led her to do this, poor thing, blah, blah, blah) and the best defense lawyer our tax money can buy. I will pray for Sylvia's innocent soul and for the others like her hoping they did not suffer and die in vain.
  • Dwayne
    In case you don't already know, An American Crime is scheduled to air on Showtime on May 10, 2008 and released on DVD in May or June of the same year. Any other questions, email me: kingpen30@hotmail.com
  • Kasie
    i am 16 years old and i swore i would never see this show but now after studying it for an acting class i don't think that i can avoid seeing it... i have cried, been in amazment, and completly aweded by what this poor girl went throug... i'm supposed to write a monolog as if i was Gertrude i don't think i can do it now... for all those that remember keep on remembering and don't forget it what ever you do, please teach your children, my parents avoided talking about this with me and now i am talking about it with everyone possible... as people of Indiana we all need to know our history not just the good but some of the tragic parts, when i mention this to students they are all wondering and we sit around and discusses it and tell what we know...
  • Jill
    This movie is now showing on SHOWTIME.
  • ANON
    SMHostetter, thank you for demonstrating that you know jacks--t about gender in its social context. If the state was run by women FOR women it wouldn't allow misogynist pigs to get away with torturing and abusing a young woman, would it? Gertrude Baniszewski and every child involved would have spent the remainder of their lives in cells - at least. By making a story as tragic as this into some sort of ridiculous and fallacious anti-feminist rant you have set a record for just how low male dimwits sink to vent their immature, internalised misogyny! Congratulations, idiot. PS: WORD-FOR-WORD the comment by "Patti" has been posted elsewhere online and thus seems a little dubious. Anyone making s--t up about this abhorent crime is as unconscionable as the scum involved and ought to get their heads fixed.
  • Marshall
    I just saw the movie An American Crime on showtime and I watched it twice. I live in Louisville, Kentucky south of Indianpolis and Id never heard this story before. I too am interested in knowing what happened with the rest of the bunch including Paula. I would be grateful to correspond with anyone who knows more about this. From what research I've read this movie is 'tame' compared to the horrors that were perpetrated on Sylvia and jenny. servusmariaen@aol.com
  • Vicki
    Marshall, I just finished watching An American Crime also and you are so right about this movie being tame compared to what that poor girl endured before finally, her body and spirit could take no more. I grew up in Indianapolis and was only 9 years old when it happened, but it left such a terrible sadness in my heart and has followed me throughout my entire life. Unfortunately, today it is not uncommon to hear tragic stories of cruelty to children, but in the 60's it was just astounding to hear of such evil. If they really made this movie to make people aware of child abuse, I think they did a great injustice by not documenting more of what Sylvia really had to endure. I realize they can only show so much, but there are ways of leading the viewer into awareness without actually displaying it
  • Marshall
    vicki, thanks for the response. I've been trying to research as much about this case as possible online and it's from my research that I've come across the more gory details of the crime against this young girl. I can imagine how shocking it must have been in the 60s. I keep thinking this all happened the year I was born (1966) and shortly before. If anything I think its given me a more heightened sense of awareness to being alert to possible situations around me. I think what was most heart breaking to me is thinking that perhaps this all could have been avoided. I can't imagine letting my children stay with someone I barely knew even though I don't wish to sit in judgement of her parents. Someone on here wrote that Gertrude was once their babysitter. I wonder what that was like? Gertrude was a very ill person. She needed to have been institutionalized. It makes me wonder what kind of childhood she had to be so callous and evil? The most bizarre thing to me was watching them go to church week after week and say grace etc. and then do such heinous things. I would have preferred that they stuck as close to the real details as possible in the movie if for anything as you say to do Sylvia justice.
  • Vicki
    Marshall, Have you found the Indy Star archives with the original news articles about this? If not, let me know and I will send you the link. I guess I am not as gracious as you, because I think Sylvia's parents were to blame too. Had they really loved their children, they would not have made this choice. There are always work options. As the great John Lennon once said, "There are no problems, only solutions!" But, here again, the movie didn't really portray the parents accurately either. Just prior to leaving the girls with Gertie, their mom had been arrested for shoplifting. The movie never mentioned that there were other children in the family too. Where were these kids at? Out of all of the books that have been written on this I highly recommend The Indiana Torture Slaying Sylvia Likens' Ordeal and Death for detail and accuracy. I found my copy on Ebay a few years back for just a couple of dollars and it was well worth it. And as far as them going to church saying grace - that doesn't surprise me at all. Many people who claim to be Christians believe that as long as they pray, go to church and ask for forgiveness they can do no wrong. Don't get me wrong - I am a Christian, but unfortunately have met many to claim to be but really aren't. Good luck with your research.
  • Melissa
    I watched this movie in its entirety for the first time on monday nite and I havent been able to get this girl's face out of my head ,my heart or my soul. I dont want to be judgemental but part of me blames the parents a big part. Who the hell leaves their kids with someone they dont know and especially to live with them. I guess that was the biggest surprise of all. As far as the person that said they worked for lester likens , the time frame you gave was 10 years after the fact so alot can change in that time frame. Not that it matters. I as well would like to find out what happened to those other sons of b**** that did this to sylvia. It really pissed me off that gertrude got out after 20 years wth happened to life sentence. Shows that the human life is worth nothing to some people and especially the fact it was a child. Good thing Im not God is all I can say. Oh and that b*** paula give me five min in a room with her I would tie her ass up and do some of the same things that were done to sylvia ... I would like to know what happened to her as well. ANy info email flcherrybomb@aol.com
  • Kaptain Kebo
    The last I heard Paula resides in Iowa where she spends her time drinking, collecting welfare, and trying to deal with her kid's meth habit. Stephanie resides in the small town of Floral City Florida and has no immediate plans to torture any children as she has found God again. She chooses to be remembered as the one who 'thought about' saving Sylvia while she was being flipped, tossed, burned, carved on, and tortured to death. Thank God that Coy, John Jr, Gertie and her young lover Richard are all dead, just a few more to go and may it be a slow and painful death with a lot of time to think and reflect. I also hope that everyone involved who is living is exposed to their families and communities, the least that they deserve is to be branded for what they are, child torturing monsters. I also feel that the members of the Indiana parole board who voted Gertie free should be exposed and held accountable for the terrible insult to the justice proccess and the Likens family that they committed. You are missed Sylvia, there will always be a place in the world where you should have been. KK
  • Stephen Hostetterh
    Let's remember Sylvia ...
  • Stephen Hostetterh
    Let's not go out of our way to make more crackheads
  • Melissa
    btw the pictures that I have seen in the newspaper articles lester likens was not a short man and the fact weither he drank or not really doesnt matter. Another thing those commenting about how the movie producer should've stuck to the details...the onlyr eal thing o'haver had to go on was the court transcripts and I think he did a pretty awesome job. Noone really knows what happened except sylvia herself and of course those involved and they sure arent gonna offer more details than what were written in the court transcripts. Nuff said about that.
  • Stephen Hostetterh
    I'm curious to know just how you can tell the heighth on an individual from a photograph in a newspaper clipping... Also if you knew anything about the Sylvia Likens incedent you'd know why I mentioned the fact that I'd never seen Lester Likens with alcohol.. Thats ok though if you wanna be a sceptic but I have no reason to lie ... I told my story about my experiance with Sylvia's father for Sylvia .. You wanna believe whatever thats fine too
  • Stephen Hostetterh
    Anon,,,, If you were a man living in the state of Indiana and you were fighting for custody of your child because the mother of your child married a convicted child molester... You might understand my point of view... I never did gain custody of my , ( at the time) 6 year old girl because Judge James Payne didn't think my daughter was in danger of being molested.. Instead we were all evaluated by women social workers and all they did was try to white wash the convicted child molester's crime.. The social worker's told us that the 12 year old girl he molested was a run-away and a street person.. So I guess she had it comming.? Ok , your turn to comment
  • Stephen Hostetterh
    PS And so to make a long story short... If the state of Indiana will let a 6 yr. old girl move in with a convicted childmolester then they will welcome all the Gertrude Baniszewski's to have free reign.. Why do I say this..? Because they did !
  • Stephen Hostetterh
    Also I hope you never have to feel the pain & fear I felt and the utter disgust when a social worker ( probably not a mother, I HOPE NOT !) tell me that a 12 yr. old girl deserved to be raped because she was homeless..
  • Stephen Hostetterh
    Oh,, also the social worker told me my daughter wasn't the age of girls that the molester liked.. As though to try and ease my mind ... They said that they didn't see my ex staying with him that long..
  • Melissa
    hi stephen Its not only the state of indiana but In florida I have gone through almost the same exact thing you did. Ify ou would be interested in chatting please email me at flcherrybomb@aol.com. I dont wanna go through the details on here. I am sorry for your experience. The fact that a social worker would say that gives me chills but it doesnt surprise me I have to say. They dont want to do anything to protect children until its too late. They want to see the ultimate proof.. Which is bs . All this stuff that happens to kids just like sylvia could've been prevented if the state would just do their job to the fullest but they wont theya re too worried about offending someone or getting sued. Unfortunately that is the country we live in.. Where the offenders have rights and victims have none.
  • Stephen Hostetterh
    Hi Melissa,,, I told my experiance with the system for Sylvia.. I think we "all" should expose those that are lenient on child abuse issues... And if I can find the social workers name I will expose her to...! It's all on public record the thing is you never see the public record unless you ask for it..
  • Stephen Hostetterh
    Oh , and I also wanna mention that after I lost the court battle I contacted Mike Ahern, a local news man and left a message discribing my situation and he never returned my call..
  • Stephen Hostetterh
    How can you trust what the news media says if they will only pick and choose what they feel we need to know..
  • Melissa
    For the most part you cant trust what the media says. Well I totally agree with you on exposing people who are supposed to be in charge of trying to help an dinstead they do the most damage yet they want to point the finger at the parent that is trying to get help for the abused child. I was told in a cout of law that I was just a vindictive ex wife which was totally not the case because up until the time of the incident things were going fine. I almost lost cu stody of my daughter becasue I reported the incident to child services and was trying to protect her. I had a judge in my case that was mor concerned with his christmas vacation than he was trying to protect my daughter. My daughter had stated things to a psychologist and we even had proof a handwritten letter from the psychologist the judge looked at me and said this isnt proof I almsot fell out of my chair. Thatj ust goes to show you are better off to take the law in your hands than you are to t rust the judicial system cause it sucks!.... Luckily for my daughter things ahve been fine for the last 3 years thats only cause she is old enough to tell ... And we didnt have real proof so they say... I guarantee if it happens again I wont stop until ig et what I want even if it means going and sitting on the governor's doorsteps in the state of florida.
  • Melissa
    oh btw in an earlier comment I had made about you not knowing lester likens.. I didnt mean to imply that at all. Sometimes we get so upset and caught up in this whole sylvia case our words dont come out as meant too for that I apologize.... Ever since seeing the movie I have been so obsessed with finding the ones responsible... I dont feel she was done justice paula was allowed to walk free and so was stephanie and that really bothers the crap out of me.Everyone involved should have had life sentences or done more jail time and not have been allowed to be around children period but no they set them free and they are free to do whatever.
  • Stephen Hostetterh
    Melissa,,, Thats ok I know exactly what you mean and sorry if I snapped at you... You know whats funny is the I first became away of the sylvia Likens case when my sister had the book The Indiana Torture Slaying she was reading for a school project.. I was maybe 12 at that time. When I turned 14 in 1974 I met Lester Likens and worked for him never to once the whole time I knew Lester did I ever connect him with the story in the book my sister did an esa on.. I met Lee and Jeremey Shoemaker and went to school with I never knew they were Sylvia's nephew's... I never made the connection why we walked wide of the Hobb's house on 5th street in Beech Grove when the Hightlburger's and myself delivered papers at 3:00 am.. I never made the connection that Darlieen Mcguire lived at 6th. and Alton in Beech Grove right down the street.. She was the girl that introduced Sylvia to Paula.. I was unaware of all these untill one day I remembered Sylvia but only in the context of that book of my sister's ... Let me just say that when my sister told me all about Sylvia when I was 12 I can remember being horrified by it but being a 12 yr. old boy I quickly forgot.. Anyway,,, when I found the internet I found the information ... Everything that I have recalled is of the best of my ability and I may remember sketchy because I was 14 and I'm now 48 where Lester is conserned.... Let me just ask a question to anyone out there that knows Lester to come forward and let me know if my memory fails me ...
  • Melissa
    no you were fine . I will bet that darlieen wishes she had of never introduced the two. What I find so horrifying about this whole incident is that noone watned to help sylvia.. the neighbors that knew it was going on ... I just cant for the life of me understand it all. I wasnt even born yet when this took place but sine seeing the movie I havent slept good at all there isnt a day that goes by that I dont think of it. I want to expose paula for the bitch that she is she needs to pay for what she did to sylvia. She doesnt deserve any type of life or a moment's peace.
  • Stephen Hostetterh
    I think the ppl in her family should deffinitly be kept track of yes... Just for safty sake if any..
  • JT
    I saw the film on Showtime and was intrigued enough to research it on the Internet. I'm from the Chicago area, and had heard Gertrude's name in horrified whispers as a child, but until recently I didn't really know much about it. And while this thread is interesting, and the details of what happened to Sylvia revolting, the editor in me wants to take the other posters to task for the appalling lack of grammar, syntax, spelling and punctuation skills that we should all have in place by the time we reach adulthood.
  • Melissa
    lmao at what jt said you are kidding me right... A little girl is dead and you are worried about punctuation skills my god what are you the grammar police hehehe.
  • Stephen Hostetterh
    Melissa,,, You'd have to visit Ill to understand where he's coming from.. Myself, the sht they do to eachother in Chicago it's a wonders they can even be horrified
  • Melissa
    lol ... yeah i know i visited chicago once and never intend on going back. Its a dirty nasty city. I can only imagine, have never heard good things about that city.
  • Stephen Hostetterh
    I mean the ppl are more less intellectuals ,,,, they are different and they let you know it... NEVER pump gas "ANYWHERE" in Ill and not remember your pump # you are in for serious trouble.. All joking aside I have had good experiances in Chicago and it is a beautiful city especially at night from the lake... I have good memories of my first visit to Ill ... It was to visit my brother that was graduating bootcamp in the US Navy... Needless to say, one heck of a first impression.. I've since been all over the US and Canada shooting large format film and I have found there are dicheads just about everywhere so I shouldn't single out Chicago.. I've taken many shots of Chicago ... I remember shooting at sunrise from around 82nd on the beach and a homeless man chatted for about an hour on the subject of old cameras..
  • Melissa
    you have been all over sounds like... You are right about that , there are jerks all over the world . I live in florida and I have to say the town I live in used to be such a small friendly town but over time people have gotten into a rush and just arent very courteous anymore. Being from the south you just expect it here but not so. I think mainly cause so many tourists have invaded us lol.. but if it werent for tourists our economy would be worse than what it is in certain parts of fl. Well I know that chicaog is just one part of illinois and Im sure the other parts are really beautiful.
  • Kathleen
    One of the statements most frequently made in connection with this horrible story is that one person could be out of his or her mind and therefore commit a murder but not such a lot of people. It’s decades ago now that I first learnt about Sylvia (by Kate Millett’s book, at a time when I needed to save my pocket money for quite a while so I could pay for it. Too young actually to read this, I do remember terrible nightmares once I had read the first half, and they lasted for months, with my parents none the wiser to what they came from). Anyway, in the meantime I have come to the conclusion that the violence against Sylvia partly stemmed from the very fact that the culprits were so many. It’s a systemical kind of thing. Like bullying in school. Mostly, there IS one main bully, but others, too, who assist him (thereby confirming his power) and after a while, expectations come up: Go on, do this, do that … and people fulfil them because of the power of the group. To prove their worthiness. Or just to avoid being picked upon themselves. Or because it offers one chance to feel not like an underdog but superior. (Ah, the kick of it!!! Not the underdog, oh no, not this time, make the most of it while you can, because here and now, it’s approved, it’s even ordered, and who knows when that opportunity will come back?.)
  • Stephen Hostetterh
    God gave us free will to do as we wish... Some wish to just live Some choose the darker road... I think Sylvia and Saint Stephen have much in common... They both died a horrible death and the son thats sit's to the right stood to greet them as they rose to heaven... I think Sylvia was no less then a Maytr and a Saint... Her story is like non other.. Once you know about Sylvia you never forget her
  • Kathleen
    Hi, Stephen, with all due respect but that's just plain silly. Syliva was a person made from flesh and blood with virtues and faults like everybody else and she didn't die for a cause either. You don't d her - or any other abused children - a favour if you turn her into something she wasn't. I'm not sure about free will either. We do have the possibility of a free will, that's right. But haven't you ever done anything you didn't understand yourself?
  • Stephen Hostetterh
    Kathleen,, If you look up the meaning of Martyr you'll see that it also means : one word: "victim" Was Sylvia not a victim..? Sylvia lived in the days of black & white TV with only 4 channels if you were lucky.. Sylvia wasn't exposed to the things teens are exposed to these days... Sylvia lived in innocent times,,, I know I was alive at the time.. Sylvia got saved at a local church while she was in the house on NY and just 3 months later she'd be dead...
  • Stephen Hostetterh
    To answer your last question: Yes, I have done things I didn't understand and it was usually fueled by an alcoholic beverage..
  • Kathleen
    Okay! Under the influence is not what I meant, but how about this: When in company, an individual's ways of action always correspond to those of a person belonging a cultural level clearly below the individual's own. This seems to be true disregarding of the way the cultural level was achieved (by formal education or on the person's own steam). Does that ring a bell? As to innocent times - less flooded by the media, sure, and with a lot less of knowledge, but how about Vietnam? And the violent death of President Kennedy? Both were amply covered in print media and cinema news and TV, thus happening right before young people's and children's eyes. Has there ever been an era that was truly innocent?
  • Stephen Hostetter
    I think that many people are cruel by nature and the only thing they have in their favor is they have time to think about what they do... All the people involved in the death of Sylvia had lots of time to think about what they were doing.. When you ask me , have I ever done anything I didn't understand , It keeps bringing me back to the question,, why didn't Sylvia save herself..? Yes,, your right about Kennedy and Vietnam,, MLK,, and the = rights movement.. These were all trying times but in no way do they come close to todays problems.. People today are very disrespectful , hateful , spiteful , and down right low down... And all is exceptable in the name of GREED ... We pass these values down to our offspring and then we wonder why our children join gangs.. We have a government that teaches us about an attitude of an "eye for an eye" is ok and we need to support this madness.. They send thousands of kids off to war to die and for what ? When will we kill enough people and how many of our children must die ?
  • Stephen Hostetter
    I'd also like to add.. I think when the ordeal started Sylvia's tormentor's thought if what they were doing was that bad Sylvia would just leave ... When Sylvia didn't leave or try to get help the crowd may have thought she liked her treatment and might have contributed to her prolonged condition.. We do know that close to the end Sylvia did try to escape and this was suspected that she might try is why she was tied up in the basement... What baffles me is that Gertrude was 38 yrs. old with no criminal record and non of these kids had any criminal record either... Why did they all one day decide to become criminals...? Gertrude had many borders along the way and never laid a hand on them... Why Sylvia..? Why
  • Kathleen
    Hi, Stephen, these are interesting suggestions you made in your last blog. Millett quoting from the court protocols and these quoting Jenny, I believe, remarks that Johnny and at least one of the younger children (my guess is Randy silly-grin-in-silly-gob Leper) frequently said during the torturing scenes "She likes it". Of course she didn't like it, but this is what children a lot younger use to say when they are "neglecting" their dolls, for example: "She wants it that way". I remember I said that when I was five and my mother said something like "Your doll feels alone because you were playing outside all day" (It had been expensive, I guess). And then, afterwards, many people seem to have said that Sylvia must have had a streak of masochism. Which I don't believe, but, of course, it does lead back to the eternal question: Why didn't she seek help when she could still have done? One thing is, both Sylvia and Jenny as well as the Baniszewski children and the children from the whole neighbourhood were used to physical punishment and thought it normal. the torturing increased only gradually. So when and how would you have determined that this or that now crossed a line? And, then, New remarked upon Jenny's crude speech. It's probably safe to assume that Sylvia was not the eloquent one either. Try to find words about why this is different ... Another thing is that they probably thought no one could help them or would have wanted to. Their parents had problems enough, Diana was in the throes of separation after her marriage had barely begun, the priest and social worker had been and gone, and then, if people hear you scream and they don't act upon that, words won't get them moving either. The gradual increase works as well for Baniszewski and friends, of course. They started because Gertrude encouraged them, with her words and her own behaviour, and then they were addicted and needed more and more of it. (Ever seen kids indulge in bullying at school? The victim's fear is real. That's the kick of it. Ah, to feel superior ... at least once in life!) Gertrude herself must have transferred the anger and fury of a lifetime, 38 years of frustration, to one person because - hell knows why Sylvia, but there she was. The transfer is quite obvious in the pregnancy thing. She knew of course that it was Paula who was pregnant but, for reasons best known to herself, she couldn't let fly at Paula. Afraid to lose her daughter's love, maybe, or afraid Paula would hit her. But with Sylvia she could so she accused her of being pregnant. What do you think?
  • Stephen Hostetter
    Hello Kathleen,, I think evil came in the form of cough syrup to Gertrude... I know that if you drink enough (only 4 ounces) you can experiance a bad trip for a full day..Also causes halucination and severe paranoia Also, they described Gertrude as a haggardy woman ,,sometimes looking young and other times she'd look totally different (elderly) You can whitness it for yourself by veiewing all the photos taken of her... I think all those kids knew Gertrude was messed up ... would be something she couldn't hide on her best day.. But who knows For all those involved to go so long and never break the hold of these hedious ideas ... Not one kid turned away and said," enough".. Sylvia was treated not like a human but an object, a toy , a rag doll... How can one do this for any length of time before realizing the insanity they have become involved in and tell authorities? I agree with what you say about kids on a playground and the "fear is real" is why the victim runs like hell... usually
  • Kathleen
    Hi, Stephen, Cough sirup? Maybe, as it may well have been available without a prescription, and if it was cheap ... But wouldn't Erbecker have jumped at this line of defence? I know that during the trial G.'s medication was discussed to some extent since her asthma medication had side effects (nervousness, anxiety etc.) so Phenobarbitol was prescribed to mitigate these and Erbecker claimed she had taken a lot of that, so that she was in a trance most of the time. It didn't work because on the one hand the expert witness said that even large doses of Phenobarbital with or without asthma medication would have made her dizzy and tired but not disorientated, and on the other hand her doctor said he had not made out a prescription for her. And then, even if she had had one from another doctor, she still would have had to pay for the medication, which she couldn't have. I agree completely about Gertrude's photos. It's hard to believe that they always show the same woman. The half profile that Millett rightly describes as "ghostlike" must have been made at the time of her arrest, then there is that one made during the trial where her head is thrown back a bit and where I always see the potential of a beauty. and if one looks at the one where she is side by side with Richard Hobbs one is completely perplexed to see that this was actually a young woman. (And by the way, did you ever come across the one from 1985? Again, you can recognize her but only if you have taken a good long look. Skilfully applied make up (with beautiful eyes, I have to say it), well dressed, a lot healthier than with 38, and if not looking younger than her age certainly not older. Would she even have reached that age out of prison?) Only, I don't quite now what you are getting at. Are you saying her looks reflect her state and prove how changeable that was? Young looking when she had gotten her cough stuff and old when she lacked it? It is true that she looks worst in the "ghostlike" one and better in the ones made at the trial because then she had filled up a bit and got her asthma stuff when she needed it (got lots of it, to judge by her behaviour). In the one with Johnny, though, she looks more like his gran than like his mum, so it doesn't work across the board. I agree about the neighbourhood children being aware that she was messed-up, maybe with the exception of Richard Hobbs who Dean maintains had a crush on her that turned him blind. As to her own children ... do you realize something like that about your own parents? Especially if the parents are divorced and you don't have anyone to compare with? Stephanie perhaps, but Paula was as just as messed up as her mother was, or worse. Johnny seems not to have had a grasp on anything, though, and the others were just too young. And of course, you are right about the time factor. I can imagine someone being taken away by a wild fury, for whatever reason, and giving in to it - once, twice, and even more often, and I can imagine giving in to the seduction of letting fly - but continuing this for a long time, seeing it getting worse and worse, and not turning away, that' s completely inexplicable. They were never really questioned about it during the trial. That would have been the answers you could really have learnt something valuable from. What did you feel, when you were paddling her, Ms. B.? Did it make you feel better, Johnny? Did you really believe, Paula, that Sylvia was pregnant? Would you like to start it all over with another victim if you could? Was it because Sylvia was so pretty? Did you all think you could go on and on without it ever having consequences for you? And why, Randy Leper, why are you grinning? (I know it's irrational but that one really puts my back up. Sometimes more than all the others.)
  • Stephen Hostetter
    Hello Kathleen,, Yes, cough syrup was over the counter in those days ... Erbecker didn't use it because it couldn't be proven on paper.. Is my guess.. If Gertrude wasn't tripping from it she would have been detoxing from it's absence.. I think Randy Leper smiled to disguise his fear which is considered a normal reaction with some people.. Next time your at a scary movie and something bad happens look around and you'll see this behavior in action... Steve
  • Stephen Hostetter
    We might also mention the fact the Erbecker was a public defender in this case..
  • Kathleen
    Hi, Steve, yes, he was a public defender and quite overworked, too. At the same time, very skilled - and terribly vain, don't you think so? In almost every famous case, you have one lawyer or an attorney doing war dances. Of course, if your case is desperate ... You are right about Leper and probably right about this being a common behaviour, but I 've seen a lot of it at some time or other, and I think there's more to it than just fear. Leper behaved like this each time he had to admit to something. Grinning, rolling his eyes upwards - that's mocking. And there is something behind it I don't care for. Have a nice day, Kathleen
  • Stephen Hostetter
    Hi Kathleen,, Yes I agree ,, Erbecker was over worked but was still an effective lawyer for his client... He kept her from getting the electric chair.. I think Leper was an immature kid and may have enjoyed the attention... The fear factor played a part but maybe not as much as his diranged mind.. I wonder what Randy has been up to...? He's someone you never hear about... Did he get God too?
  • Kathleen
    Hi, Steve, the bit I know about post-Banishewski-trial Randy is from net blogs by people from Indianapolis. They don't say anything about him, too, finding God, on the contrary, Sylvias death somehow seems to have caught up with him. While he didn't have more problems with the law as Hubbard did, he had a hard time in the town - couldn't keep a job for more than a few days, couldn't find a partner, couldn't even keep an appartment without soon getting thrown out and was generally disliked in Indianapolis. Some bloggers hinted that people indeed couldn't stomach his behaviour in court. I guess, one doesn't hear so much about him because it was finally decided not to charge him so he was like any other person with rights to their privacy etc. I know there was that motion that his intelligence be tested because someone was afraid about his validity as witness. I don't think anything ever came of it, but these doubts may have been the reason for any idea of charging him being dropped.
  • Kevin
    Anon, I don't believe GB and the kids were misogynists. GB was pure evil, plain and simple. The kids just followed her cue, possibly with an evil side in them also. GB did not treat Paula or any of the other girls nearly as badly as she did Syvia. What was striking was the lack of a mature male figure in that household. That may have possibly made the difference between life and death for Sylvia. Kevin
  • Kathe Mendelsohn-White
    I just recently discovered that this film was made, although I have long been aware of "The Basement", even having at one time spoken with Kate Millett herself about the subject. My husband is the youngest of Gertrude's children, Dennis Lee Wright Jr., the son she had with Dennis Wright before he abandoned her. He grew up in Anderson IN with a different name and not knowing about his past, other than the fact that his birth mother was a murderer. He only discovered the story once he became an adult. After several years of extreme ups and downs, he now knows he is manic depressive - bi-polar, and it is almost certain that Gertrude also had the same disease. I am not condoning what happened, by ANY stretch of the imagination, but bipolar disorder is a very puzzling disease. It is just a shame that so many lives were destroyed - of course Sylvia herself, but no one mentions the younger children that really could not be held culpable. What ever happened to Dennis Lee Wright, my husband's birth father? It is always said that he abandoned Gertrude, but has no one ever heard anything on his whereabouts?
  • Kathleen
    Hi, Kathe, thanks so much for contributing this. The possibility of a disease in G. has, of course, always been discussed, off and on, and I DID reckon, it was true. it HAD to be something yclothymical. Now we know, and that helps a lot, actually it's a relief, though I could not explain why, not really. I 'd like to know, though - answer only if this is not too intrusive - if your husband had heard of Ms. Baniszewski before he found out that she - and not that anonymous "murderer" was his mother, and how he found out. (There ARE triggers, right?) I'd love some elucidation on bipolar disorder in itself, too, and its treatment. It can't have been easy for you and your husband, and I wish you all the best.
  • Kathe Mendelsohn-White
    Kathleen: Thanks very much for your kind comments. No, my husband had not heard of Gertrude Baniszewski before he discovered the truth. When he was 20 years old he was in a very bad motorcylce accident and at that time asked his adopted mother for the truth, and she gave him limited information. We didn't search out more until many years later, after we were married and our son was born. By that time, Gertrude had already died. My husband was unable to ever read either "The Basement" or "Indiana Torture Slayings", but I relayed portions of it to him as he could handle it. He did not discover he was bipolar until he entered rehab for drinking. Strangely enough, I come from a family myself with bipolar disorder, both my mother and grandfather were manic-depressive, but yet I could not see it in my own husband. Yes, usually there is a trigger - and most times bipolar people "self-medicate" with alcohol and drugs. It is a chemical imbalance in the brain. Unfortunately, sometimes the prescription drugs are worse than the disease itself; and causes many side effects that also disrupt ones life. I'd like to say that everything has gone peachy since then for my husband, but not so much. He is a tortured soul, and even though he was just an infant at the time of what happened to poor Sylvia, he feels the blame. He remembers his time at the orphanage, which was where he went right after the crime was commited, and he was only there only for a few months before being place in a foster home, so actually his memory goes almost to when it all happened, which is more than a little eerie.
  • Stephen Hostetter
    Kathe,, I myself am a greatful recovering alcoholic since 1987.. I know what alcohol can do to me and ppl around me... When I was an active drinker I was very unpredictable, very depressed, lonely and always down..Alcohol is not medication I was arrested for a DWI in 1987 and sent to the city lock-up in the City County Building.. In that lock-up I asked God for this monkey to be removed and I would do something in return.. To make a long story short I left that building a new man without any desire to drink alcohol or to be drunk.. I feel all I had to do was to believe in something greater then me that was within me and then a miracle would take place.. I drank heavy for 15+ yrs. My aunt was married to a Tim Wright and his brother's name is Cliff Wright of Cliff Wright construction.. You might try and call Cliff (in yellow pages) and ask him if he has a brother named Denis, I often wondered myself.... It wouldn't surprise me because I have many ties to Sylvia for whatever reason I can't explain .. Kind Regards Steve
  • Kathleen
    Kathe: this sounds as if bipolar disorder can have many faces. Not just because you didn’t recognize it. If your husband was first diagnosed when in treatment for something connected but in itself, dif-ferent, well, it could just as well have gone undetected for a while longer. I also get the impression that treatment is mainly or even entirely medication, i. e. chemistry. Since it’s caused by a chemical imbalance, that is alright, but what strikes me as very disturbing is that so many people with disor-ders supposedly based on physical disfunction have biographies that would be amply enough to cause psychical problems. (I’ve done some research on Jürgen Bartsch, and many of the medical experts agree he was born with a sadistical inclination. Maybe - but the childhood he had just bog-gles your mind.) The image your comments evoke is actually heartbreaking: a child just 1 year old – if I remember this right – in an orphanage, completely confused, probably scared, too, and trying to understand why such a violent change has taken place in his life. And some children in that kind of situation end up believing THEY did something wrong and are being punished. And some go on from there punishing themselves. By means of a disorder? Why not? And you are right, that thing about the memory IS eerie. Especially because, despite his then so young age, these must be memo-ries linked to language. Since he can put them into words, right? So there must be memories of the other kind, too, which one cannot describe but which go back even further. Could feeling the blame, as you say he does – when in no way, but in absolutely no way, he could be for anything in this whole sad story – have something to do with that? It must be hard, very hard, for him and for you, and think you have been very brave. And, Steve: this is getting strange. First, there is your connection to Lester and Betty, then your connection to the Shoemaker’s boys and the Hobbs’ house (did his father move after his wife’s death?) and now this – and a lot of it, if I get you right, happening to you without your making the connection at the time. What is this with you and Sylvia? Or is it just because you grew up so close by? Write about it. A book, I mean, you were there in this place, at that time and you knew the at-mosphere – do something about it. Looks as if you were meant to, anyway.
  • Stephen Hostetter
    Kathleen,, Yes I agree very strange indeed ... I remember one day I was walking down the alley behind the Hobbs house on my way home from my buddies.. I noticed Mr.Hobbs sitting on a chair behind his garage cleaning fish, I stopped to have a look inside his bucket full of keepers.. We chatted for a short time but I can't remember the conversation. I can't remember what was said but it seems like he mentioned his being alone except for his sons and how they liked fishing... I wish I could remember more My very first encounter with a connection to Sylvia would have been the very yr. she died My brother and I was trailing on my stingray bicycle and was just down the street from home on Alton + 6th Ave. in Beech Grove.. The policeman that pulled us over was going to write use a ticket for trailing which was against the law... He informed us we would have to attend traffic school and to walk the bike home.. My brother and I ran home crying while my mother came to the doorway of our home to see what happened.. When we told her what had happened she looked at the ticket to read the officer's name and with much difficulty she finally made out J. Baniszewski... This happened in the spring of 1965 , I was 5 and my brother 4... we got the ticket right accross the street from the Mcguire home where I now think Darlene Mcguire lived although I could be wrong about that I'm 99% sure I'm correct.. maybe related to if not Yeah,, pretty bizzare
  • Stephen Hostetter
    Also,,, I know the story gets even more bizzare... I was also very good friends with Barb Sanders family, the social worker that went to the death house while Sylvia was there... I was friends with her sons Mike, Homer, and her daughter Debbie... They lived in a double on north 5th. Ave. Hobbs lived on south 5th. Ave. Anyway,, Mike had problems ,, kind of like mental issues he said brought on by the Likens incident He would even get violent yelling obsenities at his mother.. I would try my best to help calm him down by telling him his mother was a good person and she would have stopped the madness in a minute if she could have known... It was Homer Sanders that was one of my best friends in school ,,, we attended many a rock concert together .. The Sanders family moved closer to the inner city and I never seen them again
  • Stephen Hostetter
    I'd like to say more about this family.. Homer sen. the father was a trash hauler at the time not making killer money in fact just making ends meet.. Barbara I suppose got benefits with the social worker job ... Big Homer as I called him was a big man strong as an ox and he loved kids.. I was his buddy I always got the impression.. I never felt unwanted there they truely loved their kids and all their friends.. Barbara wasn't the greatest of house keepers and the double they lived in on 5th. has a creepy resemblance to the death house on New York st.. I liked Debbie we kissed a few times but nothing serious I was just a freshman in HS or around then which would have been 76 The timeline when I talked to Mr. Hobbs would have been when I was 9 in 69 so Ricky would have been in the house at the time... If my memory serves me well I can remember seeing Ricky with thick rimmed glasses walking in the backyard on occassions..I used the alley a lot as kids did
  • Kathe Mendelsohn-White
    Kathleen: Yes, bipolar disorder is really tragic for the people who have it and their families. And I agree, what happened to my husband is truly heartbreaking. Last night he commented that God must have put him here to pay for the sins of his family. I tried to tell him that God would not do such a thing, and that he must have had a different reason. He also mentioned that he has a strange feeling that of all of his half-siblings, he feels a connection to Marie somehow, and thinks that perhaps she tended to him more than the others. However, he does not want to try to find her - he thinks that probably none of the kids liked him much because he did not have the same father, and it must have made it more tight financially once he was born, so the others probably resented him. He was taken in as a foster child by the family that would end up adopting him. His adopted mother also had some serious issues and was abusive to him. She would tell him he was a very bad evil boy who would end up like his real mother (for things like stealing cookies) and that they could always "send him back" at any time. "What did my real mom do?", he would ask. And she would scream back "I'm your real mom now". So he quit asking, but it didn't take a brain surgeon to figure out that she was probably a murderer or she wouldn't be in the penitentiary for life. At some point, in high school, one of his adopted sisters outed him as the murderer's son (however he did not know, and still didn't know who his "real" mom was") and he was basically ostracized. He has spent his life as a loner who is very mistrusting of everyone. Steve: I've picked up the phone maybe three times now to try to call Cliff Wright, but I chicken out every time. My husband isn't aware that I am putting comments on this blog (and I don't think he would be very happy about it either), and I'm a bit afraid of opening up this can of worms if this is indeed the brother of my husband's birth father. My husband often says that he so relates to Sylvia and he is haunted by her face, while his birth family are people he just doesn't get at all. I agree with Kathleen that it is very strange all of your connections to the Likens, Hobbs, etc. - even the incident when you and your brother got the ticket from John B. Do you know what happened to him, by the way?
  • Kathleen
    Kathe, your husband’s story is even more disturbing than I thought. I have no idea how adoption or foster families policy was at the time in the US, but I should have thought these families were carefully picked, with a view to how stable and warmhearted and empathic the parents are and so on. Especially where children with a traumatic background were concerned. Your husband’s foster/adoptive mother seems to have been so unstable herself – I’m trying to put that kindly – as to be absolutely unfit to be a foster mother let alone adopt a child. As to what he said about Marie – you know, your comments were on my mind yesterday evening and I thought that if he wanted to contact some members of his biological family, Marie and/or Stephanie were the best options. Then, today, I read you quoting him about Marie. This is a decision one can only take for oneself, though, and for no one else. Not even for a spouse - and I can understand you couldn’t get your nerve up to phone a possible uncle. I don’t think there is a reason to suppose his biological siblings didn’t want him, though. Because up to the moment the mistreating was well on its way and partly beyond that time, the Baniszewskis , among each other, seem to have been a family whose members loved each other like in any other family. Remember, when Shirley was in the witness box, how she and Paula and Gertrude cried at seeing each other again? And how Stephanie said, she loved her mother and Paula? There is no reason to believe this love did not extend to the smallest one. And indeed, Marie seems to have taken care of her little brother quite frequently. There is one part in the “Basement” where Millett quotes her directly, again in the witness box: “I was holding him on my lap” or something; after that, Millett comments somewhat cynical on “this charming family picture” and she says that Marie seemed often to mix up truth and fantasy but if she was not holding him then, she must have done it other occasions, or else it wouldn’t have come to her mind. This idea of feeling unwanted is certainly real, but it looks as if it related either to the adoptive family or to the time in the orphanage (see what I wrote before). But if he talks about the Baniszewskis (I got the impression that this happens frequently, correct me if I’m wrong) they seem to be on his mind. Stephen, should you ever take up my suggestion and write your own book about Sylvia, one chapter of it could be titled “Stumbling into Leftovers”. Somehow, the most fascinating is that you were not looking for it at all, you didn’t even know there was something to know, but the leftovers from Sylvia’s life seem to have pursued you anyway. It reads as if inner Indianapolis were a small village where you can’t help running into some persons again and again. Well, I’m not familiar with Indianapolis’ geography – for instance, I first thought Beech Grove was a suburb, but it must be rather central - but I get the impression that all these people lived and continued to live just around the corner from each other. Which, in itself, is a bit strange. At the time of the murder, Rickie’s family lived on Dennis Street, right? If 4 years later they were on south 5th. Ave, they must have moved house, for many reasons maybe, as their own family history was sad enough, but if I wanted to get away from haunting memories, I’d move as far away as I could. I hadn’t realized, either, that your contact with the Hobbs’ family took place so early – that is, in that small time window following Rickie’s release from the prison and before his death at so young an age. I know that you are not too sure about having seen Ricky – the glasses are a clue but the brothers may have been just as shortsighted – but if it was him, this means his Dad at least took him back in and since his Dad talked to you about “his boys” (that includes Ricky, doesn’t it?) and how they liked fishing, well, maybe Rickie had at least some good times. I always felt that he got into something that wasn’t in himself at all at all.
  • Stephen Hostetter
    Kathe,, I don't even know if he's still alive,,, maybe hard telling Kathleen,, Beech Grove is a suburb of sorts ,, it has it's own mayor and police hence John B. as a Beech Grove policeman.. Beech Grove,, in case no one knows is birthplace to the famous actor Steve Mcqueen which I was named after.. While we're on the subject of Steve's I couldn't help but notice Sylvia is buried next to several ppl with the last names Stevens and Stevenson... BTW,,, Ricky lived 2-3 doors down from the death house on Denny st. at time of crime and no he didn't seem like the torturing type
  • Stephen Hostetter
    Kathe,,, I don't think Sylvia would want another wasted life in her honor.. Dennis Jr. must try to find a way to be happy...
  • Stephen Hostetter
    Kathleen,,, The thought of a book and the title you mentioned is an awesome idea and your right I probably should tell my story in book form... It would take many years to research and write a book especially for someone like me... I'm still inspired by the idea,,,,who knows
  • Kathe Mendelsohn-White
    Hi Kathleen: I completely agree with you that it is a travesty that the state did not do their due diligence with respect to my husband's placement in foster care and eventual adoption. My husband's adopted mother had taken in several foster children over the years, perhaps primarily for the money that the state provided. She also had six biological children, all much older than my husband. His adopted father didn't want any more children when they took him in; and made no bones about saying so either, so my husband never felt wanted or a real part of the family. They were complete religious fanatics, that didn't believe in Christmas (Christ wasn't really born on Dec. 25 - that was chosen to replace a pagan holiday - so it was a sin to celebrate), mixed dancing or swimming (male and female) and the like. The home did not even have a television. The social worker did demand that they buy a tv, because "we were going to be on the moon soon". His adopted siblings were extremely happy to get a television, though. He was finally legally adopted in 1971 at the age of 7, which must have coincided with Gertrude's second trial. He was always introduced as the "adopted" brother or son. Not hard to understand why he left home at 18 and then spent many years estranged until the pending birth of our son in 1992. At that time they made an effort to try to welcome him back. He even took our son back to Indiana in 1994 for a visit (I could not go), but it ended very badly and my husband came home much earlier than expected. He has never gone back since. Both adopted parents are now deceased, and none of his adopted siblings have contacted him since. The only blood relative that he has ever known is our son. As far as Marie, yes I remember the comments in Kate Millett's book; and yes, I think it was something about holding baby Denny (as he was called) at the time that some of the abuse was happening. I need to go back and reread these books as it has been many years now. Talking about the Baniszewski's has gone in waves, obviously resurging recently due to his knowledge of "An American Crime", which he has decided he just cannot watch. I found it interesting that of all of the characters in the film, the people's names who were changed were my husband's and his father's (Why baby Kenny instead of baby Denny and Andy instead of Dennis?). And Steve, I agree with Kathleen that you probably should write a book. It does seems as though it was meant for you to do so. And I wholeheartedly agree with you that my husband needs to find a way to be happy; and that Sylvia would not want another life wasted. He hopes to set up a foundation or something in Sylvia's honor someday, and maybe that will give him the feeling of accomplishment that he so needs. While he has done many things for a living over the years, the last 10 or so he has been so disabled mentally that he has been unable to work. That is a frustrating place for a man in his 30's - 40's (he is now 44). He also has been a heavy smoker (like Gertrude, strangely enough) and now has COPD and asthma as well.
  • Stephen Hostetter
    Kathe,, That is great..! A foundation in Sylvia 's honor she would be pleased.....
  • Kathleen
    Hi Kathe and hi, Steve, Kathe, I guess, the names in the film were changed to protect both of them because they were neither guilty nor charged (well, of course not, what with?) so in the film they were symbolized rather than impersonated. As a film company they could be sued for a lot of money if they made a mistake there, so, to be on the safe side … I agree completely that a foundation in Sylvia’s honour would be a great thing. You haven’t said yet who’d be the persons to benefit – those with bipolar disorder or abused children? I guess, if people knew who set up the whole thing the impact could be enormous, but then, goodbye privacy. But there’ s one other thing I’ve been wanting to ask you almost from the beginning. Do you have something or someone to support YOU? I mean, a group for family members of people with bipolar disorder maybe or a strain-processing therapy for yourself or just one special person - anyway, a space where you do not have to be the strong one. Of course life is very hard for your husband but I don’t think it’s much easier for you and I believe you are under considerable pressure almost all the time and could do with a break now and then. As to the adoption procedure – may I at least assume that it has been altered since then? Because I still don’t get the logic of it. If someone is truly religious they should have a concept of sin, and if taking in a child for money and then make him feel unwanted doesn’t qualify as a sin, I don’t know what would. There’s another aspect I find quite confusing but maybe that’s just because I’m not familiar with US law at all (by the way, is this federal or state?) If a woman is in prison for life – is she forced to give young children up for adoption? It’s clear they’d have to be placed somewhere, and if there is no relation to take them in it would have to be either an orphanage or a foster family, but could the mother, at least in theory, keep custody? I’m asking this, too, because your husband was adopted rather late and the time at which he was gives room to some interesting questions. And Steve, what do you mean, especially for s.o. like you? I agree, research WOULD take years, and writing – well, a writer is never as happy with his own work as he thought he’d be and you are not likely to be different. But it isn’t as if you couldn’t handle language. I like the way you can evoke an atmosphere (e. g.. the social worker and her family. With Millett and Dean she was just s.o. who might have been Sylvia’s last chance but who failed to find out what was happening. They didn’t blame her but she remained someone anonymous. You make her a living woman on whom this sad case had consequences.). Same goes for the others you describe. One more question, even if it seems a bit silly: Mr. Hobbs and the boy with the thick glasses (Ricky or one of his brothers): Did you like them? Young children, as you were then, are often quite easy about liking or disliking, they rely on a tummy feeling and usually it’s Yes or No. Well?
  • Stephen Hostetter
    Hello Kathleen,,, It's quite fun sometimes to sit and think back at your life ,, so I think of the good times mostly .. I was really blessed to have so many good people around me ,, but then I guess maybe I planned it that way.. I surrounded myself with good people and it led me all through Sylvia's family ..! Why.? I may never know why.. Your question about the Hobb's boy isn't silly at all.. I may have thought the boy I seen seemed a bit troubled ... He sat in the backyard swing a lot by himself.. If anything I had a soft spot for him if he seemed a tad weird, I was just that way.. But at the time I really don't remember connecting him to Sylvia... More then likely I heard the story about " a girl " Sylvia is not a common name and difficult for a kid to remember .. I learned about(or at least first heard the name) Sylvia in 1974 at the age of 14... At the time I was going to the Hightlberger's down the street from the Hobbs' I was in 4-6 th grade which would have been 1968-1972.. I honestly can't say how I might have reacted If I'd known the full story of Sylvia and known Ricky (the guy in the thick rimmed glasses) had done what he'd done.. I doubt that I would have passed it off as just a mean streak even though at that young age we all seemed to possess one ... I think in those days about the worst story with mean boys might involve a cat but never a human being.. I wish I could remember more about Ricky but theres probably nothing more to say other then he was a basket case and kept to himself... Mr. Hobbs seemed very normal
  • Kathe Mendelsohn-White
    Hi Kathleen: I work in business and legal affairs at Warner Bros., so I know the legal implications, but since both names are out in the public record, I think the liability was low. I just thought it was amusing. I imagine that Denny would want the foundation to be set up for abused children. You're right, if it was known who set it up, the impact could be great. I'm not sure that Denny would want the publicity for him though, but bringing awareness to the issue of abused children is another matter. Thank you for asking whether I have a support group or something; I am often told by friends that they don't know how I keep it all together. I don't think that I mentioned that our son is autistic - very high functioning and we have great hopes for him - but that also adds another layer to the dynamic. As far as the adoption procedure, the way I understand it is that Denny was not legally adopted until 1971 because Gertrude had not relinquished her parental rights until then. I think that it coincided with the second trial, and she finally said "just take him". At least that's what his adoptive mother told him - I guess that may or may not be true. Not everything she told him about his background was true. Sometimes it was her "spin" on things. And I agree with you on the religious issue. I have found that sometimes people that claim to be the most religious can be really the worst offenders of what I thought God and religion are all about.
  • Kathleen
    Hi, Kathe, You sure do have a lot on your plate, I can only repeat what your friends say, I can’t imagine how you manage. I am glad, though, that your son is so highly functioning. Are we talking Asperger’s or has his schooling so far been so effective? The youngest son of a good friend is autistic (mainly speech development problems). As they live in another country, I don’t see him that often so I no-tice every small progress and I know that my colleagues in special pedagogics have done wonders for him. He is in an integrative school and has his own teacher for the whole of a school day . Not only he has been speaking for a long time now, he even is growing out that phase of saying exactly what he thinks. That did cause problems for a while. Of course, one needn’t be autistic to do this and it might not sound so wrong but with an autistic person this is not about being franc or outspo-ken but about making yourself vulnerable in a way – well, you will know this better than I do. Ac-tually, I’m quite sure that people who meet him for the first time would take some hours, or longer, to notice he is a bit different from his peers. As to the adoption, this is much what I thought. It looks as if up to the second trial – the verdict, I guess – Gertrude had hopes of getting out of prison, if not at once then after a manageable amount of time, and taking Dennis jr. back, not relinquishing her rights until she knew it wouldn’t happen that way. Whatever his adoptive mother said about it, this means Gertrude didn’t give him up until she felt she had too. If one keeps in mind that she couldn’t know who her youngest child was with, this is a much more motherly decision than a refusal to have him adopted would have been, and it must have caused her a lot of pain. People who see her as the devil in person – there are plenty on this blog and worse on others – will not like this but I never got the impression that she was such a bad mother. I know that either Shirley or Marie once said in an interview they had been afraid of her – well, yes, I guess so, it has often been stated that in this place and time all the children were used to physical punishment and what with the pressure she was under AND her own very likely disorder, she was bound to let fly now and then. Add to this that either daughter would have felt the blame and would have wished to find an excuse for herself. Still, I firmly believe what I always believed – that she loved all her children in the same way most mothers do. Hi, Stephen, thanks for answering my questions, that was sweet. Is a basket case someone quiet and remote? (English, as you’ll have noticed, is not my mother tongue.) It does make you wonder, how a man like Mr. Hobbs, an unobtrusive man as you say, handled this kind of thing, first realizing that his son had been part of a crime, and such an appalling one, then making headlines, then being photo-graphed himself, people staring at him in the street – and then the trial, and the verdict. Your com-ments suggest, though, that he had forgiven him – something Ricky himself probably never did. And if up to the time you were 14 you had not heard of the case, it can’t have been the subject for everybody to talk about any longer, although this was neighbourhood, more or less. Unless people didn’t talk to you about this because you were a boy? Because of the embarrassment, I mean – I remember one woman on another blog saying she grew up in the vicinity and “had known about this all her life”, and there are Milletts comments about one of Sylvia’s former classmates and how she felt ASHAMED, of all things … By the way, I was quite surprised, too, that Sylvia is not a common name at your place,. I know and knew a lot of Sylvias and would rather have thought Jen-nifer and Diana to be rare names, at the time of their birth, that is, not today. Have a nice weekend, both of you, and take care.
  • Kathe Mendelsohn-White
    Hi Kathleen: Our son is a junior in high school and is mainstreamed for a bulk of his school day. He does have some special ed classes still though. He is extremely bright, but his main issue is socialization. He has never been comfortable with his peers. He has always enjoyed the company of adults over children. He was diagnosed while in day care prior to 3 years old, but it was still pretty new to people back in 1995. Now there are so many more autistic children and many more people are aware of the condition. But back then, I didn't even know what it was. Of course, I had heard of it, but I really didn't know anything. We have been extremely lucky though, because our son is able to express feelings and give us affection, something that some autistic children cannot do, so we do feel we have been blessed. He is an amazing person and we have exremely high hopes for him. I guess we'll never really understand why what happened happened to this family; but I do think that on some level, Gertrude did love all of her children. And I've seen posters on other blogs talk about how Marie and Stephanie, and I assume others, were afraid of their mother.
  • ross
    Kathe, Is your son actually autistic or does he have Asperger's? The autistic are generally unable to attend regular school. I have a relative who has Asperger's, which they actually refer to as highly functioning autism. He's a nice guy and very smart, but a bit socially awkward. He is almost like the Rain Man. To everyone: Does anyone know anything about John Baniszewski, Sr? He is someone we never hear about. While he was made out to be a deadbeat dad in the movie and on some blogs, he did take in Stephanie after the murder trial. I know this from the Indiana Torture Slaying book. Furthermore, I also read in The Indiana Torture slaying that old Gertie was quite selfish: despite living in a rathole house with nary enough food for the kids, she bought herself a fashionable furniture set as the kids slept in one room on a ratty old mattress. I also saw on a blog, from someone who must have known the family, that JB Sr. always paid his child support. Also, why were the other children (besides Stephanie) placed in foster care despite having a dad that was around?
  • Kathe Mendelsohn-White
    Hi Ross: My son is autistic, but high on the spectrum. They didn't diagnose it as Asperger's, but he is now mainstreamed for about 4 classes per day. He has "Rain Man" tendencies as well, in fact his name is Dustin and I call him Dustman. From what I understand about John B. Sr., he was not in arrears in his child support, however he had to prove he had made payments before he was able to get his kids back and it took several years to round up all of the receipts, etc. And yes, I also understand that Gertrude had a bedroom suite while there weren't enough mattresses for all of the kids in the house.
  • Stephen Hostetter
    Hello ,,,, I'm afraid I'll have to disagree with the new bedroom suite ,,,, Then you have to nail down a bedroom location which I am afraid the movie is spot on by portraying her on the couch as her bed. Besides,, she's is holding a kid hostage and was well aware of it,, which she indeed proves in the end.. The couch position in the livingroom would give her clear sight of the basement door and the upstairs door and the backdoor...
  • Stephen Hostetter
    and of course the frontdoor
  • Kathleen
    Stephen, this detailed information makes me assume that you have seen a floorplan of the ground floor, either of E. New York 3850 itself or of corresponding houses. If so, could you provide that somewhere - or just describe it? I always got the impression that from the front door you'd walk right into the kitchen. The couch G. slept on later - because she was unwell with asthma and the stairs were getting to much if she wanted to lie down during the day, I believe. Or was that just the reason she gave?
  • Kathleen
    Sorry - I meant, that couch was in the living room, or so I thought? Millett says somewhere that in that trial Marie maintained that Shirley had been "in there" to give G. a kiss during the branding. Anyway, I'd love to get some information about inside because I do find it confusing.
  • Stephen Hostetter
    Hello Kathleen,,, I have been in the house several times... Walking through the door facing New York st. you find yourself in the livingroom and facing the up-stairs steps and a small closet to it's right.. To the left is a entry door consisiting of two pillars flanked by bookshelves and to the left is a fake fireplace on the wall.. Through the pillars you enter the diningroom and keep right you enter the kitchen.. As you enter the kitchen the basement door is on the right.. As you turn around and enter the livingroom and head up stairs there is a landing half way up ... Up-stairs you'll find three bedrooms and one bathroom w/ no tub... As you reach the top of steps your facing a bedroom and if you look left you see another bedroom and If you turn your head far to the right looking behind your position you will see a bedroom with blue walls and painted on clouds... This is where the police found Sylvia.. So, recap,,,, Your standing at top of strps facing south,,, one bedroom to right, one directly in front and one to the right and behind you with the bathroom directly to your right... The basement steps go like this... You enter by stepping down to a landing then you must turn left then down a couple steps to another landing,,then you must turn right and then it's a straight shot down 7 or so steps with a crude rail down both sides... " all original" according to crime scene photos. At the very bottom of the steps there is a small landing between the steps and the basement east wall..This landing sits right on the floor and is just simple construction of 2x4's on end decked in with 1/2" CDX plywood.. Each block in the basement walls has the name Davis block Co. printed on them... The ceiling apears to have had a hardboard nailed up to the floor joist but has all been torn down leaving just the tattltale nails used to hold it up.. As you turn to the left you will see a brick chimney flew painted with bright red,blue, and black paint. Next to it is a gas pipe that is no longer hooked up and it is bent in the middle with much of the paint rubbed off where the bend is... There is some old plumbing on the east wall where a sink had been ,,, above that is a sealed up window with a PBR beer can on sill plate... If you are standing on the bottom landing and look to the right you'll see the opening to the crawl space which goes under the rest of the house... There is a nail on the bottom of the stair rail with burn marks in the shape of an hourglass or the shape of a 3 turned in both directions... I did notice slice marks in the wood at the bottom of the steps that could have been made with a shovel or sharp knife.. Above the last step there is a dirty hand print on a dropped part of the ceiling as though someone was trying to stop themselves from falling... The whole time I was there I got the impression this was a crime scene that was very in tact considering it happened so many years ago.. Nothing has been done to remove anything
  • Kathleen
    Hello, Stephen, thank you ever so much, this was clear and very helpful. When you say nothing has been done to remove these leftovers – well, possible leftovers, one doesn’t know for sure - you mostly refer to the basement, right? I looked at the house (outside) once on one of these satellite maps where you can move up and down and left and right, and it must have been newly done up then. I remember I thought that it didn’t look nearly as ugly as on the photos of the time and could, in fact, be quite a nice house. If one didn’t know about its history, that is. Later I saw some footage someone had put on the internet and there it looked quite derelict again. I understand, too, that the town (as the owner, I guess?) tried to put it to different uses over the years, but nobody stayed in for long, so something must have been done about the rooms on the ground and first floor on different occasions. I wonder why this did not include the basement. Or really I don’t. What I mean is, reading your description everybody would imagine that handprint to be Sylvia’s, and as to the nail with the burn and the slice marks in the steps … Oh God. Well, I don’t believe in ghosts nor that houses ever are really haunted. What I believe, though, is that if something evolving strong emotions happened in a place something lingers in the atmosphere that can be felt, more or less clearly, and this is where all these ghost stories come from. Maybe the people who used to live there didn’t feel much like going down. What did you feel like, being in there? (And WHEN were you there, as a young boy or as a grown-up?) There’s one more question, though, this is a double house, right? So the part with the porch facing Dennys Street had nothing to do with the Baniszewskis? Would that have been where the Vermillions lived, or was that the very small house on the other side? (Again, I saw that on this map, online. That one looked a lot worse and was boarded up). Kathe, are you well? It’s been a while since we read you on this blog. I hope you just have a lot to do and nothing else is wrong. Greetings to all!
  • Stephen Hostetter
    Hello Kathleen,,, The death house is boarded up as it is right now ... The house sits on the corner of Denny and New York st. The New York side ( both sides have a porch ) is the door entrance to 3850 which would be where the Silvia was.. The front of the house faces Denny st. and is the entrance to where the Vermillions lived.. This part is the part of the house with a crawl space under the house... As far as the hand print goes,, I think It's Sylvia's ... I was able to get a match by comparing the photo of Sylvia 's hands ( back cover of The Indiana Torture Slaying ) there is a crime scene photo of the torso and hands of Sylvia... Try to remember ,,, the house sat empty for 15 years (after 1965)and when it was rented out finally it didn't stay rented long by any one person... I was told by a former renter and she said the house was very creepy and she and her children wouldn't be there much longer.. The house right next door ,, on New York side has been torn down just this early spring... How did I feel while I was in the basement..?? Umm well ,,, I'm in the construction business and I generally look at a house with critiqual eyes .... While I was in the basement I must say I had a very paranoid feeling bordering on fear,,, I couldn't think of the house like a regular house because I was there for different reasons.. I couldn't stay there for any length of time without thinking about the crime and I can't see someone living there knowing the history.. I personally don't think the house is haunted by Sylvia's ghost but it may be haunted by something maybe just the memory I'm not sure.. As far as traffic of people going to the basement ,,, I don't think there has been much since 1965 Also I can tell you from my experiance as a remodeler and someone that has poured over crime scene photos ,,, this basement is in very original condition ,,, original steps and railing,, plaster on walls going down stairwell,, basement floor still exposed concrete,, floorjoist have slice marks from sharp object resembling a shovel blade,, the burn marks on handrail,, everything matches the crime scene photos from 1965... I was able to match certin marks on the handrail to the same marks in the crime scene photo ,, I have taken photos myself and everything matches up 100%.. The hand print is speculation but it matches up quite well to the crime scene photo as I mentioned.
  • Kathe Mendelsohn-White
    Hi Kathleen: I am still lurking and yes, quite busy. Actually, I found the board at imdb also, and when perusing there noticed some posts regarding wondering about the whereabouts of the children, etc. I piped in and before you know it I received a private message from someone who could put me in touch with Stephanie and/or Marie. Again, I had not told my husband and I was nervous because I thought he would be extremely upset with me because, after all, this is his private life. I usually never post on boards, but I guess I felt compelled to for some reason, both here and on that board. This person had information not only about Denny's birth family (and it was also confirmed that he was indeed loved very much by his siblings) but he also had information on Denny's birth father, Dennis Lee Wright. Apparently, he was exposed to Agent Orange in Vietnam (he didn't vanish, as has been reported, he was drafted) and he also had something called Huntington's Disease. He passed away in 1974 or 1975. The Napalm probably exacerbated the Huntington's. I had never heard of it before. It is an incurable degenerative brain disorder that is a little like Parkinsons, a little like Alzheimers, with crazy mixed in. You can live 10-30 years with it, but then you die of complications related to the disease, such as pneumonia or complications from a fall, etc. (Denny has chronic pneumonia, he has had it once a year for the last 8 years, and even had it twice one year.) A person with Huntington's has a 50/50 chance of passing it to his child. Dennis Lee Wright was an identical twin, and he also had two other siblings, another brother and a sister, and all four of them had Huntington's, which they inherited from their father, who inherited it from his father. So that means that Denny has a 50/50 chance of having Huntington's and now that I look at everything, I am almost sure that he does have it. And then of course, if he does, then there is a 50/50 chance that our son will have it as well. While this is obviously quite sobering news, it may also answer many of the questions I have had over the years about my husband's mental and physical well-being. In other words, it explains a lot. On the positive side though, I was connected to both Stephanie and Marie, and they were able to tell me interesting information about my husband as a baby and provide pictures that of course, he had never seen (I was able to confirm who I was by providing Denny's birth date, which was written on one picture of him at 2 days old). Denny was correct all along; Marie was the one who tended to him the most, and the last one to hold him before he was placed in foster care from Guardian House. Now I had all this information, about his birth family and his health history, and I knew I had to fess up to my husband about what I was doing online. I guess to say that our world has been turned upside down is an understatement. Denny has not yet spoken to either Stephanie or Marie, except with me as the conduit, but he did send a letter to Marie and Marie has sent one to him. Stephanie is working on one now, but she wanted to let Marie be the first since obviously Denny and Marie were very close. We are trying to take it slow for everyone because this is just so emotional, and there is so much to understand. Denny said this morning that he feels like he is going to wake up and this will all be a dream. I am trying to be there for him and help him through all of this. And I truly believe that all of this is happening for a reason, and that ultimately, it is part of God's plan.
  • Stephen Hostetter
    Hello Kathe,,,, Your son wouldn't have a 50/50 chance ... The chance degrades over generations Fantastic to hear about Denny and what has so far transpired... I hope everything goes well.
  • Ross
    Kathe: I'm glad to hear about you putting these pieces together, and hope that your husband takes it well. Did you talk to Stephanie or Marie at all about other things: such as life since 1965, growing up with Gertrude, etc.? I understand you have their confidence in mind, and don't want to get into specifics, but do you think you could give us some general info without getting too specific? Oh, and do you know what ever happened to JB Sr.?
  • Kathe Mendelsohn-White
    Hi Ross: Yes, I have spoken with both Stephanie and Marie about many things, including life since 1965. All of the children had very hard lives; Stephanie fared the best as she was sent to live with family members. But the others - Marie, Shirley and James - were all in foster care and were treated very badly. Although their names were changed, everyone knew who they really were, and their foster families mistreated them, much the same as my husband's adopted family did to him. Stephanie and Marie both told me that Denny was very much loved by all of his siblings, and through the years they had often wondered about Denny and how his life was going, if he married, had children, etc. There were several false reports about where Denny was throughout the years, so I'm sure they were a bit skeptical when here I came, but once I confirmed who I was by providing Denny's birth date, we started exchanging photos and any doubts they may have had vanished. I have found both Stephanie and Marie to be genuine and caring women and they have welcomed me into their hearts. They had been praying over the years for God to bring their baby Denny back to them if and when He found it best. Regarding JB Sr., they told me that he passed away a few years ago, after a long illness (I'm sorry but I don't remember now what - but I'll find out again). There is some discord in the family among the siblings and Stephanie and Marie were kept away from JB Srs. funeral and I think there are still some ill feelings there. Stephanie seems to be one in the family who still finds something good to find in all of her siblings, and she says she loves them all. She loved both of her parents. She even found a way to forgive Gertrude. Marie is more hardened to life, I believe, and I don't think has quite made that leap. Stephanie has also told Shirley that they found Denny, but I haven't spoken to her yet. We're trying to take this slow, and not get emotionally overloaded. No word on anything about Paula or Jim knowing anything about Denny. I would imagine that since Shirley knows, that Paula must now too. I now have a different view of most of the kids now that I've heard some stories of how they treated Denny - even Paula. who would tailor words to songs for Denny, such as the Superman theme (it's Super Baby! able to leap from a crib in a single bound...) and the Lone Ranger theme. Strangely enough, Denny has always had a "thing" for Superman, which he passed down to our son (who is currently a Superman-everything "freak" - Smallville is currently his fave tv show). As a teen, Den resembled a young Christopher Reeve and when he wore glasses was referred to as Clark Kent. By saying that I have a different view of the kids now doesn't mean that I condoned what happened at all, but I think hearing some of the things I was told gives some insight as to how it could happen. I'll just say that all of these children had very hard lives, before and after 1965.
  • Kathleen
    Kathe, these are stunning and breathtaking news – actually, I sit here with my heart pounding. I really hope that this development will do good to Dennis jr.. Maybe it’s already good for him to know that his first family did love him – at least it will take away this feeling of never having been wanted, and maybe it’s even good to know that what happened in his foster/adoptive family was nothing to do with him but that many of his siblings share these sad experiences. (What does that tell us about foster and adoptive families, though? I do believe it’s different now, that is, I know it is, mostly, but. still, I know some adopted daughters and I know some adoptive mothers – kind and caring women – but I‘ve yet to hear of an adopted daughter who became an adoptive mother). I’m glad to read that Marie and Stephanie are kind women. If anything can stop Denny identifying solely with Sylvia as the victim and concentrating on the blame and help him to see things more in perspective instead, then it’s this new contact. It really looks as if up to the time Sylvia and Jenny arrived and – well, whatever triggered this, the Baniszewskis were not much different from any other family. I wish to you and your family all the strength you will need for the next weeks and I’ll keep thinking of you, as most on this blog will, I’m sure. Maybe our goods wishes will bring you luck! As to the confusing thing about Huntington’s chorea - does that mean that the bipolar disorder diagnosis is off or is this something to add to it? Actually, I know a family where the father had Huntington’s and passed it on to one of his daughters, and I wonder how you can be so sure that your husband has it. There are a lot of physical symptoms (jerks, twists, like seizures, both in the body and in the face muscles), they develop first and increase quickly once they started and although the disease is very rare they are usually not mistaken for something else (other than the cognitive and behavioural ones, THEY could mean anything). Also, there is something else: in a woman, it is sure to begin before her menopause, so once she has reached that age, she’s out of the woods even if one of her parents had it. I’ not sure if that goes for men, too but there is a test to see if one has it or not, and there’s even another one to show if you might get it (You need blood samples of relatives for this one, however). Thinking of you, Kathleen
  • Kathleen
    Forgot to ask you something, Kathe - you said once you had spoken to Kate Millett. Did she find you or did you find her? I take it this was long after "The Basement" came out? Greetings!
  • Kai
    While it is interesting to find out about the Baniszweski children's lives, it is really difficult to feel anything other than apathy for how hard their lives turned out to be. Karma has a funny way of working out. Poster #49 seemed to have inside information on where Paula is and how she lives her life. In my opinion her whereabouts should be made public as she was the most culpable of them all. There should be no peace nor rest for her. It is sad that Dennis Jr. had such a terrible time, after all, he was just a baby and deserved to be placed with a family who would have been able to keep him in a loving way. Hopefully he finds peace.
  • Kathe Mendelsohn-White
    Hi Kathleen: I very much appreciate your kind words and thoughts for myself and my family. As for thinking that Denny probably does have Huntington's, I say this because many of the symptoms seem to be what he is experiencing. I've read that every case is different. I know about the genetic test, and we are scheduled to see a neurologist next week to discuss everything. One thing that Stephanie told me about Dennis Sr. was that he had an anger management problem, and he would explode and then he would be standing there looking confused as if he did not know what had happened or how he had gotten to that place. That sounds eerily similar to how my husband acts at times. Bipolar disorder may just be another thing he has, or maybe he started to have the emotional disturbances, etc. associated with Huntington's when he was diagnosed as bipolar. But I am thinking that bipolar disorder is just another ailment he may have, as from speaking with Stephanie there are some relatives in the family that have been diagnosed bipolar. Denny does also have some of the symptoms like loss of coordination, slurred speech (at times), jaw clenching, muscle contractions, etc. You're right; the cognitive and behavioral ones could mean anything, so I'm trying not to make too many assumptions without solid facts. But Denny proclaims himself "a knower" and believes that he must be dying. I am very nervous about the test and implications from the test such as possible discrimination for insurance. I did not know about women showing symptoms prior to menopause - I don't think there is a similar marker for men. I found Kate Millett back in the 90's when we first found out about both "The Basement" and "The Indiana Torture Slayings". At the time Denny was mostly concerned about finding out about his family health history as he was starting to have emotional problems and was continually being asked by health providers about his parents, etc. I called her on the telephone, told her who I was, and we spoke for a while. And to Kai: Thank you for acknowledging that my husband was only a baby and that he deserved a better life. I don't know about karma working out; I think my husband has had more than his share of grief and sadness in his life that he did not bring on himself. However, he does feel guilt for this travesty because this was his birth family. And I truly understand how people are and can be apathetic about the other children, at least the older ones. I don't really get how you can say that karma should get the younger ones though; if you had a mom like Gertrude telling you to do horrible things and you thought you would get her wrath if you didn't, do you know that you would take the high road? And keep in mind, I have never ever condoned what happened in the slightest. I really don't know about poster #49 having inside information about Paula and her kids; as I mentioned I haven't had any contact with Paula, only Stephanie and Marie, and we really haven't talked about Paula except as to how she reacted with Denny. But thank you for your kind words for my husband. I too hope he finds peace.
  • Kai
    Kathe, I was speaking of the children who were older when I said Karma works out, obviously a baby can't help what goes on around them. As for Stephanie, she was eleven, and Marie was 9 or 10 if I am not mistaken, not babies and certainly old enough to know right from wrong. In fact, I grew up in a home with a lot of abuse, which is neither here nor there, BUT as in most homes where abuse occurs there were a couple of us who seemed to draw the worst of it, and I can tell you this much we did our utmost to protect one another and keep one another from harm to the very best of our ability and it was no different if we had another child with us that was not our actual sibling and I can say this because, believe it or not, my sick parents actually took in foster kids for the money. I do not consider that to be special or even extraordinary, it seems natural. We were afraid of our parents also, but we didn't lose our humanity or our ability to distinguish right from wrong. (Granted, though our parents were abusive, including some sexual abuse, no one was burned or hurt to the degree Sylvia was, but there were some really disturbing things that went on, for instance my father would try to make us all hit each other with a belt if one of us did "something wrong", we always refused and got beat harder by him. At four years of age my brother was confined to a room in the basement to "learn not to be a (expletive)" and had to use a five gallon bucket to use for a bathroom.) The point is that there are choices and when you are 11 you have a choice. Those kids went to school, had contact with the outside world, they all had countless chances to do the right thing yet chose not to. So, yes, I feel they deserve what life turned out to be for them, exempting the baby. There are no excuses for the rest of them, none. That is not to say that repentance is not good, or that people can turn their lives around, but sometimes things happen that are just so bad you must just have to try to live around it but I don't know that you can ever make up for it or truly even change the kind of character that allowed you to do such things in the first place. Paula and John certainly fall into that category, as for the younger ones? i don't know, but their choices say more than any excuses they can come up with.
  • Kathe Mendelsohn-White
    Kai: I am so sorry that you and your siblings were subjected to that type of abuse. I myself did not grow up in an abusive household, although my mother was also quite mentally unbalanced (also manic depressive/bipolar) and therefore not really there for me, and as an only child, I was forced to become self-sufficient early in life. It was not easy for me though - my mother tried to commit suicide several times, once driving the family car off the side of the freeway and several times taking multiple pills timed for when I would come home from school so I would get to find her with her eyes rolled back and have to call the paramedics to revive her. I was mostly talking about the very young ones such as Shirley and James, but obviously the system felt that only Paula and John Jr. should do time for what happened. Marie was never charged with anything. Stephanie's charges were dropped after some information was provided by some people, including Diana Likens for one I think, that was never made public. I in no way profess to be an expert on any of these facts nor am I trying to make any excuses for any of the participants in this heinous act. But of course, I look at it as this terrible occurance that destroyed an entire family for generations to come. And it is tragic for everyone concerned. And while I certainly understand your feelings about what they did and didn't deserve, I don't feel that I have any right to judge anyone. That is for God to do, not me.
  • Kathleen
    Kathe, I’ll think of you next week and have included you in my prayers, hoping that the consulting at the neurologist will turn out positive results. You know I’m still in doubt about Huntington’s. This man I told you about was of the kind who avoid doctors as long as they can and when he finally went it was because of something entirely different, after an acci-dent. I remember his wife told my mother at the time the doctor (our own general practitio-ner, nothing specialised) sent him on to a colleague at once but was not at all in doubt about the nature of the disease. And that was a long time ago. He is still alive, by the way, the wife died, and only since then he’s clearly going downhill.
  • Kathleen
    I meant, of course, positive for you not positive in the sense that - you know what I mean! Sorry - sometimes it's quite obvious English is not my mother tongue.
  • http://www.waterhammocks.com/journey.html Peter
    As I watched this movie, I became painfully aware of my own past. I relate to Sylvia Liken's story in a deeply emotional way, but it gave me strength to "get through" the first draft of my own story of having ADHD while being tossed around the foster care system. "Points of Departure," its title, is also a true story. You can review it @ http://www.waterhammocks.com/journey.html - feel free to comment on it by email: info@waterhammocks.com My hope is that the foster care system will become more accountable. Peter
  • Kathe Mendelsohn-White
    Hi Kathleen: I hope you are right about the Huntington's. I very much appreciate your thoughts and prayers, so thank you. I'll let you know what happens. Today I received a picture of Dennis Sr. from the person who connected me with Stephanie. This is the first time I've seen a picture of Denny's dad. It is his high school picture when he was a Junior. I can totally see the resemblance - the eyes, mouth, ears and hs widow's peak are all his dad's! Stephanie said that all the Wrights were very good looking. While Denny's dad had passed away many years ago, the other siblings are still alive (w/Huntington's) so I'm curious as to what Dennis Sr.'s twin looked like through the years. Also strangely enough, since the pic of Dennis Sr. was from his high school yearbook, I went over to classmates.com and saw that Clifford Wright (I'm guessing this is the Clifford Wright that Steve mentioned as maybe being related) also attended that school (class of 1965), so perhaps he is indeed related. Maybe I will get the nerve to call his construction company after all... I don't think he is a sibling but perhaps a cousin or something... Have a nice weekend everyone.
  • Stephen Hostetter
    Hi Kathe,,, Thats funny you mentioned the all the Wrights being goodlooking... My mother's sister was married to Clffards brother Tim Wright... Tim Wright was a pretty goodlooking man and my aunt was a former Miss Indiana runner-up.. For a while I ran around with a Richard and Raymond Wright,, they lived on N. 8th. st. in Beech Grove .. I'm like Cathleen,,, I think it's great Dennis is trying to get back to his family.. I think everyone needs their families especially in these times of troubles.. Maybe some day Stephanie and Marie can come out and talk openly about how they feel ... It might help them to talk about it and at the same time help others to understand how it happened...
  • Kathe Mendelsohn-White
    Hi Steve: Dennis Sr.'s identical twin's name is Richard. I wonder if he is the same Richard Wright you mentioned. I had not heard of Raymond, but this is getting wild how intertwined everyone is. Dennis and Richard had two other siblings, a sister named Debbie and now I've forgotten the other brother's name, I know that both Stephanie and Marie at one time (long before I found it) had been posting on the imdb board, and I think also Paula and Jim did at times (although I don't think either Paula or Jim identified themselves), but looking at the posts it appears that many posters were very unkind to them and they left and deleted all of their posts. That's why at first when I went there I remarked that I had wished I had found the board prior to them leaving it. It was a fluke (or an act of God) that there were still posters over there who could point me in the right direction. And I agree with you and Kathleen - we all need our familes in times of trouble. We have been quite alone for a while and sometimes feel like an island upon ourselves. I have often wondered and worried about the future and what it may hold for my son, who may never be self-sufficient enough to be on his own. I myself am an only child, my father is deceased and my mother in a retirement home and not all there mentally, and with no other family and then Den not being close to his adopted family I thought there would be no one for my son once we are gone. Perhaps all of this is happening for a reason - well, many reasons, really - to understand what is happening to Denny, to bring closure to all of the questions of his past and reunite him with family that truly has loved him all along, and to provide emotional support to our son in his future.
  • Kathleen
    Kathe, this hope for your son - and your husband, of course - is much more important than any enlightening about why and how things happened in connection with Sylvia. I say this although I do agree with Stephen when he says that maybe Marie and Stephanie can help others to understand - that is, of course, the one hope we have in order to avoid it happening again; the extent of the violence in the Likens case may well be extraordinary but violence drected towards children and teenagers, sadly, is not and we need to fully understand the mechanisms. But these new contacts offer new chances and hopes to three persons connected with this tragic case but completely and utterly innocent - which might have happened sooner if the posters on the board you mentioned and on other boards had not been so unkind and judging. It really should teach us to think twice before we press a button. Try not to think about what people say or might say with regard to your husbands siblings - think about you and your family. I'll guess we'll hear from you. Until then, Greetings! And, hi Stephen, I don't have to say anything, do I? "Leftovers" all around you, AGAIN - as if you were meant to be a kind of connecting instance or a memory keeper or a clue-giver. (Or an author. I'll keep at it.)
  • Ross
    Thanks to everyone for their comments, particularly Kathe, Kathleen, and Steve. I have been fascinated, in fact, almost obsessed with this case since watching American Crime. Since posting questions, I have pretty much sat back and watched Steve, Kathe, and Kathleen shed light on some of the issues surrounding this case. When I watched the movie, and then did further research into the case, I was outraged by what happened and felt a sense for the need of vengeance and retribution against Gertrude and the family involved. This is natural human nature. However, the more I look into things, and read from this board, the more I feel level headed about things and look at it more as a complex matter. We had an obviously mentally ill mother, whom had great weight and influence over her kids; all living in close quarters together in squalor, etc. Yeah, it does not justify anything that happened to Sylvia, but when I really think about it, it starts to mitigate it. While I intially thought of rage, and horror, and how much I generally hate bullies and child predators, etc.; I now think of how all around sad the situation is. Kathe's husbands life without a sense of identity; the obvious punishment via social stigma all the Baniszewski kids faced, etc. While I really wanted to see any of the kids over 10 burn (Johnny, Stephanie, Paula, Coy, Richard, etc) for what they did to Sylvia, I now think I am happy for the fact that the ones who did have a second chance at life made good on it. Johnny in an interview admitted he got off easy, took responsibility for his hideous actions, and commented on the Jonesboro case. From what I know, Stephanie teaches in a Christian school in FL and has had a completely normal life since. Marie, Jimmy, Shirley, etc. I just feel very sorry for, as they were too young to know any better, did not have any real moral culpability for what happened, yet obviously paid a very serious price in guilt by association. This is such a horrible thing, and as someone said, ruined several families for generations and generations. I have it set to have notifications on her via e-mail register with my e-mail account, and look forward to any further comments. Thanks again to the contributors - whenever I click on the link, I am very happy to learn something new. Kathe, in particular, I hope your husband finds some comfort and closure.
  • Kathleen
    Hello, Ross, thanks for including me among the posters „shedding light“, but actually I’m neither involved as Kathe nor much in the knowledge as Stephen. I’m much more like you, someone who found out about the case and felt compelled to find out more. It was not the film that set me off,– I’ve yet to see it but am not sure at all if I want to – but reading the Millett book at an impressionable age (some time in the late 80s). Since then, information accumulated, of course, and although some things I found out changed my perception of details, but one thing I said about 20 years ago I still say today: “Sylvia was a victim, and in some way Gertrude was, too.” It’s difficult not to reduce someone to their actions, and am-bivalent thinking seems the rarest thing at all. Greetings
  • Stephen Hostetter
    Hello,,,, I haven't seen the movie, just the trailer... I have read the book The Indiana Torture Slaying front to back without putting it down... My sister told me I wouldn't want to stop reading so I should pick a time when I had a few hours free.. Truthfully,,, It's the only book I've ever read... My thing has been magazine and never front to back ,, just kind of a reference thing... I don't know if I can watch the movie but I have not had an oppertunity as of yet.. Kathreen,,Ross I have just very limited knowlege and more questions then answers at this point. I'm curious to know the fine details like: Someone to tell me if I'm right or wrong,,, I think Gertrude thought in her own mind that she was right in all her actions hence is why ppl "not involved" were allowed to see Sylvia.. If Gertrude had thought she was in the wrong she would have never let that happen for fear she'd be turned in.. Also you could say that this re-enforced her denial ... Somehow Gertrude convinced everyone she was doing the right thing including herself ,,, untill enter Social worker,, Preist,, and confession note... The three signs of pure guilt..
  • Kathe Mendelsohn-White
    Hi Kathleen: I think what Ross means is that you have made many thoughtful, relevant and level-headed statements regarding the case, and perhaps you have helped some people realize that it is all much more complex than what it may seem like at first glance. Naturally, to hear about a crime as horrific as this, one at first can only see that the perpetrators are bad and evil. It takes a more detailed thinking process to be able to see that everyone has different facets to their mind and that when pushed in unimaginable situations some people may unfortunately cross lines that they would have never crossed. Some can only see things in black and white, instead of the many various shades of gray that they inevitably are. I, in particular, have greatly appreciated your comments about the case, and specifically your compassion for my husband and what he has experienced. Perhaps it is easier to have compassion for Denny as he was just a baby, but except for Gertrude, they were all just children. And obviously Gertrude was a very ill woman. To fill you in, Denny did go to the neurologist this week and now has to have an EEG and an MRI, and his psychiatrist has to give the okay for the blood test if Denny can handle getting positive results for Huntington's if that is what it is. So at least the process is started. And when we came back from the doctor, Denny was ready to talk to Marie, and I called her and put him on the phone with her. They talked for about two hours and it was a wonderful thing. I personally felt a deep sense of purpose knowing that I am helping reunite family members who were torn apart in the worst of circumstances. Don't get me wrong, I don't feel responsible for it all - I realize that God has been guiding me to put in action what is obviously His plan. And Ross, I also thank you for your kind wishes for Denny to find comfort and closure.
  • Rebbeca Wilkins
    Kathe, I just wanted to thank you for posting about your husband. In reading all the stories about the Sylvia Likens murder, it never mentions what happened to Denis. That's always kind of bugged me for some reason.. I've always wondered how life turned out for him and have even felt a wave of sympathy for him, probably more so then the rest of the children. Even though he was to young to remember any of it, no child, especially an infant, deserves to be apart of such unspeakable acts. I wish him nothing but peace and happiness for the rest of his life.
  • Stephen Hostetter
    I wonder how much Stephanie and Marie remember ,,, sure would be nice if they could shed more light on issues... I'd like to know how often Gertrude would drink cough syrup and about how much at a time and about when she started drinking the stuff? I'd also like to know where Gertrude slept.. Was the conditions exagerated ( number of spoons forks) in house.. Was the hardwood floors exposed or carpeted in livingroom and dinningroom areas...? Was there a TV or radio in the house and how did Gertrude pass her time ,,, any hobbies like knitting,, reading,, did you take the news paper..? How often did their father visit them durring their time in the summer of 1965,, and did their father ever see or know Sylvia Likens or her family..? Was there a police dog in the basement while Sylvia was there..? Where did Ricky Hobbs practice his branding technique ( on the handrail just under the nail that held the police belt)..? Discribe the nail and it's exact location.. As you open the basement door you are facing a plaster wall,,, discribe the bottom and how it got that way... Where did Sylvia sleep when she was in the basement and was she tied to an orange colored gas pipe next to the chimney ..? Did Sylvia die in the basement or in the eagle claw tub in bathroom..? Was there a 1960's style PBR beer bottle in a window sill ...? Was there paint on the brick chimney in the basement..? Was the basement steps and railing white washed ( painted white ) I'd also like to know how "normal" things were before Sylvia came ... Did you think your mother was crazy..? Were you scared of her ..? Did Gertrude beat on you kids..? If so how badly...? Why did your father bring the police belt to Gertrude right at the time Sylvia was there..? Why not before ,, long before..? Why did your father bring to the home a police dog (also around the time when Sylvia was there)..? Can you shed some light on your father's reaction to this case and did he ever give his opinion .. Is your father still alive and where abouts does he live.. It wouldn't be 9th. st. would it..? Would like to see the expression on his face when you asked him if he remembers giving to little boys a ticket for bicycle trailing on south 6th. Ave. and Alton in 1965..
  • Stephen Hostetter
    Don't get me wrong,,, he was doing his job and it's good to know that the police are watching out for your kids wellfare when you can't always yourself... I just wish that mentality was used to save Sylvia
  • Kathe Mendelsohn-White
    Stephen: Wow; that's a lot of questions! I'd like to know the answers to many of the questions you pose as well, but at this point I do not feel comfortable enough to directly ask them all of this. So far I have just been letting them discuss what they want to about everything and everyone. Regarding John B. Sr., he passed away a few years ago of a stroke. There was some discord in the family and both Marie and Stephanie were kept away from the funeral; and from what I understand there is still much resentment there. I'm not sure about the police dog; but one picture sent to me was of all of the siblings and a shepherd named Fritz. It was taken when Stephanie graduated from 8th grade which would have been when my husband was only 2 weeks old or so (May 1964). This was long before Sylvia came to the Baniszewski household. I have not heard of any other dog. One thing both Stephanie and Marie have said is that much of the information out there, even in transcripts, is not true. They have not delineated what was true and what was not yet, and I have not pressed. I do think that the conditions were poor but I am not sure that it was quite as bad as it was portrayed. Stephanie told me that her mother was not drinking and on drugs as it has been reported either. The one real "vice" she had was that she enjoyed playing bingo, and often used the grocery money to do so. When she was married to John B., she would go out and tell the kids not to tell their dad that she was going to play bingo. Of course, he found out, and he told her he did not mind but that she had to earn her own money to gamble, and not use their grocery money. That is when she started cleaning houses, etc She loved movies and wanted to be an actress, and could be very dramatic, and probably played it to the hilt in court. They always knew that something was wrong with her. I think she could be both kind and cruel; and they were afraid of the cruel mother. I think that for the most part, their lives were "normal" before all of this happened. From the pictures that I have been sent, there were trips and holidays and they all appear to just be a normal family, even close. And Rebbeca: It is heartwarming to know that so many people have sympathized for my husband and I am glad to be able to provide information about him for those that have wondered what happened in his life after October 1965. He keeps being amazed that anyone thinks about him at all.
  • Stephen Hostetter
    Hello Kathe, Kathleen,,, Sorry I didn't mean to be so graphic when asking questions like that but I feel thats the only way I'd know for sure if I was talking to someone that was there... Not that I don't trust Kathe it's not that.. I'd just do that line of questioning so I myself would know 100% that the person I was talking with would be the real deal.. Tomorrow is the 26th of Oct.. remember Sylvia kind regards
  • Kathleen
    Hello, Kathe: thanks a lot for filling me in. It's good that things are getting started. I was a bit astonished to read that your husband had to obtain his psychiatrists OK to have the blood test (not so much because of his own situation, it's more a general thing, like a patient's right to decide for himself, and if a psychiatrist refused to consent and the patient still wanted to ... ). On the other hand it means that you are not left alone and someone is providing support, for you both. And that reminds me! Your comments about what I've said on this blog were very kind but while your husband certainly has all my compassion and deserves it, too, I know that he at least has you. But you? While I'm sure that you are quite the tower of strength we all know that no one can be that strong 24 hours a day and 7 days a week - hence my question before if you had a support group or someone who could permit yourself to be weak once in a while. Even if were just to keep strong for your family - try to think of yourself once in a while, okay? And I'm so glad to read that your husband spoke to Marie and that it went so well! It must have been quite the overwhelming moment for her, too - come to think of it, probably even more than for him. Because she was old enough then to clearly remember her baby brother and certainly for decades had no hopes of having contact with him again! If I imagine myself in this situation - I think I'd have spent the whole two hours crying or trying to find something to say. None of this is a question, by the way. This is something that has been bugging me since I first heard of the new contact. I hope I manage to put this halfway right: What I mean is, the Likens case has been discussed on this blog and on others for quite a while and basically this is a good thing (like I said before, about needing to understand so there won't be any more Sylvias) so I think it should go on. That means that many questions are being asked and being answered or at least answers are being attempted and a lot of it is speculation or guessing - couldn't be otherwise. On the other hand, for you and your family the situation is changed now and this must have priority because there is more at stake than just our interest in the case. You said that Marie and Stephanie and maybe others too had been bitten away on other blogs, and I'm a bit afraid they might look in on this blog and get frightened or worse, get the wrong impression and it might spoil things between your family and theirs. I'm sure no one on this blog expects you to clear things up for us or to act as an intermediary, and when questions are being asked, see it as an invitation to the discussion and not as anything more. I don't know if I made myself clear. It's just that I would like to put some minds at ease - yours of course, but I don't think you need to be put at ease so much - but everyone's in your family (now extending! Try to enjoy it!) Greetings
  • Kaptain Kebo
    I would just like for Steph to admit that her mother never once showed any remourse for her actions, and until the day she died felt victimized herself for the 17 years of bingo she missed out on. And as far as Steph forgiving her mother? how can she even forgive herself for at the age of 15 (not 11, as stated in a previous post) witnessing another human not just being beat up and picked on, but carved on, burned, branded, forced to eat poop, and starved to death without drawing the line and doing something about it. 15 years old is a young adult by 1965 standards, she was not a helpless kid. Paula and Steph being allowed to live full lives while Sylvia died such a painful death is exactly the reason I am an athiest. God?..................your fired.
  • Kaptain Kebo
    By the way, tommorrow is the 26th, think Paula, Steph and the gang have any plans to torture any kids to death?
  • Rebecca Wilkins
    Kaptain Kebo, As quoted by one of my favorite philosophers, Mr. Miyagi: "There are no bad students, only bad teachers. Teacher say, student do". Stephanie wasn't a helpless kid, but she still was just a kid doing what her mother told her to do. Where exactly have you learned your morals from? Your parents. Or whoever it was that raised you. You're parents are your foundation on learning right from wrong why things are right and why things are wrong. A child does what they are told to do. The only person there is to blame in this crime is Gertrude, and she herself wasn't in her right mind due to being very sick and fucked up on all those medications. And that's on top of being dirt poor and trying to sustain 7 kids plus 2 on top of them? Clearly it was a disaster waiting to happen! This doesn't in anyway justify what happened to poor Sylvia, but hating the children for what they did is not only close minded and immoral, but childish.
  • Rebecca Wilkins
    In addition, blaming God (be there is one or isn't) for Sylvia's death is not only childish, but extremely ignorant. As human beings, we have the freedom of making our own conscious choices and actions, and we do that because we're not mindless robots. If there is a God, he had very, very little to do with the death of Sylvia. The children may not be dead, but their lives are far from full and pleasant. Even to this day they have to live with the ridicule and hatred of society on an every day basis, constantly being reminded on how they tortured Sylvia. That to me is a fate worse then death.
  • Kaptain Kebo
    Rebecca, First off, being dirt poor is no excuse for forcing a child to drink urine and to be branded with a hot metal hook, nor is being on medication or having a bunch of kids. If this were the case about thirty percent of the planet would be on the brink of child torture/murder. Alao, there is a certain level of insanity/intensity that when it occurs (putting cigarettes out on and forcing someone to eat shit) will trigger a mechanism within a person to do what is right thing and overide their fucked up mom and get a second opinion, or get help. This is not the result of morals instilled within us by our parents but survival instincts we are born with. For you to refer to Paula (who is as much to blame as Gertie, as is Coy and Richard and to some extent Stessi) as a helpless child is beyond childish. I believe that you are sick Rebecca and somehow derive some pleasure out of the fact that the B's all got away with this crap. I know that at 15 yrs. old I never would have allowed this to happen, not because of my folks mad parenting skills but because I am of the human species and was born with instincts. Paula and Steph can rot in hell with Gertie, Coy, Richard and John Jr. But until they die they deserve to be constantly reminded of how they tortured Sylvia, and if you call that a fate worse than death I suggest you take a look at Sylvia's autopsy photos and re-think that one.
  • Kaptain Kebo
    By the way, you stated 'to this day' tha B kids/torturers/murderers are ridiculed on a daily basis. Just a reminder Rebecca, 'to this day' Sylia has to be dead, no grandkids, no kids, no life.......dead.
  • Rebecca Wilkins
    LMFAO!! Wow. That has to be the most closed minded, black and white thinking I've come across in a LONG time! Did you even stop to actually let my words penetrate that thick skull of yours, or was it too difficult a task to handle? Never the less, I'll answer you piece by piece to avoid confusion. "Rebecca, First off, being dirt poor is no excuse for forcing a child to drink urine and to be branded with a hot metal hook, nor is being on medication or having a bunch of kids. If this were the case about thirty percent of the planet would be on the brink of child torture/murder." You've lived a pretty sheltered life, haven't you? Sylvia's murder isn't the first to of happened in this fashion, and it sure as fuck won't be the last. Go read some crimelibrary.com and you'll see just what i'm talking about. There is a LOT more to it then just being dirt poor, sweetheart. Poverty is a very highly stressful thing for any individual to endure. It's extremely taxing on the mind and body, and can drag ANYONE down with it. Most individuals are able to cope with poverty, if they don't fall into a deep depression. But Gertie was never a very mentally stabled individual to begin with. She never should of agreed to take in Sylvia and Jenny, and those other kids should of gone into foster homes long before Sylvia came along. You know who I blame more then anyone else in this matter? Sylvia's parents. "Alao, there is a certain level of insanity/intensity that when it occurs (putting cigarettes out on and forcing someone to eat shit) will trigger a mechanism within a person to do what is right thing and overide their fucked up mom and get a second opinion, or get help." lol There's that black and white thinking that I "adore" about you. Let's stop for a second and step outside of our thick spoiled brat minds, shall we? Little Billy is 2 years old and loves his parents just as much as any child does. He looks to his mother and father to teach him the ways of the world because they are all he knows. One day little Billy is drinking a soda and spills it. His mother comes up and beats him senseless and tells him that she's doing it to "teach him a lesson" on being careful. This continues everytime Billy does something "careless". When little Billy is 5, his little sister, who's 2, knocks something over. Because Billy's mom has drilled it in his head to be the "responsible older sibling", what does he do? He goes over and hits his sister to teach her a lesson on being careful. This has to be the right thing, because it's what his mother did to him. Besides, mama seems pleased with this. She's sitting over on the couch smiling and telling him "good boy". Now it's only a matter of time before billy starts doing this to younger children at school, and because mom and dad never taught him how to control his anger, his "lesson teaching" only get's more and more violent and twisted by the day. But it's okay, because mommy says it is. One day he shoves a kid down a flight of stairs for back talking to him and he ends up in a juvenile detention, the end. Now is this Billy's fault? To some degree. He made that conscious decision, no one else. But he did it because that's what his mother taught him to be right. In his world, everything is ass backwards. Right is wrong and wrong is right. Can you imagine looking back on your life and finding out that everything you were taught was wrong? It's a pretty scary concept, but one that many children end up facing later in life, usually after they've committed some horrid crime. Think this is wrong? Go brush up on your child psychology. "This is not the result of morals instilled within us by our parents but survival instincts we are born with." You want to talk about human instincts? Let's talk about that disgusting primitive urge that lays within us all that involves inflicting pain on those weaker then us. We all have it, it's there, and if you deny having never in your life felt it, even just a small inclination of it, then you're a liar. Humans love power, and they love to feel powerful. Fortunately most people are mentally stable enough to either ignore this urge all together or control it. That's the beauty of being human, is having the gift of REASON because we were TAUGHT at a young age that inflicting pain on others is WRONG! Take all that away and what happens? You're no different then the animals. "For you to refer to Paula (who is as much to blame as Gertie, as is Coy and Richard and to some extent Stessi) as a helpless child is beyond childish." Uh, first off, I was talking about Stephanie, because that's you you first referred to. And I'm pretty sure I said "Stephanie wasn't a helpless kid, but she still was just a kid doing what her mother told her to do" meaning while Stephanie (or Paula) were far from innocent children, they WERE STILL CHILDREN. Children doing as their mother told them to because they thought they were teaching Sylvia a lesson. End of story, do not pass go, do not collect $200. I don't know if the whole children do as they're taught thing has sunk into you're head yet, but that's exactly what happened here. And if you can't sit back and understand that or even TRY to understand that, then you're the one that's beyond childish. "I believe that you are sick Rebecca and somehow derive some pleasure out of the fact that the B's all got away with this crap." AWWW!! That's so cute! I pissed you off! Let me guess...you're 20, right? I remember having that same naive ego about how the world works too! Don't worry, you'll grow out of that someday. But first would you like to explain to me how it is I'm sick? Because I see a situation for EXACTLY how it was? Because looking at a situation from the point of view of those that caused it doesn't automatically make you side with them. What happened to Sylvia never should of happened, and I feel a great sympathy for her family and friends. I think Gertie got what was coming to her when she was locked away and only wish she could have been in prison longer. BUT I can see how it happened, and not by automatically jumping to the "THAT WOMEN AND THOSE KIDS ARE PURE EVIL END OF STORY" excuse. No one is born evil. Something brings it on, and if you're not mentally strong enough to fight it, then it get's worse and worse overtime until it spirals out of control. I'm sure Gertie had her moments when she was a good person as well as a good mother, even if only for a minute. The entire thing is horribly sad. "I know that at 15 yrs. old I never would have allowed this to happen, not because of my folks mad parenting skills but because I am of the human species and was born with instincts." lol I'm pretty sure I already answered this. Again, a child's morale can be warped if not brought up the right way. Child psychology, etc. "Paula and Steph can rot in hell with Gertie, Coy, Richard and John Jr. " And you say I take pleasure in other people's pain? "But until they die they deserve to be constantly reminded of how they tortured Sylvia" I agree "and if you call that a fate worse than death I suggest you take a look at Sylvia's autopsy photos and re-think that one." Sylvia will never have to experience pain again. Go through your life without a soul to offer love and forgiveness and see if it's worth living.
  • Rebecca Wilkins
    "By the way, you stated 'to this day' tha B kids/torturers/murderers are ridiculed on a daily basis. Just a reminder Rebecca, 'to this day' Sylia has to be dead, no grandkids, no kids, no life…….dead." Well, you're a smart cookie, aren't ya?
  • Kaptain Kebo
    You are obviously Steph or somebody close to the Baniscewski/Blake torture clan. You stated how rough their (your) lives have been, why don't you just fess up to who you are and what your connection is and I will do the same. Steph (you) was old enough to blow Coy Hubbard and smoke cigarettes, you could have, and should have saved Sylvia. Stop making excuses for yourself under a fake name. You were/are pathetic scum and should be in jail.
  • Rebecca Wilkins
    ROTFLMFAO!! This is the BEST comment you've left as of yet! You've got NO defense what so ever so you simply try to make yourself look smart by accusing me of being Stephanie. AHHAHAHAHA!!!!! Please! PLEASE keep posting!! My boyfriend and I are laughing our asses off at you!!
  • Kaptain Kebo
    How do you know that their lives have been rough since the crime? How do you know that they are ridiculed? They have changed there names and moved to other States. You seem to know who you are defending. Does your boyfriend also support you in forgiving people for murder?
  • Kaptain Kebo
    It's great that on the eve of Sylvias murder date you and your boyfriend can "LYAO" while defending the very people responsible for her death, not 4 yr. old kids, they were PEOPLE, I don't give a shit if they lived in a dumpster, A GIRL WAS BEING BRANDED AND TORTURED, tell somebody, save her fucking life............next? you fucking liberal moron rationalizing sympathetic pukebrain fucks
  • Rebecca Wilkins
    Do some research! There have been interviews and reports given by the children about how their lives have been since the murders. You don't need to know their new names to find them! My boyfriend supports me in not being a narrow minded twit and being able to look at something from a different prospective.
  • Rebecca Wilkins
    You still don't get it, do you? And pukebrain fucks? What are you, 10?
  • Kaptain Kebo
    More fantasy? I challenge you to produce the location of ANY reports or interviews the kids have given about their lives since they killed Sylvia....ANY, with the exception of 1 dead John Jr. NOBODY has given reports....interviews? reports?....to who? you are so full of shit. Yeah, Paula talks to the press all the time. If you can't be honest about your sources go away.
  • Kaptain Kebo
    By the way, I am 11, going on 12.
  • Rebecca Wilkins
    "Yeah, Paula talks to the press all the time." You just answered part of your own question, dumbass. And you CHALLENGE me!? ROFL!! You should change your name from Kaptain Kebo to Kaptain Bebo... as in Bebo the clown!
  • Rebecca Wilkins
    "By the way, I am 11, going on 12." Not hard to believe. Isn't it past your bedtime?
  • Kaptain Kebo
    Paula has not spoken to the press, I know these things. Stop lying, yes, to avoid confusion I CHALLENGE YOU. Or did she give a secret interview that nobody knows about except you and your boyfriend when you are trying to manufacture legit sources for all the bullshit you have been spewing about everyboy's 'rough lives'. You know nothing about anybodys lives and certainly not thru any 'reports and interviews' (with the possible exception of that b.s. that John Jr. was spewing some years back. Rebecca, are you aware that Gertie NEVER felt any remourse for Sylvias death?..............."do some research, get the f outaa here" interviews and reports on how their lives have been since they killed Sylvia, you are a blatant liar, they do not exist.
  • Rebecca Wilkins
    And you're a fucking idiot! :D What a crazy world we live in! It's 2:30AM, I'm tired, and i'm not going to go digging through old websites to recap on the interviews. You wanna find them? Get off your lazy ass and look them up on google. .....What the hell is foutaa?
  • Kaptain Kebo
    LIAR, they do not exist. probably a good time to get tired and go to sleep, liar. It is just your sensitive nature to assume that the lives of Paula and Stessi have been rough and then try to back it up with fantasy bullshit. liar "recap on the interviews" what interviews????
  • Rebecca Wilkins
    GO. LOOK. THEM. UP. ON. GOOGLE. Go look them up on google! It's NOT a hard concept! Type in their names! You'll come up with all kinds of info.
  • Kaptain Kebo
    Geez Becca i'm all googled out. Lots of info but none of the 'reports and interviews about their lives since they killed Sylvia' you spoke of. Are you sure you weren't just kidding about these 'reports and interviews' Becca???? which leads to, how do you know anything about Paula and Stessi's lives since they left East New York St.??
  • Kaptain Kebo
    Maybe when you are not so tired you can elaborate on what they said they're lives have been like since 1965. I'm sure that I am not the only one who would appreciate that, since you and your boyfriend have a 'special' google that links to non-existant interviews and 'LOL' reports. Go to bed Becca, and remember this, lying just leads to more lies and then pretty soon you are backed into a corner (like now) but really, be more honest with your boyfriend then you are with people on the internet or your relationship will go nowhere, as he will not be able to trust you any more than I can, all because you lied to me, you seem to be reasonably intelligent and should not have to resort to lying about anything. Goodight Becca maybe someday you will all be happy together at the big bingo game in the sky
  • Rebecca Wilkins
    Uhhh, except I'm not lying. I just spent like 20 minutes looking for them and can't seem to find them either. Oh well. They were there at one point. I'll look again in the morning. "but really, be more honest with your boyfriend then you are with people on the internet or your relationship will go nowhere, as he will not be able to trust you any more than I can, all because you lied to me" What are you Doctor Phil? I've been living with my boyfriend for 5 years now. I'm pretty sure I don't need some random person from the internet (who knows NOTHING about myself, my boyfriend, or our relationship) telling me how to keep my relationship intact. "maybe someday you will all be happy together at the big bingo game in the sky" I hate bingo.
  • Kathleen
    Hi, Stephen, hi Kathe, hi Rebecca and many others on this blog ... Hello to you on this day of a sad memory. Stephen, I hadn't realized that your questions had that special aim - anyway, I know and knew you did not intend to put Kathe under pressure, just was concerned that it might look like this to minds necessarily more vulnerable than they would be otherwise... and in a situation so new one takes some time to adjust to it. But what has been happening on this blog - and today of all days? Kaptain Kebo, I know you from other blogs - you have never been so rude and so enraged at actually I don`t know who or what and you are too intelligent to act like this. What has Rebecca done to provoke you? We have been discussing politely on this blog up to now, even when we agreed to disagree, and we'd like to keep it this way. Greetings to all!
  • Kathleen
    And by the way, Rebecca, I' m impressed at the patience and levelheadedness you kept throughout this tiring and upsetting dialogue. I would have given up.
  • Stephen Hostetter
    I would like to address Kebo,, When you first posted here I was under the impression that you just heard about Sylvia and because of that I considered your comments normal.. The first thing we ask ourselves is how can God let this thing happen ,,,why..? My belief is that God knows all of our destiny,, God knew Sylvia's mission long before she was even born.. If God is the father to all mankind there are lessons to be learned... Your earthly father wants you to learn because he loves you too.. If God were to intervein the lession would be lost... His love is to great to let that happen.. I want to believe that in the end of Sylvia's life God took Sylvia away from her tormentors and delivered her from evil ... It's a lot like the story of Saint Stephen ,, the first Christian Maytre after Jesus... They stoned Stephen in a unusual and cruel manner by bashing his teeth out before they stoned him to death... As they crushed his teeth he looked up into the heavens and seen Jesus on the right hand of God ,, he wasn't sitting he was standing with his arms stretched out to except Stephen into the kingdom of God... God could have stopped this too but where would the lession be,,, lost.. I think even if you don't believe in God once you learn about Sylvia you walk away believeing in something ... It may not be so much God your forced to think about but could very well be his opposite... I am a father to a daughter myself and my natural reaction at first is to be judgemental and not very understanding... My goal now is to try to understand as to NOT waste this oppertunity for a lession and to try to keep her memory alive.. Captin Kebo ,,, now that you know about Sylvia there is hope for you because now you believe in something greater then yourself ,,, not that you can explain it but that you are forced to think on a deeper level.. It's a lot like a man drinking alcohol in large quanities all his life and one day he stops ... You might want to explain that in simple terms but the man that stopped drinking sees it in a whole different way.. Sometimes you have to walk into the mouth of the beast to know thats not were you belong. That man that quit drinking had to have a revelation and had to " with all his heart" ask for a miracle.. The man has been sober now since 1987 only by the grace of God which is his higher power.. He is now a large format landscape photographer and feels compelled to celebrate life which could very well be God's true intention for his destiny
  • scorpio
    "Uhhh, except I'm not lying. I just spent like 20 minutes looking for them and can't seem to find them either. Oh well. They were there at one point." LOL What bullshit. I guess this is what KK was talking about when he said lies lead to more lies. The fact of the matter is that these "children" were old enough to know right from wrong no matter what their mother taught them. They are directly responsible for the horrible death of Sylvia Likens. Why do you so vigorously defend them? What is your connection to these people?
  • Rebecca Wilkins
    "The fact of the matter is that these "children" were old enough to know right from wrong no matter what their mother taught them." In-fucking-correct, sir! :D You think a kid just LEARNS automatically how to be a good person? Take some early childcare courses and learn just how fragile a child's mind is! A kid doesn't go through their entire life being taught that beating the shit out of people is perfectly okay, and then hit a certain age where they suddenly realize it's wrong. Sorry, the world doesn't work that way and neither does the human mind.
  • scorpio
    rebecca - By the time a "child" is 15 years old they have had many outside influences, not just their parents. You honestly believe that the only way a person learns that violence is wrong is through their parents? Society (friends, school, church, etc.) also play a part in showing a person right from wrong. Your "but she didn't know any better!" excuse doesn't hold water.
  • Kaptain Kebo
    Who went through their entire life being taught that beating the shit out of someone was ok? are we discussing the same case? I was talking about the Sylvia Likens murder. The fact is Rebecca, is that beating the shit out of people was not consistant with Gerties behavior pattern. Only when Sylvia came along and percieved a proposed threat to Gerties obsession with one 14 year old Richard Hobbs did she become violent. Yes, spankings were common in the 1960's, but I grew up in the 60's and even though I was spanked as punishment, that in no way gave me the illusion that putting cigarettes out on people and carving profanities with a heated needle was anything other than a fucked up emergency, in need of help. My parents never taught me that setting fire to a gasoline drenched dog was wrong either, but somehow just by being a sane person I knew by age 15 that it would be wrong, and would have stopped anybody who attempted it. Steph was part of this type of behavior for 2 or 3 months. Stop defending her, and Paula too, they were/are criminals of the worst kind. Have your boyfriend judo flip you down the stairs a few times and put out 100 cigarettes on your stomach, then get back to me about how rough life has been for Steph and Paula.
  • Rebecca Wilkins
    You know what? I've repeated myself over and over and over again and NOTHING I've said seems to be sinking in. I'll say it one more time and then I'm done with the argument, because I'm obviously arguing with kids....that or very, very under developed adults. A parent is like God in the eyes of a child. Even at the age of 16, you're brain is still growing and developing (and yes, that includes back in 1965). Yes, you do learn from society, but it's your PARENTS that build that foundation of what's right and wrong. I can tell you right now that I've learned more from my mother about life and what's right and wrong then society EVER could have taught me! In closing, all I have to say about the Baniszewski children learning from society is this: "A twelve-year-old girl named Judy Duke described some of the goings-on to her mother while Mrs. Duke was washing dishes. "They were beating and kicking Sylvia something terrible," the girl reported. "Oh, well, they're just punishing her, aren't they?" Mrs. Duke asked rhetorically." "The two neighbors sat around a table and drank coffee while kids yelled at each other and baby Dennis fussed and cried. Vermillion noticed a slim, pretty but timid and nervous- looking girl who had a black eye. "That's Sylvia," sighed Gertrude. Paula Baniszewski added, "I gave her the black eye." Just before making this boast, however, Paula filled a glass with hot water and threw it at Sylvia. Understandably, Phyllis Vermillion decided to look elsewhere for a babysitter. Less understandably, she did not report what she had seen and heard to the authorities. Early in October, Vermillion paid another social call to the large family next door. Again she saw Sylvia, who looked dazed, even zombified, and who had another black eye plus a swollen lip. "I beat her up," Paula readily volunteered. Later, Paula began hitting the listless girl with a belt. Again Phyllis Vermillion left the house without believing she had seen something the police ought to know about. If a supposedly normal, responsible adult could not recognize these actions as criminal, why should anyone expect an untutored teenager like Sylvia to be able to do so?" "One neighbor heard and saw the beatings, but turned away and told his wife "I think it's best we not get involved" Yeah, that sounds like a AWESOME neighborhood to instill some good strong morals into America's youth! Oh wait, maybe not. Sorry, you fail!
  • Rebecca Wilkins
    Kaptain Kebo, the FACT IS that you know NOTHING about the lives of these children and what life was like growing up in their household, nor do you know anything about children PERIOD!! You were raised differently then them, taught differently then them. These kids were so underdeveloped learning wise, it's not even funny! So stop fucking pretending you know what it was like to be in their shoes, because you clearly have NO idea what you're talking about!
  • scorpio
    Rebecca - You never did answer my questions regarding your vehement defense of these murderers or what your connection is to them. Your anecdote proves nothing other than there are others to blame for Sylvia's death. Your assertion that a 16 year-old wouldn't have the capacity to understand extreme violence is wrong unless their parents told them so is simply absurd. Stephanie knew what was going on was wrong. She chose not to tell for a number of reasons. Not knowing torture is wrong was not one of them.
  • Kaptain Kebo
    These 'underdeveloped' kids went to school, had jobs, got pregnant. You have a way of underestimating just how horrific this crime was. Stop defending these monsters because 'mommy' was all that they knew. I want to state that I do not have anything but sympathy for Marie and the younger kids, and do not hold anyone accountably through 'guilt by association' . You are obviously a relative or a very sick person Rebecca. It is because of people with your exact mentality that Gertie, John Jr., Coy, Richard, Paula, Steph were all 'forgiven' and allowed to walk free (and committ more crimes against people in some cases). Rebecca, you are an insult to every child who has ever been abused, and to the entire justice system. I hope you can staighten yourself out.
  • Rebecca Wilkins
    "I hope you can staighten yourself out." And I hope you can finally make it past the 8th grade! :)
  • Kai
    !5 year olds are culpable for their behavior. Period. They didn't grow up in a cave with no exposure to the outside world. They had the capacity to have friends, and to have loving relationships in their own family so obviously they knew that what they were seeing and doing was wrong.
  • Ross
    Kaptain Kebo: If you don't mind me asking, what is your connection to the incident? In all honesty, I post on this blog and frequently read it to learn more about the case. Rebecca, in fairness, it does sound as though you have some connection. I'm not saying this to bicker, just saying it to show things from my perspective. Let's try to keep things civil. We had a nice dialogue going for a while here.
  • Kai
    http://doghouseriley.blogspot.com/2005/10/sylvia.html "Anonymous 11:29 PM EST I too am late writing my comments. I am the juvenile staff officer that cared for John, Coy, and the rest of the boys. I talked to the boys about the case, and they were actually bragging about their part, especially John. I asked John why, and he said it was fun and he would do it again. Their stories have burned in my mind for years. To this day, I still have tears over that sweet little girl. The good Lord will see that justice is done." "Jason M Cutler 4:24 AM EST really, strange...a couple of months ago i wrote about this case on my film blog, mainly addressing my conflict with it being turned into a film...tonight i received an angry comment from someone claiming to be the child of coy hubbard...i dont know if it's real, but keep an eye out just in case J. Cutler" " I'm glad to hear of Coy Hubbard's passing!! I hope that his wife is miserable, just for being with him for 17 years. And, the last I heard, Stephanie Baniszewski is currently living in the small town of Floral City Florida where she reaches at The New Testament Christian Academy, she chooses to forget all the time she was entertained by the beating and burning Sylvia by her boyfriend Coy, or the final bath she gave Sylvia's dead body before the police were called, or lying through her teeth on the stand to protect her sick mother and siblings/friends. She now hides behind her 'love for baby jesus' and lives a free, happy life. (with no regrets, because God forgave her)."
  • Kaptain Kebo
    Paula is in Bedford, Iowa
  • Kai
    Where did you find this information?
  • Kaptain Kebo
    Didn't have to find it, I already knew.
  • Stephen Hostetter
    Ok ,, Ok ,, we know we have a divided room here,, can we move on please..? Are you ppl the compassion police ..? Jesus christ man I feel like I'm watching that loose change video ..
  • Kai
    Do you know anything else about her? I hope she's miserable.
  • Stephen Hostetter
    Hello,,, These kids decended into evil doings by all accounts this has been acknowleged... These kids were monsters as many many kids have the potential to be ,,, these kids were heavily enfluenced as kids this age 11-16 can be.. This is obvious when you consider the number of kids involved ( inside and outside the family ).. The violence inflicted on Sylvia started as punishment and esculated slowly mind you... Now you have these mean little bastards ,, as kids can be,, going along with the program because you have a mother telling them (in so many words) spare the rod and spoil the child.. Which was the mentality of that era and in many cases still is.. At the point at which things were spiraling down fast it was Stephanie that told Sylvia to leave for her life... Sylvia did not.. Now it gets to the point when the kids are talking about why sylvia won't leave,, she won't tell her parents about the burns,, the beatings, being shoved down the basement steps, and all the other hidious things they done.. Why does she refuse to save herself ..? She must be guilty of what she has been accused of (in their minds).. It has already been astablished that the family had been brainwashed ... So then it is not hard to assume that Sylvia herself and Jenny had to have been brainwashed as well (which they proved in court).. Gertrude knew she had to start with Paula ,, she had to break Paula , being the oldest(most looked up to) which is usually the most level headed... She worked on her till she snapped and her will was broke It's the "power of suggestion" and lack of control.. Also,, I think they all looked up to Paula untill they feared her.. I think the fear factor ran wild
  • Stephen Hostetter
    By the way the breaking of the will started with Gertrude beating Sylvia and Jenny on a regular basis. It was Gertrude ,, "the sick woman" bat left then right.. And by God you kids had better listen to me!
  • Stephen Hostetter
    I think all this happened by the couldn'ts in Gertrue's life.. She couldn't provide for all the kids she couldn't stop having,, she couldn't have a lasting relationship ,, she couldn't control her drinking,,she couldn't stop fantisizing about these young boys,, and we know she couldn't play bingo,, and finally she just couldn't stop thinking about Sylvia.. It was all the failures in Gertrude's life that led to this .. she is a "victum" of her own doing I think in my own mind that when money got tight Gertrude turned to cough syrup for a cheap high and it consumed the already miserable person she had become..
  • Kathe Mendelsohn-White
    Wow; I can't believe what's been going on here. I certainly did not mean to incite such hatred, etc. Everyone is certainly entitled to their opinions; we are just expressing ours here, but as Kathleen mentioned several posts up, we have all been discussing politely. I, like Stephen, have noticed Kaptain Kebo on other blogs and while some of his comments ring similarly, they were never so hostile previously. I certainly understand the outrage that people feel about this case, but it is not necessary to attack the posters that may have sympathetic feelings for some of the people involved. One can get across their opinions without attacking others. I think I've said it before, there is no black and white here but many shades of gray, and it is much more complex than it appears at first. Perhaps some people, like KK, can only see things in b&w. I have appreciated the level headed comments regarding this case made by Kathleen, Stephen and Rebecca. Stephen, by the way, do you doubt I am really married to baby Denny? Of course, I have no reason to lie to anyone. I wanted to prove it when I was being connected to Stephanie, because over the years there were false reports of where and who baby Dennis was. I was able to prove it by providing his birth date, which was written on the back of a picture that Stephanie had of Denny when he was just 2 days old. Once I provided that, they knew I was who I said I was. Denny has his first birth certificate with his original name and the name of his birth parents, Gertrude (it listed Wright as the last name) and Dennis Lee Wright. I could certainly send you a copy somehow to confirm that if you want. I knew that identifying myself on this blog could lead to horrible things said to myself and my husband. Some people are so narrow-minded that they believe that even the baby should be blamed. I've seen comments on other blogs hoping that even the children of those involved should be hounded for the rest of their lives. That is just sad. And Kaptain Kebo, I'd like to address you about something. You said you wanted Stephanie to admit that she never showed any remorse, and how could she forgive herself. She did actually try to save Sylvia. What is not known and was never in any publication, is that Stephanie actually had epilepsy and was having "time losses" when she had seizures. The phenobarbitol that Gertrude is reported taking was actually Stephanie's. Gertrude did not tell Stephanie that she had epilepsy, so she didn't know why whe was taking the phenobarbitol - I forgot what they told her it was for. In any event, Stephanie was not that aware of what was going on. She was Sylvia's friend. She told Sylvia to tell her if anything got real bad, and Sylvia never did. The week before she died, Stephanie tried calling the authorities twice. Once they came when she was in a seizure so she was not even aware they had come; the other time Gertrude interceded. I actually feel bad providing this information on this blog because Stephanie herself told me this, and I have not seen it anywhere else. I believe her. I have seen those mocking her Christianity saying that she didn't find Christ until after Sylvia died. But Stephanie told me she always attended church. It was Gertrude who did not attend church. And Marie told me it was she that tried to help Sylvia escape, and that Paula beat her pretty badly for that. They were all scared of Paula; she was like Gertrude's extended hand. Apparently, Gertrude and Paula were alone with Sylvia a lot of the time, which is never mentioned, when the rest of the kids were at school, so who knows what they were doing then. And unfortunately, my husband was there too for this to be in his subconscious (sp?), to haunt him in his adult life.
  • Stephen Hostetter
    Hello Kathe,,, I believe you and I have stated so.. The reason I asked those questions was to ease my own mind You just never know on the net and I have no information to cross check what anyone says.. All I know is what I know... I will say that everytime you post you make me a little more convenced of your connections so please don't stop posting ..! This blog needs your imput also I find you a very interesting person
  • Kaptain Kebo
    Again, here we go making excuses for people. Steph told Sylvia to 'tell her if things got really bad 'and she never told her. It reminds me of the scene in 'Walk Hard, The Dewey Cox Story' where Nate say's "Gee Dewey, I'm cut in half pretty bad". Maybe when Sylvia's level of pain reached the point where she could only mutter and moan, that was the hint to do something. Remember, Sylvia may have been Stephs friend, but Coy was Stephs Boyfriend. Sorry to rain on everyones parade but the fact is Steph is a liar and should have been convicted as an accomplice to murder. Paula should still be locked up.
  • Kaptain Kebo
    By our teen years we have the faculties to recognize when somebody is in extreme pain and physical distress. "Hey Sylvia, tell me when the cigarette burns hurt, they look infected".............please. I cannot endure any more of this. Showing compassion to the killers in an effort to get closer to them is wrong. I trust that if Jeffery Dahmer were still alive you all would be sympathizing with him.
  • Kathe Mendelsohn-White
    Listen, Kaptain Kebo, I've already many times said I am NOT making excuses for anyone. But what about the kids telling many adults about the situation and it was ignored do you just not get? The police came twice that week; and were sent away when Gertrude interceded. I don't believe that Stephanie is a liar. The case against her was dropped largely due to witness testimony, primarily Sylvia's own sister Diana, and the information was sealed. The reason the case was dropped was because they didn't have a case. And while I am no fan of Paula, by any means, according to the state of Indiana, she paid her debt to society. Who made you judge and jury? I know I'm not.
  • Kathleen
    Hi, Stephen, in post 138 you raised a question I kept wanting to go back to, only then there were first Kathe’s exciting news and everything became I a bit hectic. Here goes: In a way you must be right, Gertrude must in some way have deluded herself that she was doing the right thing. All the more since Phyllis Vermillion had seen the state Sylvia was in, wit-nessed Paula’s behaviour and neither said or done anything. So Gertrude may well have felt safe and right for a while and only the visits of the priest and the nurse and the very fact that some ominous person – Diana? Ms. Duke? Surely not the Vermillion woman? - had called authorities about a child with open sores may have warned her off - not only might other people see her treatment of Sylvia with different eyes but what she had done might get her into trouble. But for several reasons it doesn’t quite fit: If she really thought she was doing the right thing, this point of view would have been re-flected in her behaviour towards the other children. It’s true Marie and Shirley said they had been afraid of her and I’m sure they really were and had reasons to be. They must have been objected to physical punishment but not as much as to make it visible by wounds, scars, black eyes etc. Then, if she thought Sylvia had to be punished, why invent reasons instead of saying what Sylvia had done to make her so mad? To Phyllis Vermillion she said: “That’s Sylvia. She’s pregnant, she hasn’t had a period for so and so many weeks.” That was not true and she knew it wasn’t. There is a problem about the timing, too. The priest came twice, and the first time was on September 15th, if I remember right; that was when she told him about all the sins Sylvia allegedly had committed. The priest came back once more, either shortly before the nurse (Barbara, right?) visited, or right after. They both got the same lie: It was true about the sores but Sylvia had run away and good riddance etc. etc. (Maybe that was the moment the idea about the “gang of boys” lie, if not about the letter, first came to her mind). Any-way, at the time of the nurse’s visit Sylvia was already banished to the basement. If the priest’s second visit took place before the nurse came, the very fact that he didn’t give up that easily may of course have scared Gertrude enough for her to hide Sylvia right after, only it doesn’t seem likely - the priest was downright naïf or at least overworked, which is why she had been handling him successfully before. So why she would have panicked when he turned up again? If, on the other hand, his second visit took place after the nurse came, there is a gap of a few weeks between cause and reaction, so to say, which goes completely unexplained. All of this leads me to believe that Gertrude may have told herself and her children she was fulfilling a duty in “teaching Sylvia a lesson” so that she could live with herself but in some part of her mind she knew all along she was committing both a crime and a sin and was unable to help it. Her mental disorder had entered a florid phase. Kathe has confirmed that bipolar disorder is subject to triggers and in this case the trigger may have been Paula’s pregnancy. You can see why this would have unbalanced her mind. At best Paula would have to lead more or less her own life, children, poverty, lack of education, instead of achieving something better than herself which is what all parents want for their children. Then, Paula could not hope to get any help, financially or otherwise, from the father of the child. And she would have to rely on Gertrude to help her raise the child when she didn’t have enough money as it was and had her hands already full and was so sick and so tired. Apart from, again, that time and that place. Remember that Stephanie’s lawyer said in Gertrude’s trial he was sure that Stephanie was a virgin? Things like that mattered, strange as this seems today. It looks as if her rage at the pregnancy was genuine. Only she could not act it out with Paula. Maybe she was afraid she’d lose Paula’s love, maybe she was afraid that Paula would have it out with her if she let fly (Millett has it that in 1965, John jr. spent some time with his Dad at the beginning of the summer, before Stephanie went, in order to be disciplined because Gertrude couldn’t handle him any longer. By the way, that’s supposed to be the reason for John sr. leaving the famous police belt at Gertrude’s.) and maybe there was no reason one could have put into words at all but for some reason she had to transfer her rage (together with it’s cause) from Paula to Sylvia. Sick as this doubtlessly is, it’s transparent and, as many delusions distorted minds come up with, has its own inner logic. And the fact that Gertrude couldn’t help herself gets quite obvious when you reconsider Sylvias last days. From the state Sylvia was in Gertrude concluded that the dance might be about to end hence the letter and the normal bath and stuff, and on the Sunday or the Monday she had Sylvia on a kitchen chair and tried to feed her milk and something to eat. Sylvia couldn’t manage to grasp the glass and couldn’t swallow a thing and Gertrude, albeit she must have known this was dangerous couldn’t stop herself from throwing her off the chair – before she propped her up on it again. There are more clues, mostly in Dean. What do you think?
  • Rebecca Wilkins
    Well said, Kathe :)
  • Kathleen
    Hi, Kathe, I'm so glad you were not scared off by what goes on here now! Stephanie having epilepsy actually fits, I do remember reading she had fainting spells and somewhere in "The Basement" Millett has Gertrude worrying they might indicate a brain tumor - this is what they came from or it's just what Stephanie was told she had. Since your very first post I thought that if more of her children had inherited Gertrude's disposition Paula was an obvious and I can see why Marie was scared. While it's marvellous to have a pattern forming and missing links appearing, please keep in mind what I said in post 144 - I completely agree with Stephen that we need your input here but you don't have any obligation to anybody. Be kind to yourself, o.k.?
  • Kaptain Kebo
    Just wanted to say that myself and a couple of others are the 'minorities' on this forum, and yes when it comes to torturing other humans I am the first to admit that I pretty much am of the 'Black and White' mentality. I don't have any compassion or tolerance for people turning perpetrators into victims. But I must sat that many of you have some amazing insight into this crime and are very intelligent in how you communicate. Stephen's 'couldn't' theory is absolutely amazing and pretty much sums it up as far as any explanation goes. Kathleen has made some wonderful observations as well. And Kathe, your story is amazing, I wish you and your husband the best of health and good fortune as he truly is a victim of this crime and is fortunate to have somebody as supportive and wise as you in his life at this time. I do not want to further disrupt this forum by repeating my negative banter about people getting off easy and all arouind lack of remourse, so I will shut up and continue to read what you guys have to say as it is much more interesting.
  • Rebecca Wilkins
    First off, Ross, I know I'm a bit late for this, but wanted to reply to you anyways. No, I'm not related in any way to the Baniszewski, nor do I know any of them personally (I wasn't even alive when this took place). Why am I defending them so greatly? I'm not, actually, that's the thing. A lot of what I said seems to of "gone in one ear and out the other" or overlooked greatly and continues to be overlooked, hence my frustration. The children all chose their actions in assaulting Sylvia, and as a result they should of dealt with the consequences. And they did, and they still are. Fact is, you can't commit a murder so heinous and twisted, regardless what age you are, and live out the rest of your life accepted by the world. History never forgets and neither do people. As Kathe has stated, even poor Dennis has been ridiculed and outcasted by society for what's happened, and he was just a baby! Aside from simply being a baby in the same house, he had NOTHING to do with the murder! It has absolutely nothing to do with personally knowing the murderers, but everything to do with simply having common sense. I consider myself to be a very strong person. I speak up for what I believe in, regardless of who I'm up against and how many people hate me for it. I really could care less what people think of me or what they say. However, I know if I had to go through life being faced with a world that hated me so much for something I did as a dumb kid, I don't know if I'd want to live. It's the same for all humans. We need that love and compassion. Without it, we're nothing. And let me just say, human emotions can hurt just as badly as having someone kick you down stairs or carving "I'm a prostitute and proud of it" into your stomach. It's the reason so many people with depression commit suicide. Now maybe Paula and Stephanie can see what it was like for Sylvia to live in a place where everyone hated her and there was no love. Only difference is Sylvia will never again feel pain. Stephanie and Paula will have to live with it for the rest of their lives. Irony works in funny ways. Few of you claim that Stephanie and Paula should have "known better" based solely on their age, but I don't see you attacking any of the other children that were involved, seemingly because they were so young. You know what? I knew not to beat the shit out of people when I was 4. Marie and the other kids (many of them kids that weren't even part of the family) were just as involved as the older teens. Age plays absolutely no part in this, but rather the morals instilled in us and the adults who guide us. You people seem to think that my reasoning of defense is that the children did what they did simply because their mother didn't tell them it's wrong, period. That's NOT my point and you've twisted my words around completely. It's the little lessons we learn as children which stem into much greater things. "Don't pull kitty's tail" is what teaches us to respect animals and not "douse a dog with gasoline and light them on fire" , just as "You need to share" doesn't lead us to being overly greedy and "No, I'm not buying you that toy" doesn't lead to us being spoiled little brats who think we can get everything we want later in life. GERTRUDE was the "responsible" adult here, and what went from punishing Sylvia harshly (paddles, etc) escalated into more severe circumstances, and eventually her torture. Gertrude sat back and did nothing, and even encouraged it. To Paula "Stand up for yourself and fight your own battles" when Sylvia supposedly went around school telling everyone Paula was a prostitute. Judging by Gertrude's own warped personality, was probably something the kid's heard all their lives. I'm not "standing up" for murderers or in any way trying to justify what's been done. But I see another side to the story that's been over looked greatly or just not seen by many people. I say this not because I knew any of the Baniszewski children, but because I know children period. I've been working in early childcare education for the better of 10 years now. I've witnessed children that are fairly "messed up" who if only had been raised differently would of been completely different people. Dennis, from what Kathe tells us, has turned into a strong, intelligent individual, with a good heart, yet had he grown up with his birth mother, he'd probably of been no different then the other children (scary thought, I'm sure Kathe). I believe if life had been any different for Paula, Stephanie, John, and the rest of them, they would of turned out as decent human beings, and Sylvia would still be alive today.
  • Stephen Hostetter
    Hello,,, Kathleen,, yes I believe that was Mrs. Duke that called them yes the young Duke girl came home one day while her mother was washing dishes and told her of her concern for Sylvia.. It was Phillis Vermillion that "almost" called the police when the noise comming from the basement next door went a little too long.. I think it was Paula that said Sylvia was pregnant when she introduced her to Phillis Vermillion.. Then I believe Paula went on to brag about her giving Sylvia a black eye.. Yes , the nurse was Barbara and she was sent in regards to the Duke phone call ,I believe. I think the preist visited once and it was Dianna Shoemaker that visited once aswell ,, Sylvia's married sister and she was threatened by Gertrude with calling the police if she didn't go away.. The lie Gertrude made up was that Sylvia's parents didn't want her and Sylvia together.. Sylvia was confined to the basement already when the nurse arrived and the preist was after the nurse .. I know ppl with bi-polar disorder,, some in denial about it and others take their medication .. Yeah I know first hand how they go off ... That could explain a lot of Gertrude's uncontrollable rage. I also think that bi-polar ppl set themselves up for an attack by being real confronting.. Also you must factor in the fact that Gertrude herself was abused and extended that to Sylvia.. I think by the time they started to be concerned about Sylvia's condition it was to late which caused even more rage.. When you look back you see everything fits like clock-work,,, ppl playing agains't other people, not only the ones "involved" but the ones that won't get involved.. Non of which could have been planned, I mean how do you plan for people to look the other way that aren't involved ..
  • Stephen Hostetter
    Something we might consider before we condemn all of those that didn't say anything .... Marie,Stephanie,etc. If you are to do this with a clear mind you must consider that Jenny Likens did not come forward .. Would your comments still be accurate if you were to consider Jenny L. ?
  • Kathleen
    Good thinking, Stephen! Especially as most of the excuses found for Jenny apply just as well to Stephanie and her younger siblings, plus one more Jenny did not have: G. was their mother and they loved her.
  • Kai
    Sorry, but that's pathetic. And ignorant.
  • Stephen Hostetter
    Kai,, Be that as it may obviously they must have seen different in a court of law
  • Kai
    Yeah, the courts are never wrong. Ask O.J.
  • Kathleen
    Kai, could you be a bit clearer? Ignorant in reference to what? Pathetic in which aspect?
  • Kaptain Kebo
    Lets keep in mind people that the population of Indiana happens to statistically be one of the lowest I.Q. states in our Country. In Santa Claus we trust.
  • Kaptain Kebo
    And Jenny Liken's excuse?.............Fear.
  • Stephen Hostetter
    KK,,, Funny as that may seem,,, if it wasn't for Indianapolis you wouldn't be driving a car...
  • Kaptain Kebo
    And lets not forget that while the entire B clan was lying through their teeth and following Mom's script it was Jenny who pulled the cop aside and told the truth.
  • Stephen Hostetter
    Ok,, then if Jenny can be frightened then why can't the others...?
  • Kaptain Kebo
    The cop was out the door when brave little Jenny pulled him aside and said "get me the fuck out of here", proving that she was in great fear for her welfare. If Jenny had not turned them in it is likely that she would be dead now and the B's would never have been caught, which means most of you people would be on another forum right now defending Ted Bundy or Tex Watson. I know I said I was finished here but I have less patience for people turning victims into perpetrators than I do for turing perpetrators into victims, when confronted with such ignorance I must speak up.
  • Kaptain Kebo
    They were family members, she was not. She saw what THEY did to her sister. If they were all frightened for their lives why is Jenny the only one to step forward with the truth? I cannot believe that you would even suggest that Steph and Paula were ever in fear for their lives for a moment, Jenny had every reason to be, they did not.
  • Stephen Hostetter
    Then the question comes down to why didn't Jenny take the arm of a teacher,, or her sister,,, or another policeman,,or the nurse,, or the preist,, the same questions you ask of the others.. When Jenny came forward was after the fact,, to late
  • Ross
    Kaptain Kebo is right here. Gertrude pretty much told Jenny that if she mentioned Sylvia's situation to anyone, Jenny would receive the same treatment.
  • Kaptain Kebo
    And Indianapois invented the car? I was not aware of that, in fact I did not know that a city could invent anything. And if not for Jenny's bravery, Paula and Stessi would be living with a dark secret to this day and you would have nobody to defend.
  • Kaptain Kebo
    Paula was frightened??? you are hilarious
  • Kaptain Kebo
    Hey Kai, do not let these liberals get you down. Any level headed person can see just how far they must reach to defend these monsters.
  • Kaptain Kebo
    And thanks for the clarity Ross. What you said is documented. Gertie threatening her kids with the same treatment was never mentioned or documented.
  • Kaptain Kebo
    By the way, Jenny made her break when she felt safe to do it. She said, "GET ME OUT OF HERE and I will tell you everything", proving that she was in GREAT fear for her life. Yes, shoulda, coulda, woulda, but we are not dealing with mental giants here. Be it to late she spoke up when a cop was there and she felt safe in doing so.
  • Kaptain Kebo
    Next?
  • Stephen Hostetter
    The truth may be that this is all a product of serious abuse and it can make monsters out of the nicest of ppl.. why? they don't know just theories Also, I'd like to say all I mean't was that you can't look at this case as a whole without considering Jenny into your final equation...
  • Rebecca Wilkins
    We're "liberals" now? LMFAO!!!
  • Stephen Hostetter
    Also ,, I think it's pretty low to come in here talking down Hoosiers' just because your having a hard time answering questions straight forward.. And also when you talk down Hoosiers' you talk down Sylvia as well
  • Kaptain Kebo
    If not liberals, certainly 'bleeding hearts' or 'excuse makers'.
  • Stephen Hostetter
    What makes me liberal..? The fact that I'm trying to think this is something bigger then just a bunch of stupid hayseed dipshits..?
  • Kaptain Kebo
    Get out of here. How can you suggest that Paula and Steph were in fear when they had no reason to believe that their mother would ever turn on them the way she did Sylvia. Jenny had every reason to believe that she was next. And what questions have I not answered straightforward? As far as 'Hoosiers' go, I shouldn't generalize but after living in 7 States I can say that after 6 months in Indiana I had to run for my life. I could not endure one more conversation about 'bad assesd pickups' or 'hunting' or 'getting fucked up and kicking ass'. I would like to point out that you also have been critical towards the State and how they dealt with your daughter as well. Releasing a little girl into the hands of a known pedofile stating that he liked them a little older than her? Having said that, I am aware of some pockets of Indiana that are very cool, like Bloomington, and Madison, lotta cool little College towns. Stay south of I-70 and you are o.k., if you want to witness some real children of the corn type shit head north (Fort Wayne, South Bend, Angola) . Do not forget Stephen that I was also quick to acknowledge that some of your statements regarding the Likens murder have been amazingly accurate and insightful, some even bordering on genius. So yes, their are exeptions but overall it is a pretty fucked up State. What question did I not answer straightforward?
  • Stephen Hostetter
    I'm glad people here get to see the kind of person that would elect a president that would distroy a once fine nation
  • Kathe Mendelsohn-White
    I have no problems saying I am liberal-minded. It's not a four letter word. I don't know about the others, but that really has nothing to do with my thinking about this case. Sorry, but I know that Stephanie and Marie and the other children all feared Gertrude. Maybe not specifically for their lives, but Gertrude was the master manipulator and often used blackmail, even with her children. Stephanie told me that when Gertrude divorced John B. the second time, the kids wanted to go with their father, naturally. But Gertrude blackmailed Stephanie and said "I will tell the court that your father molested her. Stephanie countered back "and I'll tell the court that he didn't" to which Gertrude said "Then I'll say that your father molested both Marie and Shirley". Gertrude always had something else to use as blackmail. It is quite clear that we will not be of the same mind here; and the best we can do is agree to disagree. However, it is ridiculous to assert that if Jenny had not told previously that the Baniszewski's would not be "caught". They obviously were not fleeing. I'm quite sure the facts would have come out regardless.
  • Kaptain Kebo
    Not sure where you are going with that?????
  • Kathe Mendelsohn-White
    KK, do you mean me?
  • Kaptain Kebo
    Is this the same Stephanie that you stated ultimately forgave her mother?? and the 'Not sure where you are going with that' was directed at a political comment regarding the presidential election.
  • Kaptain Kebo
    By the way, I will not be voting for your 'boy' or Mcain, so lets stick to the script and save politics for another forum
  • Kathe Mendelsohn-White
    Kaptain Kebo, obviously you know it's the same Stephanie. Why is that an issue if she ultimately forgave her mother? I think that has to do with her Christian beliefs. Isn't that what Chistianity preaches after all?
  • Kathe Mendelsohn-White
    KK, that's a pretty racist comment calling Obama "boy", especially for one that asserts that Indiana is backward. But I do agree that politics are not the topic here.
  • Kaptain Kebo
    I'm glad people here get to see the kind of person that would elect a president that would distroy a once fine nation Stephen Hostetter on Oct 29, 2008 This is a textbook example of somebody's inability to answer a question straightforward.
  • Kaptain Kebo
    That had nothing to do with his race, it had to do with his age, maybe you are the racist.
  • Kaptain Kebo
    By the way, Christaianity is based on bullshit and lies, only the gullible or people in need of forgiveness swallow.
  • Kathe Mendelsohn-White
    Kaptain Kebo: OK, if you say so. Would you have called Teddy Roosevelt "boy"? He was actually younger than Obama when he became president. Or Ulysses S. Grant? Same thing. Why because I didn't assume you meant age when you clearly put quotes around the word boy does that make me racist? Of course, you are entitled to your opinions about Christianity. By the way, I'm not a Christian myself. I was raised with both Jewish and Chistian teachings (as my parents were of different faiths) however my beliefs are really neither. I just know that we are merely specs of dust in the universe and could not possibly really know everything.
  • Kaptain Kebo
    Let's leave your imaginary super hero out of this and stick to logic. I promise to not bring up Santa Claus.
  • Kathe Mendelsohn-White
    What imaginary superhero?
  • Kaptain Kebo
    Sorry, but if Steph forgives anybody that was involved in how that girl was slowly tortured and killed right before her eyes (which you stated she did forgive), then she is grasping towards christianity because no logical person could witness someone being burned, beaten and branded and ever find and ounce of understanding or forgiveness within themselves. If she did not have her imaginary superhero to cling onto she would be dubbed as crazy or insane. Guess what? Paula should still be in jail......end of story, next?
  • Kaptain Kebo
    Steph's imaginary superhero
  • Kaptain Kebo
    I do respect you for defending your husbands sisters Kathe. Some people would just make an off handed remark assuming that I am voting for a certain candidate and then run away. All out of bullets?? I've got logic for miles, in fact while others fall into the trenches of defeat I am just getting warmed up. By the way, maybe you can set Rebecca straight on just how rough Steph and Paula's lives have (not) been. Does Steph have kids? Sylvia didn't have the chance.
  • Kaptain Kebo
    Steph clinging to her imaginary superhero is just her way of skirting the real issues.
  • Rebecca Wilkins
    Kathe, you said it perfectly. I'm not religious in the least bit, but I don't out right claim that there is nothing out there. I'm an agnostic. I don't know what to believe, because I know that as a human, there is no way I know everything there is to know about life or the world, or the universe. Humans aren't as intelligent as they seem to think...smug and arrogant, but far from the intelligent know it alls they like to portray themselves as. Fact of the matter is, NO ONE knows for sure whether or not there is a higher power. Prove it. PROVE that there isn't a God. Physically fucking prove it. You can't. Just like you can't prove there is one. Only a naive idiot would claim to know for absolute certain that we're all there is to life. Of course, then again lol...
  • Kaptain Kebo
    I spoke of christianity, which clearly defines god as a 'guy who was magic' not a higher power. Rebecca, you are the idiot.
  • Kaptain Kebo
    By the way Rebecca, did you manage to locate those post murder interviews the B kids have given regarding their lives since the crime?........didn't think so, you are also a liar, so stay out of this.
  • Kaptain Kebo
    I also believe in a higher power, and it has nothing to do with a bearded 'magic guy'. Sylvia looks down on you in shame Rebecca. It is easy for Steph to forgive her boyfriend, mother, sister, Richard, etc. Steph does not have to look in the mirror every morning and see "I am a prostitute, and proud of it" carved into her stomach.
  • Rebecca Wilkins
    Does it hurt to be so unreceptive, Kaptain Kebo? Don't worry, that should change as soon as you turn 16 years old ;)
  • Kaptain Kebo
    By the way, off topic, what the fuck is a 'hoosier'? I have traveled every state extensively and Indiana is the only one that I am aware of where the occupants have assigned themselves a goofy title.
  • Ross
    That Gertrude is a master manipulator is obvious. Here are my thoughts of the psychological power play she made in this situation: she had a fat, unattractive, insecure, and very angry daughter in Paula. Due to her insecurity, she allowed herself to essentially be a piece of tail for married, older men since boys her own age ignored her. She experienced rejection by these men, who ultimately decided on their wives over porky little Paula. This drove rage inside of her. Gertrude, also, had major emotional health and impulse control issues. Kathe's contention that she had untreated bipolar disorder seems quite plausible. She knew the feeling of rejection by men, and felt burning anger inside of her with no outlet. Gertrude also reveled in any attention she got from the opposite sex. When Sylvia came along, Sylvia threatened this. Gertrude really began to hate Sylvia, who was by all accounts a very attractive girl. Gertrude then manipulated Paula to channel Paula's inner hatred and anger towards Sylvia, making up lies about Sylvia insulting Paula, etc. The fact that Paula was around Sylvia's age, and was a slovenly, unattractive girl while Sylvia turned a lot of eyes did not help the situation. Gertrude nurtured and nurtured the animosity of Paula by Sylvia, and then began to encourage the ensuing cruelty shown by Paula as an outlet for both of them. Gertrude really didn't have the physical wherewithal to do what was done to Sylvia. She was a sickly woman of 5'6" and 100 lbs. That's skeletal - my girlfriend is 5'6" and 128, and quite thin. Paula, however, was 5'4" and 180, so she could be Gertie's main enforcer. Once Gertie got Paula, and then brainwashed the other kids, they would fall into line. As far as Jenny goes, I think it is sick and wrong to blame her for not speaking up sooner. Here was a 14 or 15 year old girl, completely out of her element, living with a family of violent brutes, no doubt fearing for her personal safety and/or life. She had witnessed, as Kathe has said, Gertrude manipulate other adults. Her fear was that if she said something, Gertie would simply dismiss the allegations, saying "oh, you know, kids and their vivid imaginations." "Yeah, Gertie, your probably right. Well, just thought I'd ask. Bye." And vuola! As soon as the door closed, Jenny would join her sister in the basement, as promised by Gertie; and the torture would most likely escalate due to Gertie's control issues and having her sense of control being violated. While I am disgusted by the B's behavior, no doubt, I cannot see this in as simple terms as Kaptain Kebo has. Sure, they deserved to be punished more than they have been, and they all got off easy, particularly Gertrude. However, the scary thing is that all of us have the demons the Baniszewski kids have inside of them. All of us have the capability. This is a scary fact of the human condition. Various periods in history and various pyschological experiments (the Milligram electric shock experiment at Yale) have proven over and over how depraved normal people can be given various circumstances. Basically, from my perspective, if the kids would have been incarcerated for life, I certainly would not be complaining or clammoring for their release. However, such was not the case. I believe in the redemption of humanity to some extent, and if they have lived their lives without incident since, or even if they have made decent contributions to humanity, I can accept that. With the exception of Paula and Coy Hubbard, I think many of these kids could be reformed given their age and the circumstances.
  • Kaptain Kebo
    Cut it with the age bit you fucking brainless moron, YOU SOUND LIKE A KID every time you do that. Are you all out of logic and have to resort to bullshit?
  • Ross
    Oh, Kaptain Kebo - you mentioned you had a connection to the incident. Do you mind telling us what that is?
  • Rebecca Wilkins
    "I am an athiest." atheism the absolute denial of the existence of God, gods, or higher power. — atheist, n. — atheistic, adj. So now not only are you a dumbass, but you're a hypocrite too?
  • Kaptain Kebo
    Someday I will, when I can no longer endure listening to 'hoosiers' stating that Jenny should have done something sooner, and that Sylvia should have TOLD Steph that the burning/branding was getting pretty bad. Ross, can I ask you, do you find forgiveness for Gertie and the gang in your christian heart? as has Steph?
  • Rebecca Wilkins
    "Are you all out of logic and have to resort to bullshit?" Just following your example. Only difference is in your case there never was logic. Just pure 100% BS.
  • Kaptain Kebo
    Wow, an athiest?? You just moved up a notch in my book!!! (that puts you at minus 4)
  • Rebecca Wilkins
    "Paula and Steph being allowed to live full lives while Sylvia died such a painful death is exactly the reason I am an athiest. " Post 146, As quoted by you, Daniel San! :D
  • Kaptain Kebo
    I believe that post # 256 is the most intellient synopsis of this case that I have seen. Ross, you are a genius and your post sums it all up. Their really is nowhere to go from there...Genius, Thank you!! And Becca, I used the term athiest loosely, I do believe that there are things we cannot understand but do not buy into your christianity 'magic guy' bullshit. Christians like you want to treat people like shit, just as the B's did, and at the end of the day you repent and all is forgiven, BULLSHIT, if you are gonna talk it.......WALK IT. Don't kid yourself into thinking that some imaginary guy who is responsible for everything approves of you treating people like shit.
  • Rebecca Wilkins
    UUUHHHHHH I'm NOT a Christian, buddy! I'm pretty sure I stated above that I'm an agnostic, which means I don't have a religion, but I can't exclude the possibility of there being a God. Just because I don't make it a hobby jump down the throats of Christians (or anyone who doesn't think like you) like you do, does NOT mean I am one.
  • Kaptain Kebo
    Becca, post #256 is the closest thing to reality that you will ever know about this case, and because I didn't write it maybe you can allow yourself to study it and learn something. My 'GOD' is Ross!! Thanks again for your insight and for not trying to shift this to an election forum as previous posters have. Damn you are smart........brilliant post, in the midst of us throwing personal jabs at each other you can chime in with a major insightful dose of reality regarding the actual case. And if it takes for 'God' for Steph to sleep at night so be it, I suppose it is better than drugs.
  • Kathe Mendelsohn-White
    Finally something we agree on, KK. I think Ross' assessment in post #256 sums it all up too, especially the part saying that all of us have these demons inside of them and have such capability. By the way, I'm not a "hoosier" - just married to one. I really would like to know your connection to the case. It does take some courage to speak up to say how you are connected; I certainly did not know if I would be booed off the forum or not, but I took a chance and for the most part I think people have treated me with much respect and understanding. Maybe it's just easier to "forgive" baby Denny, who did nothing, but you'd be surprised how people feel just the fact that he has Gertrude's genes that he must be just as evil. I'm quite sure that is why my husband's adopted mother started her reign of terror on Denny. I know she was "beating the devil" out of him "for his own good".... sound familiar?
  • Rebecca Wilkins
    " Becca, post #256 is the closest thing to reality that you will ever know about this case, and because I didn't write it maybe you can allow yourself to study it and learn something. " Oh okay.
  • Kaptain Kebo
    Cut it with the age bit you fucking brainless moron, YOU SOUND LIKE A KID every time you do that. Are you all out of logic and have to resort to bullshit? KK By the way, this post was directed at Rebecca for calling me a sixth grader again, NOT ross's post before it. And I agree with Ross, Paula and Coy were the closest to being legal adults and of all the kids are certainly mostly to blame
  • Kaptain Kebo
    My father grew up in Long Beach, CA. where he met and dated Sylvia in the spring/summer of 1965. He never wanted her to go back to Indiana and hoped that someday she would return. As you know, she never had that opportunity.
  • Kaptain Kebo
    He could never understand how this could happen to such a lovely person, and to this day he has to leave the room if the topic comes up. I think he still loves her.
  • Stephen Hostetter
    KK,, People from Indiana are just like any you'll find.. I've been all over the US and Canada myself and I see no reason why this couldn't happen in any town.. I would say you have a tendency to prejudge considering your limited knowlege of both the Likens case and Hoosier's in general...
  • Kaptain Kebo
    I have a limited knowledge of 'hoosiers?' When confronted with hoosier mentality I must say that you were a wimp. MY child would NEVER be released to live with a convicted sexual predater, regardless of what a 'hoosier' case worker, or a 'hoosier' judge said. I would take my child and leave the State (or country) and request a jury trial if ever caught. Some things cannot just be 'left in the hands of God Stephen.
  • Kaptain Kebo
    What does it say on the 'hoosier' licsense plates?? Please elaborate on my limited knowledge of 'hoosiers'? that implies that they are different while in the same paragraph you state that 'hoosiers' are just like everyone else.
  • Kaptain Kebo
    Please, I am not blaming the State of Indiana for the death of Sylvia. I have blamed their justice system for being far to leniant on the killers, just as you have expressed outrage towards the Indiana justice system, so stop taking it personally just because you are a proud 'hoosier'. I do know this, Sylvia was much happier in California than in Indiana and could have stayed, she returned to Indy with her family because she felt an overwhelming obligation to her younger sister.
  • Kaptain Kebo
    Also, I could tell you more personal things about Sylvias plans, hopes and dreams than you will ever learn by hanging out on web forums, so don't ever suggest that my knowledge of her is any more limited than yours or any other crime 'groupies'. In the Easter Bunny We Trust..............you people are a joke.
  • Stephen Hostetter
    You don't do Sylvia a God damned bit of service ,,, let me tell you something smartass ... It's not how smart you are that counts it's what kind of a person you are .. End of story
  • Kaptain Kebo
    You don't do Sylvia a God damned bit of service ,,, let me tell you something smartass … It's not how smart you are that counts it's what kind of a person you are .. Wow, there's a 'staightforward' answer to a question. Especially immediately after stating that I am not as smart as you are concering this crime or 'hoosiers'.
  • Kaptain Kebo
    I am a good person, I will stand up for what is right, you can just let God drive. And while a child is being abused after you could have stopped it, I am sure that they will take great comfort in knowing that you left everything in the hands of God, because "he had a plan, and their is a lesson to be learned" Sorry, but you are retarded..................next??
  • Rebecca Wilkins
    You're fucking delusional, Kaptain Kebo. Absolutely out of your God damn mind. Does your anti-God complex bother you this badly in the real world?
  • Stephen Hostetter
    PS... A Hoosier is simply a person born or lives in IN .. Like many famous names you may have heard like oh ,,, Will Gere,, John Melloncamp,, James Dean,, Red Skelton,, Tony Hulman,, The Jackson 5,, Oprah,, Gene Straton Porter,, Abe Lincoln in Sainta Claus Indiana by the way,, Forest Tucker,, Claud Akins,,Steve Mcqueen,,Phil Harris,,Jane Pauly,, Dave Letterman,, Majiorie Main,, Dick The Bruiser,,(westler)..Ernie Pyle,, Guss Grissm,,Madam Walker,,Benjimen Harrison,, Dussenburg assembly,, Stutz bearcat assembly,, Alison's makers of Tank transmissions assembly plant,, Ford Motors English plant,, Decker cabs assembly plant,, But then you have,, Charles Manson,, Jim Jones,, Steven Judy,, Gertrude,, John Dillinger,, The Speedway Bomber Bret Kimberlan,, By the way it was a Hoosier that invented the process of crackling gasoline.. not to mention Indy being race capital of the world.. My grandfather welded steel on the launchpads at cape canaveral FL. he fell 100' and lived only to die of cancer at age 56 He was a master welder and one of only 200+ they picked from the whole state.. My father was a #3 clean up crew at Ford Motor Co. and all his children started succesful construction companies..
  • Stephen Hostetter
    Not to forget,,,, GM and General Electric over on Shadeland,, and last but not least,,,, the largest childrens museum in the world...
  • Kaptain Kebo
    Also, as a collector of antique musical instruments I can add that the Conn musical instrument company in Elkhart produced beautiful instruments, many of which were engraved by hand, and The Leedy Drum Company was founded in Indianapolis only to move to Elkhart when purchased by Conn. in the 30's. Camco Drum Company got it's start in South Bend. And for you Rock fans, Axl Rose and Izzy Stradlin (Guns and Roses) are both from Indiana. And Rebecca, you are retarded.........did you find those interviews yet??
  • Kaptain Kebo
    Oh yeah, let's not forget the lengendary SLIPPERY NOODLE, one of the oldest Live Blues clubs in the country. At one time in my life I fell in love with a Hoosier and actually cashed in all of my chips and moved there. I can't explain the bad vibe I got there as I do love Ohio and Kentucky, I am not a huge fan of Indiana or Michigan but that is just opinion, I certainly do not hold all hoosiers accountable for the Likens murder.
  • Rebecca Wilkins
    Please come up with a new insult, please, because by your definition just about everyone who has responded to you is a retard. Thanks.
  • Rebecca Wilkins
    I already told you I couldn't find them. But what does it matter, I'm a liar, remember? :)
  • Kaptain Kebo
    Hey Rebecca, It's obvious to everyone that you have a crush on me.....why don't you just admit it?
  • Kai
    I think it's pathetic and ignorant to compare Jenny to anyone in that family. She watched people come in and out of that house, see the condition Sylvia was in and do nothing and yet she was supposed to speak out under the clear threat of getting the same treatment as Sylvia? What I see on this board is mixture of compassion and morbid curiosity which is completely normal because of the horrifying story and what seems to be a miscarriage of justice because of the light sentences and absence of any sentence at all in a few cases. All of us, me included, wanted to know more about these people because it is mind bending to think they may have gone on to live "normal" lives. I think some mystery is added because of the name changes, which only fuel the feeling that they are trying to escape not just a prying public, but to an extent; themselves. There is a feeling that they should not be allowed to do this because of the feelings of horror and revulsion we have about their actions. Is this right? Wrong? Who's to say? I think that if there were knowledge that there had been some sort of real effort to repent or do something with their lives that perhaps could show that they were striving to make amends to humanity, like dedicating their lives to work with victims of abuse or something in that vein, that people may at least look at the young Stephanie differently. But saying she became a Christian? That is an insult to one's intelligence. So what? True regret, true repentance is a life dedicated to making right a wrong when it comes to something so heinous. Changing one's name and becoming a Christian doesn't show anything more than cowardice in my opinion. I think it is nice that baby Dennis' wife has posted and filled in gaps for we curious posters, but the mad rush to excuse the actions of the Baniszewski clan with these pseudo psychological "excuses" is sickening and smacks of a groupie like mentality in order to keep sucking the marrow from the bones of her in-laws family story. Sick shit happens. It happened to Sylvia and to Jenny, albeit in a completely psychological way, and most of us will ever understand it because despite what I have read by some poster on here, we DO NOT all have the capability to do the things that were done to Sylvia which is why it is so captivating and why it is easy to reject that there is any sort of absolution for anyone involved and impossible for most of us to excuse. But to even utter that Jenny is culpable in any way is ignorant and does not deserve contemplation of any kind. No worries K.K. No one is getting me down.
  • Rebecca Wilkins
    "Hey Rebecca, It's obvious to everyone that you have a crush on me…..why don't you just admit it?" Is that the best you can do?
  • scorpio
    Rebecca and Kebo sitting in tree a-r-g-u-i-n-g
  • Kaptain Kebo
    true regret, true repentance is a life dedicated to making right a wrong when it comes to something so heinous. Changing one's name and becoming a Christian doesn't show anything more than cowardice in my opinion. Absolute poetry......music to my ears, Thank you Kai. I am emberassed to have fallen into the trap of personal insults and lame jabs on this thread and it is so impressive to me that people like you and Ross can refrain from that behavior and post such intelligent threads. As soon as I saw posts like "if Jenny was afraid why, can't Paula be afraid?" and "God had a plan for Sylvia so we could learn a lesson" (bad plan god) or "Jenny is just as guity as the B's" I should have realized that this is like attempting to discuss algebra with german shepards and backed off. Anyway thank you again for your insight, it is the occasional thread like yours that has made all of this bickering worth it.
  • Stephen Hostetter
    All I said was that they were = partners in their level of fear ,,, maybe you should read the book and stop making a fool out of yourself
  • Kaptain Kebo
    Why don't you read court transcripts and look at autopsy photos and stop making a fool out of yourself.................."GOD had a plan so we could learn a lesson"??? are you fucking kidding me? I have a few photos of Sylvia in California that you will NEVER see in any book.
  • Rebecca Wilkins
    Argument and disputes aside, Kaptain Kebo....do you have a link to Sylvia's autopsy photos? I'm not trying to start anything this time, I'm genuinely curious.
  • Ross
    Stephen, You left out the Cummins company south east of Indianapolis. This is coming from a Buckeye (Ohio boy). Kaptain Kebo, Thank you for answering the question I posed. From reading the book, it was said that Sylvia "got under the covers" with a boy in California. Even in the movie, it said that Sylvia had a thing with a boy in California, which Gertie threw back in her face. Kai, I dispute the fact that we do not all have the capability in us. It has been proven time and time again, that under the right circumstances, apparently normal humans have engaged in completely indescribable depravity. Apparently normal people participated in atrocities in Nazi Germany, getting swept up in the wave of German nationalism and the norms propagated that these depraved acts were acceptable, in fact honorable, to God and Country. The same can be said for Soviet Russia. Stanley Milligram's experiment on what humans are willing to do to other humans under the guise of authority is most pertinent to the Baniszewski situation. In the Milligram expirement, normal people selectedcx at random off the streets of New Haven, Connecticut were put in a room, and told to shock people behind a wall. They could not see them but could hear them. Each time, despite hearing fake screams coming from the other room, escalated the shock level upon being ordered. Even once the screams stopped meaning the person apparently lost consciousness or died, the majority of the test subjects continued to shock the fake victim. These were all normal people, and the experiment was conducted precisely to prove what humans were capable of when they thought they were following protocol, and not subject to personal accountability for their actions. As I said, my take on the situation is a bit nuanced. If the B kids were incarcerated and left to rot for their entire lives, my heart most certainly would not bleed for them. While all of us have it in us, they actually crossed the line. However, the fact that they caught a break from society and for the most part, realized their wrongs and did not reoffend, makes me less angry. However, that does not extend to Gertrude, Coy, and Paula. These individuals seem like genuine psychopaths, and need to be locked away not only for punishment, but for the protection of society. For me, the others were at too impressionable of ages to make that determination solidly. While Kathe asserts plausibly that Gertie had bipolar disorder, I would say she also had a psycopathic personality, as did Coy and Paula. This is demonstrated by their callous and remorseless attitude towards their actions that cause suffering to others, the fact they show an inability to bond in a human fashion, resorting instead to viewing other people as objects to be manipulated, etc. This makes sense with Coy, as he was incarcerated for several other violent crimes besides this horrific thing.
  • Kaptain Kebo
    My Dad left California in 1968 and moved to Seattle, then to Phoenix in 1975 when he divorced my mother. After retiring in 2000 he moved back to long Beach and is now living 4 blocks from the church where he met Sylvia and Jenny. He has shown me the park where they would spend their days eating potato chips and drinking soda while Jenny and my aunt would play in the grass. He also told me that they would look for bottles up and down the beach to exchange for the deposits. When showing me the supermarket where he had his first job he got teary eyed while telling me that his girl would sit for hours next to the pay-phone out front waiting for him to get off work. I became aware of his connection to Sylvia when I was 12 years old and found a copy of 'The Indiana torture slaying' in a box in our garage and found 3 three pictures tucked into it, one of Sylvia standing next to a bicycle, one of Sylvia and my dad dressed for church, and another of Sylvia, Jenny, my aunt (who I recognized in the picture) and another girl who my dad said was their next door neighbor until her dad was transfered, they were all dressed up. My father took the book and would not let me read it until I was 15, by then, I had done my research at the libarary (this was pre-internet) behind his back. I never let on that I had already read the book 3 or 4 times by then. The reason I get so angry at the people who witnessed this and did nothing about it is that that 40 years after the fact my dad feels guilt because he did not want her to go back to Indiana and I don't think he forgives himself to this day for letting her, so how could anyone who actually witnessed what happened to her forgive anybody?? he told me that she planned on returning and even wrote him letters, unfortunately my mother threw them out years later. I have never seen the movie.
  • Kaptain Kebo
    I had a day off in Indy in 1999 and went to the courthouse where the entire trial transcripts, police reports, autopsy photos (copies, not originals) and even a psycological examination report on Gertie was available to read, all public domain. For 10 cents a page I was able to make copies of everything I wanted, unfortunately the copy machine at the courthouse would not produce a decent copy of copies of the black and white photos, this is probably for the best as it has been 9 years and I still feel damaged by what I saw, I am haunted by them just thinking about it now, her eyes were wide open and they had drawn black lines over her breasts and private areas on the copies. I kind of wish that I had never seen them, some things should not ever be etched into your brain as these have been in mine for 9 years. I did not sleep a wink for 2 days after that, and that was from seeing blurry copies of black and white photos, I do not know how Steph could witness the etching that her mother and Richard Hobbs did to Sylvia and go on to forgive them as those pictures will always haunt my mind and while I type my words of rage to all the idiots who write this off as a groovy plan by 'god' to teach us all a lesson, all I can see is her dead face, arms, legs, closeups of her ears and back, and the horrible 3 on her chest. I AM FINISHED HERE.................GOODBYE
  • Kathleen
    KK: You might have said all this about your Dad’s connection to Sylvia before; we could have met your wild rage with a different view. Maybe you could be so kind and elaborate on the reason for his feeling guilty about letting her go – was there anything he could have done about her parents taking her back to Indiana or is this a less defined thing? Also I get the impression he may have learnt of her fate by the news – which would be shattering to any one no matter what their situation is otherwise. This may not be of much help to you or to him but I would like to point out that before July 1965 Sylvia basically was a happy girl and your Dad obviously was part of what made her so.
  • Kathleen
    KK: it seems I first jumped and then thought - I see now how the feeling of guilt came about and should have known right from the beginning. Sorry.
  • Kathleen
    To everybody: When I said that the same reasons for silence that were found for Jenny applied to Stephanie and her younger siblings – I did not include Paula because she’s the one I know least about and I don’t want to say anything about her until I’ m sure of what I say – I meant that they all shared the feeling of fear. Not necessarily fear for their life. Not even a fear defined any how. With a child under 12 the thinking would rather go like this: “If I tell, Mummy will beat me really bad, like she does with Sylvia and maybe she won’t be able to stop herself until I really hurt and maybe she’ll never stop and maybe I will never be allowed to see Daddy again or I won’t get anything to eat or … or ….or” . Also: “If Mommy finds out it was me who told she’ll have Paula beat me up really bad and Paula enjoys beating you can see how she does with Sylvia” or even: “If I tell Mommy will go to prison and Daddy’s not here and I will have to go to an orphanage and it will all be because I blabbered and the others will hate me forever”. I’ m not pretending I know what they thought, I’ m just giving examples. Also, I think when Marie finally tried to help Sylvia she must have acted in spite of some of her fears – and that was a brave thing to do for some-one of her age - but still she was only 11 and may not even have had a concept of what death actually means but simply acted out of compassion. I believe that none of them had realized that Sylvia was dying except herself – not even Jenny who had been told she would. And I NEVER said that Jenny was guilty! She was like Sylvia had been – it will be over if we just hold on for a while longer. Until it was too late.
  • Stephen Hostetter
    Ross,, Yes Cummins Diesel,, I know the Buckeye state very well indeed ... Many fine folks there I might add.. In fact I just got back from Fort Recovery,, I was there to photograph the source of the Wabash river... Seems there are no photographs anywhere on the net.. KK,, My whole goal is to just try to understand the minds of everyone involved in this story... I never once at any time even mentioned Paula, and I mentioned the others only in reference.. Ever since you started in pointing fingers ,, putting ppl down, ppl you never even met..! You have done nothing, and I repeat nothing for the memory of Sylvia Likens... We can't help it you feel guilty for being alive maybe in your next life you will reincarnate as a frog at least then you'll have a voice to go with that fake name
  • Stephen Hostetter
    Kathleen,, Kathe,, Rebecca,, Let's try to keep our productive conversations going in spite of the attention hogs that like to disrupt and agitate... It's only obvious the way they have contorted everything we have said to fit their scenerios .. The one that really got me was using OJ simpson as an example of how the Indiana justice system is unfair.. Ok,, OJ was tried in California wasn't he..? If I'm not correct they did find probable cause for evidence tampering... ?
  • Kai
    Ethical nature. That's really what you are talking about. 65% of participants did press the button in Stanley Milgram's experiment, which leaves 35% who did not. These percentages did not change in subsequent testing performed by others, one including a puppy (actually shocked, unlike the Milgram experiment where there was no actual shocking) which caused some participants to openly weep but nonetheless they pressed the button. Again, 40% of the participants refused to shock the subject. So if you want to widely interpret that you can arguably say a majority of people have the ethical nature that can allow atrocities to occur. But you are still left with the 35-40%, which is no small number, of those who have the opposite ethical nature. Perhaps these are the kind of people who risked their lives in Nazi Germany to hide Jewish citizens, to create underground groups who spirited them to safety, or like Oscar Schindler used other means to fight the machine of hate and conformity. So, that said, I still contend that you cannot say we ALL have it within us, but concede that 60-65% do. Apparently 100% of the Baniszewski's did and found like minded or ethically-impaired people like themselves to mentally and physically torture Sylvia Likens.
  • Kai
    Your posts have been among the least productive on here.
  • Kai
    My reference to O.J. was not an indictment of the Indiana courts it was to the idea that justice is always served. You are really grasping for insult on that one.
  • Stephen Hostetter
    Kai,,, It was Kaptin Kabo that made that statement about OJ... So you and KK are one in the same..?
  • Kathleen
    Whose posts are you referring to, Kai?
  • Kai
    No. Read back, it was me who made the O.J. statement.
  • Rebecca Wilkins
    "So you and KK are one in the same..?" You know, I was really starting to wonder this... Their arguments all seem to be based on the same dense, warped logic.
  • Kai
    Kathleen, I was referring to Stephen's, and now Rebecca's hostile posts. Stephen and Rebecca resort to name calling and childish posts the moment they are challenged on ANYTHING they post and yet accuse others of being "attention hogs" and agitators, when in fact there are no posters on here as prolific in these tactics than the two of them. I am not K.K. But I'm not surprised that the level of their posts has bottomed to that.
  • Rebecca Wilkins
    Kai, when I first starting writing here, it was because I did a search on Dennis Lee Wright Jr. and discovered someone here actually knew him personally. I replied to this board to thank that person for insighting everyone on the where abouts of baby Dennis as it's something that has always bothered me. In reading that person's reply, I also found a post written by Kaptain Kebo that was so smug, and so ignorant that I had to reply. When I first replied to him/her/it, I was nothing but level headed, polite, and courteous. I don't try to justify shit, I just try to look at things from a different prospective and try to understand WHY something so sick and disgusting could of happened instead of automatically jumping to the excuse "BECAUSE THEY'RE EVIL". KK was the one who flew off the handle with the hostile name calling ("fucking liberal moron rationalizing sympathetic PUKEBRAIN fucks" was a real win) and ABSURD accusations (Me being Stephanie, and having a crush on them lol). I countered every argument and "challenge" he/she/it had with logic and intelligence up until the point it got to where there was just no point in trying to have a rational debate with them anymore because it was like arguing with a 6 year old. That was when my posts started getting insulting and pointless, because there's just no point in even trying anymore. In fact, I drop the argument. It's a wonder why I even stuck it out for this long.
  • Kai
    Well, you just attacked me as being "warped" and "dense" and accused me of being K.K. And Stephan accused me of being K.K. and dragged me into his vitriolic dialog because I disagreed with him. When I pointed it out it was I who used the O.J. example, rather than going back and checking his own memory he simply accused me of being someone other than who I am. There doesn't seem to be a healthy sense of discussion on here, as soon as someone hears something they don't like it resorts to name calling and insults. Considering the subject and that we all have far more in common in our feelings about it than not, it's pretty shameful that rather than having a spirited and passionate debate about all the components a couple of posters ruin it by being childish.
  • Kathleen
    Stephen, I agree with you. There is one other question I kept forgetting to ask: you have described Lester Likens quite thoroughly but you hardly said anything about his wife. Your posts concerning Lester somehow give the impression that the tragedy left Lester stronger than he was before, but Betty weaker. Also, we know that their marriage did not survive Sylvias fate - or that is what I assume as it's a common thing to happen. I realize you didn't know Betty as well as Lester but surely you remember something about her? Greetings!
  • Kaptain Kebo
    She was like Sylvia had been – it will be over if we just hold on for a while longer. Until it was too late. Very good observation by Kathleen as to what was going on in Jenny's mind during this madness, Thanks Kathleen! This is the kind of post that has helped me to gain insight into how this happened. I have learned a lot from yourself, Kai, Ross and Kathe.
  • Kaptain Kebo
    Rebecca, I flew off the handle after your very first two replies to my post stating that Gertie never accepted guilt or showed remourse in which you used the words 'ignorant' and 'childish' to describe me. You and Stephen were obviously in a panic that I was going to scare off your new connection to the B's (Kathe) by showing anything less than compassion and understanding to them. I find your feeding frenzy to Kathe to be very transparent, and the list of questions was just stupid, like she was really going to run to Steph and ask "was there a beer bottle in the window?, where was the couch?, what color was the carpet?, where does Dad live now, 9th St.?".......absolute rubbish. Lets consider the source though, a grown man that claims he has only read one book in his entire life, (you guessed it, Indiana torture slaying) other than that just thumbed through a few magazines.
  • Rebecca Wilkins
    "You and Stephen were obviously in a panic that I was going to scare off your new connection to the B's (Kathe) by showing anything less than compassion and understanding to them." You make so many assumptions about shit, that right there is your problem. Kathe seems like a fairly strong person. I'm sure she doesn't need our help to defend her views or opinions. "I find your feeding frenzy to Kathe to be very transparent" ....What the hell are you talking? "Feeding frenzy"? I thanked her for answering a question that has been plaguing my mind ever since I heard about the Sylvia Likens case, period. After my initial reply to her, I wasn't even planning on sticking around, until I scrolled down and read your post. As I stated above, I don't even understand why I've been wasting so much time here.
  • Kaptain Kebo
    Is it possible (even for a hoosier) to read only one book in your entire life?? NOTHING has ever interested you enough to pick up a book?? (other than this particular crime?)
  • Kathe Mendelsohn-White
    Couple of things... First, I am not defending my husband's sisters. I have repeatedly said that I do not excuse or condone anything. In fact, I do not claim to know everything either. I have just been relaying information as I receive it, and as I know it (with respect to my husband himself). Second, I don't expect everyone to be compassionate and understanding with my husband's sisters either. This is such a sensitive subject, with so many branches of the story, that it is highly unlikely that we could all come to the same consensus. But I won't be scared off. I am glad that I have been able to answer some questions for those who have asked. I think it is a shame that some of the responses back and forth have gotten out of control, but again, that just proves how sensitive the subject truly is. I would like to think that we can rise above the fray and continue to make intelligent comments. Now a couple of responses to various comments: "While Kathe asserts plausibly that Gertie had bipolar disorder, I would say she also had a psycopathic personality, as did Coy and Paula." Ross: I totally agree with you there. Some of this was probably hormonal with respect to Gertrude (her miscarriage earlier in that Spring) and Paula (in her pregnancy). "true regret, true repentance is a life dedicated to making right a wrong when it comes to something so heinous. Changing one's name and becoming a Christian doesn't show anything more than cowardice in my opinion." Kai (and KK who responded to that post): I don't know how you could possibly know that none of the participants DIDN'T have true regret and repentence. FYI, in the case of Stephanie (which was the context in which the Christianity issue was raised), it didn't happen in that order (Sylvia's death then becoming a Christian then changing last name). Stephanie was ALWAYS a Christian. Didn't happen AFTER Sylvia's death. How could you possibly know that she did not dedicate her life to something good? And also, why shouldn't the family have changed their name? You do realize that the name Baniszewski was also the last name of their DAD, the police officer who had no part in the crime but would be forever connected, right? Are you calling John B. Sr. a coward because he changed his name? Since he was pretty much forced (how many Baniszewsis could there be?), it only makes sense that his children would also have to change their name for continuity. Also KK, I have a question for you. You mentioned that your dad didn't want Sylvia to go back to Indiana and that she didn't have to but that she felt a responsibility to her little sister. Why couldn't both Sylvia and Jenny have stayed in Long Beach? Obviously, it is such a shame that they were not able to stay there. What was the reason that they both went to Indiana then instead of staying in California? I am so sorry that your dad has felt such guilt about that; but as a teen himself, I'm sure there was nothing he could do so he shouldn't blame himself. Easier said than done, though, I know. Rebecca, wow -I didn't realize what brought you to this board in the first place was the fact that I had been posting here. I did the search through google myself and there was a blog where someone had taken my posts and strung them together with a response asking if I was holier than thou (they thought I was John B's wife, I guess). A little creepy, I must say. Especially since I don't use a fake name.
  • Kai
    My Post: "I think some mystery is added because of the name changes, which only fuel the feeling that they are trying to escape not just a prying public, but to an extent; themselves. There is a feeling that they should not be allowed to do this because of the feelings of horror and revulsion we have about their actions. Is this right? Wrong? Who's to say? I think that if there were knowledge that there had been some sort of real effort to repent or do something with their lives that perhaps could show that they were striving to make amends to humanity, like dedicating their lives to work with victims of abuse or something in that vein, that people may at least look at the young Stephanie differently. But saying she became a Christian? That is an insult to one's intelligence. So what? True regret, true repentance is a life dedicated to making right a wrong when it comes to something so heinous. Changing one's name and becoming a Christian doesn't show anything more than cowardice in my opinion." Kathe's Post: "Kai (and KK who responded to that post): I don't know how you could possibly know that none of the participants DIDN'T have true regret and repentence. FYI, in the case of Stephanie (which was the context in which the Christianity issue was raised), it didn't happen in that order (Sylvia's death then becoming a Christian then changing last name). Stephanie was ALWAYS a Christian. Didn't happen AFTER Sylvia's death. How could you possibly know that she did not dedicate her life to something good? And also, why shouldn't the family have changed their name? You do realize that the name Baniszewski was also the last name of their DAD, the police officer who had no part in the crime but would be forever connected, right? Are you calling John B. Sr. a coward because he changed his name? Since he was pretty much forced (how many Baniszewsis could there be?), it only makes sense that his children would also have to change their name for continuity." Okay, this is a perfect example of someone not REALLY reading what a post ACTUALLY says. I never said I knew that there wasn't any true regret and repentance, in fact, I said nothing close to that. I didn't say she didn't dedicate her life to anything good. I didn't say they shouldn't have changed their names. I simply said, well, never mind, you can read it for yourselves. But it would be nice if Kathe would actually read a post and spend a moment to extract the actual verbage and meaning before firing off a reply that in no way reflects anything that was said. In fact, what I said was so twisted it almost sounds as though Kathe is responding to another post altogether. Which is ironic considering in one of her previous post she condemned others for attacking people for their opinions.
  • Kai
    April 26, 1998 THE YOUNG AND DEADLY JOHN BLAKE WAS 12 AND A KILLER IN 1965. RELEASED THREE YEARS LATER, HE SAW HIS LIFE TURN AROUND. HE TALKS OF HIS CRIME TO SHOW JUVENILES CAN CHANGE. by NICOLLE GEHR When Millersville resident John Blake picks up a newspaper or turns on the news and learns about children committing horrible crimes, it takes him back more than 30 years to his dark days in Indianapolis, Ind. Blake is a murderer, convicted in one of the most bizarre and sadistic crimes the state of Indiana has ever seen. In 1965, Blake, then a "confused and angry" 12-year-old boy, participated in the drawn-out murder of a teen-age girl. Today, he admits his guilt, and acknowledges that his sentence - three years in a state penitentiary - was too light. Yet Blake, now a deacon, church volunteer and the father of three, said that God turned his life around. And he believes that other troubled youths who commit adult crimes - like the teen-age boys in Jonesboro, Ark., who shot and killed four classmates and a teacher earlier this month, and the Edinboro teen who killed his teacher and wounded three others Friday - should not be abandoned, but embraced and given hope. In the summer of 1965, John Baniszewski Jr. (he later changed his last name) was living in Indianapolis with his six siblings and his mother, Gertrude Baniszewski, 37. His parents divorced when he was 9. The youngest child in the family, Dennis, 1 1/2, was fathered by another man, Dennis Wright. "The whole situation tore the family up," Blake said, his eyes distant. "My mom was a very selfish, very self-centered woman. My dad though, he was a very caring, average guy, but back then, custody always went to the mother." Blake said his mother used drugs, abused alcohol and had sex with Wright in front of him and his brothers and sisters. Blake guessed his mother moved the family eight times - all to poor areas of Indianapolis. Sick with asthma and bronchitis, his mother didn't work. The family relied on John Baniszewski Sr.'s child-support checks, and when that didn't make ends meet, Blake and his siblings often stole or begged for food. The family also sold its furniture for money from time to time. "She became a mean, hateful woman," Blake said of his mother. "Us kids grew to dislike her. My mom would make me go down to the drugstore to get her illegal prescriptions from a certain pharmacist. She was addicted. "Us kids talked about killing the other man (Wright), so our parents could get back together. But we knew we couldn't do that. It was just talk." But violent talk became more than that. That summer, Wright was sent to Germany with the U.S. Army. Blake admits he had lots of behavioral problems, which is why he believes his mother sent him to live with his father, who still lives in Indiana. In July, to make money, Blake's mother took in two teen-age boarders - 15- and 16-year-old sisters - Jennie and Sylvia Likens. Their parents operated a food concession stand that followed the circus. Jennie had polio. The parents only had known Mrs. Baniszewski for a few days before leaving the girls in her care. One day that summer, Blake came home to visit his family. He saw that his older sister, Paula, 17, had her wrist in a cast. She had gotten into an argument with Sylvia Likens. "I'm not sure how to explain it," Blake said. "I felt like nobody cared about our condition as a family or about me. My anger built up." Blake moved back with his mom and siblings in a shabby rental house. It was then that the slow, torturous killing of Sylvia Likens began. "We abused the 16-year-old," Blake said without saying her name. " ... I hate to even say some of the things we did. Anything abusive or torturous was done." Sylvia was only allowed crackers and water. Newspaper clippings from Indianapolis report that she was repeatedly pushed and thrown down the basement stairs by many of the Baniszewski children - even the young ones - and their mother. But it wasn't just the Baniszewskis who abused the fearful girl. Her sister, Jennie, later told police she was forced to hit Sylvia. She was too scared to tell anyone of the abuse. "Finally, it all took its toll, and after two weeks of intense torture the girl passed away," Blake said, his stare blank. She was killed Oct. 26, 1965. According to newspaper clippings, her body was found by police after Blake and one of his sisters dragged her upstairs and attempted to resuscitate her. Newspapers reported that Sylvia was tortured because she spread rumors at the local high school that two of the Baniszewski girls were prostitutes. But Blake said he helped kill the girl in part because he was so full of rage about his family and his life. "It all built up and just exploded," he said. Blake, his mother, his sister Paula, Hobbs, and another neighbor, Coy Hubbard, 15, were arrested. Stephanie Baniszewski, 15, was tried in a separate trial. The younger children - Marie, 11, Shirley, 10, James, 8 and toddler Dennis - were not charged, although the girls admitted at the trial of joining in the abuse of Sylvia. Blake was charged with first-degree murder - the youngest person ever to be charged with the crime in Indiana. At the trial, Gertrude Baniszewski was found guilty of first-degree murder and sentenced to life in prison. She served 20 years and died of cancer after her release. Paula, who was found guilty of second-degree murder, which was later reduced to manslaughter, was sentenced to life in prison, escaped once and was recaptured, and served eight years. They were the first mother and daughter inmates at the Indiana Women's Prison. Blake, found guilty of manslaughter, was sentenced to two to 21 years in the Indiana State Reformatory, an adult male penitentiary. Hobbs and Hubbard received the same sentence. The three were released on parole after three years. "I knew I deserved any punishment they would give me. A more severe punishment would have been just. I certainly did know what I was doing. I was too blinded by my anger to know about the results and consequences," Blake said, shaking his head. While in prison, Blake was sent to a minimum-security work camp. He worked with 18-to-21-year-olds. Blake believes he was sent there because officials didn't know what to do with him. Even after Blake hospitalized another inmate at the work camp in what he calls "a prank," he was not sent back to prison. The smallest infraction at work camp would normally land an inmate back in the penitentiary, Blake said. "My age had a lot to do with this. They treated me as an adult, but reacted to me like a kid. There were no standards for me." Granted parole a few days before his 15th birthday, Blake changed his last name. He said prison officials advised him to do so, because the name Baniszewski was so recognizable. He moved in with his dad, who remarried "the kind of mom a mom should be." His siblings were in foster homes for awhile until his father got custody. Blake went back to school in Indianapolis. Blake attributes the crime to three things: "I think a lot of it had to do with a lack of a proper family life. Also, human life was so cheap to us. And there was a lack of God in the picture. We had no sense of right or wrong." It was two months after he had been out of prison that Blake said he changed his life after finding God. "I was still angry, confused and still felt like no one cared about me," he said. "Prison did not make a change in me. There's no rehabilitation there. My world was still bizarre." One day after school, Blake was approached by a young man who invited him to Sunday school. With nothing else to do, Blake agreed and showed up at church the next Sunday. "I didn't have peace in my life, but I could recognize it." He said he found that peace through God. "I got down on my knees, and I gave my heart to the Lord. And even before I got up, I knew that my life would never be the same," Blake said, breaking into tears and sobs for the first time in the interview. "After 30 years, it still moves me." Blake began witnessing and became involved in church activities. He revealed his identity to the church. "They didn't treat me any different. I dealt with my remorse and guilt. I finally had peace and joy. I began speaking in other churches and schools ... about my experiences." Blake attended two Bible colleges. One summer, he did missionary work and built houses for the needy in Mississippi. He met his wife of 24 years, Lois, a native of Washington Boro, at the second school in Ohio. "She knew my background, because I didn't make no bones about it," he said. He has served as a camp pastor. He's worked with senior citizens and people with handicaps. He is the father of three children. Blake and his wife are both deacons at New Life Assembly of God in Lancaster. He serves as head of the men's ministry group that "helps men become better fathers, better husbands." He also leads the church's version of Cub Scouts to mentor young boys. "The people that know me, know about it," he said. He talks about writing a book "about my experiences, that in spite of tragedy, you can turn your life around." He also said there is a chance he may return to Indianapolis this fall to speak at the church where he was saved and at area schools. Blake has no clear-cut answers to how harshly the two boys accused of gunning down four classmates and a teacher at a rural middle school in Jonesboro, Ark., should be punished. Part of the reason he is speaking out is to tell people that there can be a future for youngsters who commit adult crimes. He said he is proof of that. "There is hope. There is purpose. You don't have to deal with anger like this. That's what I'd tell them. But as a civilized society, we can't tolerate this. I would say some punishment has to be exerted. When you do adult things, you must face the consequences as an adult. But at the same time, there is the possibility for hope and direction there. I would love the opportunity to go down there and talk to those boys." The congregation at New Life Assembly of God seems to have accepted Blake, said Pastor Larry Greineder. "He's spoken about it in Sunday School," Greineder said. "He shares his testimony with the congregation. He never really tried to hide it." Blake also teaches Sunday School. "He's a very active member, a real part of our congregation. He made a mistake in life, and the Lord has forgiven him, and we here accept that. I think he still feels bad, but I think the Lord is really using him now to bring healing to those in similar situations." Disabled by complications from diabetes, Blake now walks with a cane or walker. The illness has dimmed his eyesight. Now on disability because of his illness, Blake worked as a truck driver, a Realtor and a self-employed landscaper. "When much has been given, much is required," he said. "That's why I feel a need to do this. I'm the first one to acknowledge that I was underpunished. That's why I think my responsibility is so great. "I want to convey that there is hope. No, not everybody that grows up with problems will have the problems that we had. I know a lot of mercy and grace was given to me."
  • Ross
    Kai: They changed their name based on their survival instinct. It isn't as though their last name was Smith. By keeping their last name, they could have very likely been targeted with actions that would harm their physical safety. Kathe, I didn't realize John B Sr. changed his name, also. Again, I feel bad for him. Not as bad as I feel for your husband, but close. He never did anything to warrant the shame others actions brought on him. Also, do you know anything about Jimmy Baniszewski? He was never really mentioned in the book or movie.
  • Kaptain Kebo
    Kathe, I said it before and I will say it again......Your husband is so fortunate to have you in his life. When the first half of somebody's life is so less than perfect it is always great to know that they eventually found happiness and hopefully much of what they missed out on during the first half. Thank you for sharing your (and dennis') story here as you have given me much insight into this horrible tragedy from so many years ago. I do apoligize to you for how heated and disrespectful this forum has become since I jumped on board as I certainly take responsibility for causing much of the aggravation that has been all too present here as of late. The only question I ever had for Steph was does she remember Sylvia ever mentioning my dad? as I know she was not back in Indiana for long before being left with the B's, but I do not want you to ask her because I tried once and she would not reply so I sent her an angry letter (e-mail) condemning her mother and Paula (and to some extent her), so it is better off just left alone.
  • Kai
    What is with this board? It is obvious why they changed their names. Does anybody actually READ the posts or do you skim them not caring if you understand them or not? And then to just shoot off these ridiculous challenges is beyond comprehension.
  • Kaptain Kebo
    Kai, Thanks so much for locating and posting the John Blake Jr. interview. I have been trying to dig that up for years and could never find it. Awesome contribution!!
  • Stephen Hostetter
    Kathleen,,, As I may have stated,, my friend and I were runaways but were never reported.. We arrived in Crown Point IN in less then 24 hours after we started our journey.. The first thing Lester asked us was does your parents know where you are..? We both said no. Lester then took us to his motorhome to call our parents to let them know our plans to work for the carnival.. Sylvia's mother was inside the trailer when we entered,, Lester walked by to the kitchen and told her that we were in fact runaways and we were there to work for them... I remember her getting furious till Lester calmed her down ... I remember her saying something to the effect that" there won't be anymore bad things happening to someone elses kids"... Other then this she didn't speak to us directly.. I remember seeing a large pink trunk near the frontdoor where the phone sat.. It was the fall of 1977 I believe or 76.. I know I have said many things about Laster ,, mostly nice because he was respected by most everyone ,,looking back. At the time though I really didn't care much for him the way we were treated.. He told us he didn't have room in his huge employee trailer so we'd both have to make a spot to sleep down by the lake behind the horse corral.. Let's see,,, heres the way the days went... We got up at 6:00 am and reported directly to work. We worked all day with no breaks, if we needed lunch someone went and got it for us , we couldn't leave the rig, as they were called.. We worked all the way around the clock till the fair closed which was 12:00- 1:00 am that left us to get 4 hours of sleep if we could ignor the masses of mosquito bites.. We did this for 7 days a week and got paid a wopping $100.00 cash which only and just bearly paid for the food we had to scruff down.. I figured that if we were to work anymore hours we'd owe him money for over eating.. I must admit,,, my friend and I was getting what we played for by running away and not telling our parents and maybe Lester done all this on purpose so we'd be miserable and want to leave for home. Being older now and looking back I tend to think he did but I don't think I had a clue at the time.. The Carnie life was not for me
  • Stephen Hostetter
    We both were fired because my friend took 50 cents for a pack of smokes... I took nothing but was considered a risk because I was with Paul. You see,, you can break every minimum wage labor "law" work ppl 19 hours a day and deprive someone of a good nights sleep .. But if an "employee" takes anything without asking that is considered stealing
  • Kathe Mendelsohn-White
    Kai: I'm sorry if you think I took your words out of context. I did read the entire post. You stated "I think that if there were knowledge that there had been some sort of real effort to repent or do something with their lives that perhaps could show that they were striving to make amends to humanity, like dedicating their lives to work with victims of abuse or something in that vein, that people may at least look at the young Stephanie differently. But saying she became a Christian? That is an insult to one's intelligence." I was just saying that this event did not make Stephanie become a Christian. She was always one. No one is trying to insult anyone's intelligence. However, I do not think my "challenges" are ridiculous, as you assert. KK: So far in our discussions, Stephanie has not mentioned your dad. I have wanted to know about that as well though, and if I do get the opportunity to find out from Steph, I will. I won't say where the question came from, so no worries. No need to apologize for the tone of the board either, KK. It is understandable now why you have gotten so heated at times. Ross: We think Jimmy is now with John B. Sr.'s widow back in Indianapolis. He was in NY for some time. Not much has been said about him from either Steph or Marie. As I mentioned previously though, there is some discord in the family and both Steph and Marie were kept from John B. Sr.'s funeral. Jimmy has had troubles over the years (has been agoraphobic; alcoholic) and has lived with family members for many of them, lastly with Steph's daughter. I'm not sure why he isn't in the film, other than for budgetary reasons.
  • Stephen Hostetter
    Capitalism in it's finest hour
  • Stephen Hostetter
    I can recall my time there ,,, I remember standing there till I thought my legs would collaps but my pain seemed to be soothed when the crowed would arrive.. My job was to run the ropeladder,, a rig down center and on the end of the midway just next to the Cortina Bob... I would demonstrate how a person could climb a ladder made of rope joined at each end by a cable fixed to a come-along at one end and tube piping rising some 15' high on the other... Directly under the ladders there is an inflated cushion to catch ppl when they fall off ,,, which I found out they always will.. It was my younger brother and I that would ride bikes from Beech Grove IN to Wannamaker IN where the Marion Co. fair would be held every aug. I tried to get a job working directly for the fairground at first by my age didn't allow it soooo I lied about my age bringing in my older brothers birth certifigate... To make a long story short Mr. Bill Cerielo didn't buy it.. Not to be detoured from my goal I wondered the midway and came accross this guy right on the turn at the end ,, where your most likely to see the freak shows.. Time period being 1975 arround the same time I learned of Sylvia. Anyway,, I wanna say this guys name was Danny and he was working on a new rig they had just bought called a ropeladder... We talked ,, I might of asked him if he let me work the ladder... I think he might of told me that I needed to learn a few things first and said he'd talk to the boss.. He came back and I think that was when I met Lester but I can't remember.. Also, I think they liked the idea of my brother and I knowing how to and demonstrating to a large crowed that it was so simple 2 kids ,one 13 and one 15 yrs of age can do this.. We got the job no questions asked ,,, I think this Danny was taking full responsibility and it was him that would teech us the ladder.. My brother and I just can't believe we have a job to go to the next day,,, there might of been a stipulation about parents bringing us though I can't remember.. The next day my brother and I awoke and went into work,,, they told us the secret we needed to know to climb the ladder.. It's all in how many times you do it,,, so get on it and keep doing it till you can climb up and honk the horn "twice mind you" then you win a 6' tall very expensive stuffed animal.. By 3:00 pm exaclly my brother and I could in fact climb the ladder and by 6:00 we could both walk up backwards using no hands.. I guess it's a circus trick ,, yeah you just practice and practice and.. Anyway,,, try to imagine being 13 and 15 and having a huge crowed in front of you and all eyes are on you,,, this rig was new to the public,, there were only about a handful in the whole world at that time.. They wanted us back every year and my brother and I came,, hell we would have done it for free. Which brings me to age 16 and my flight to Crown Point
  • Stephen Hostetter
    I'm not totally sure about the name Danny but when I hear the name I can almost put it with a face. I remember one thing,, this guy had a bad earwax problem and he acknoweged ... I remember that distictly because he pulled a ball of wax out of his ear and showed me... I liked him till then... No I really did like the guy ,,, very funny personality to be quite honest... So,, Don't quote me on the Danny it could of been Jerry,,, or whatever
  • Kathleen
    Hello, everybody, Hi, Stephen, thanks a lot, that was clear and lively as usual. Wasn’t it illegal anyway for you to work as Carnies at all? You were minors, I take it (Did you lie about your age?) and if he wanted to teach you a lesson, he certainly managed to get it across. As to one law existing for the employers and another one for employees, well, yes, there’s nothing new under the sun – on the other hand, Lester hardly fits the description of a tycoon and probably was more than struggling himself. Hello Kai, thanks a lot, I can only echoe KK’s words I wanted to read John jr.’s statement for ages and could never find it. Would you happen to know the date of publication and the newspaper? Hi Kathe, would there be anything new about your other worries? I’ve called the daughter of the man I told you about and she couldn’t remember much about the time before things started with her Dad but could give me a clear description of how it all begun with her sis-ter. If these information can be of use to you, let me know. Greetings to all
  • Stephen Hostetter
    I think we started working for nothing in the beginning till we seen ourselves as the primary crowd drawers ... At one time my brother and I had the undivided attention of everyone in the place on a Sat. night... heads disapeared in the darkness trying to get a look and a chance What little money we made was cash In the end we went from experts to kids that can just bearly do it,,, it was the hustle and the money flew.. The impression I got of Lester was,,, he had a new motor home ,, I think all his trailes and he had a few were kept new looking... He had several rigs and was buying more,, hell I don't know he always seemed at the top of his game... He was no Poor Jack amusement co. but he was working on it.. I did see him as a very highly motived person by the way.. No reason at all why he couldn't be as big. I will say that the whole time I was in Crown Point I feel like Lester had many people looking out for us Paul and I.. Paul was 18 I can remember one night "after the show" I found myself heading in the direction of a "party tent" and a kind man tapped me on the shoulder and said you don't belong in there,, you want no part of that... I remember that like it just happened Also I can remember when Lester let me go,,, I begged him for my job several times and he just kept getting more pissed .. I told him he couldn't judge me based on what Paul had done,,, he said yeah,, but I'm goin to anyway... end of story, go home and be a jock and finish school
  • Kaptain Kebo
    I wonder if Lester ever retired from carnival life or if he kept at it until he died? And also wonder how Betty's life turned out after their split. Those people must have carried some serious guilt with them. Stephen once stated that Lester wore one of those key rings on his belt with a stretch cable and he could always here him coming because 100 keys would be jangling. It is ashame that the filmakers didn't have that kind of reference point so that they could have painted a more accurate portrail of Lester in the film as I have read that their depiction of him (as brief as it probably was) was less than being close to accurate.
  • Kaptain Kebo
    Off topic, their is some great John Dillinger history in Crown Point.
  • Stephen Hostetter
    I remember one time we needed a new angle to draw a crowed in.. We would have my younger brother run down through the midway flapping his arm holding cash... He'd run in front of big musclebound guys with thier girlfreinds telling them he can do it now only to draw then in and fail.. But just bearly fail and it took Greg a long time to just bearly fail.. If you get my drift
  • Stephen Hostetter
    I do remember Lester telling me that If I were to lose an animal I would be working for free and we should avoid this from happening by any means ... In the early years the landing mat was smaller so attendants like myself would hold the rope and let on ,,umm ppl ... Wait till they get halfway let go of the rope then when they fall they hit an air cushion instead of the hard ground... If by chance you know you have a guy that somehow defies all odds and can get close you were expected to bump the rope as you let off... Let me just say that you might wanna keep in mind the only ones that can do this are the ones working on them... Thats not to say that farmer Joe can't make one of these at home and practice over a few bails of hay
  • Stephen Hostetter
    KK,, Lester was like a dad to me in a way,,, I'm glad he showed me though love in the end or I'd prolly still be hanging around that damn ropeladder lol
  • Stephen Hostetter
    One more thing I never mentioned ,,,, my first girlfriend was a girl down the street.. I won't mention her name but her mother was in prison for manslaughter killing her husband ,,, not my gf's dad but one of several men she'd been married to... I guess it be fair to say her mother and Gertrude might have been buddy's I have no clue that's totally speculation ... There were three girls being raised by an ex-stepfather the youngest being my gf
  • Kaptain Kebo
    Although I knew that Gertie liked to do stiptease dances for neighborhood boys, I did not know until reading John Blakes interview that she also had sex with Mr. Wright in front of her children....WOW, what a piece of trash she was. Wasn't he quite young as well? I think 17 or 20, i'll have to look it up.
  • Kathe Mendelsohn-White
    KK; Stephanie says that Dennis Sr. was 6 years older than she was, which would have made him 20 when Denny was born. But she had hooked up with him prior to her second divorce from John B., so he was still probably a teenager then. Marie confirmed for me that what John B. Jr. said; Gertrude did indeed have sex with Dennis Sr. right in front of the kids.
  • Kathe Mendelsohn-White
    And yeah, she was a real piece of work.
  • Kaptain Kebo
    It should be noted that William Erbecker was a complete scumbag, possibly as evil as Gertie, and his having all of the kids lie under oath should have gotten him disbarred. I personally hope that he died a slow and painful death. On the other hand, It should be noted that little Marie was a very brave soul (and cute as a button) for finally saying 'enough is enough' and telling the truth in that courtroom.
  • Kathe Mendelsohn-White
    Touche, KK. I have always thought that Marie was extremely brave to finally speak the truth (and even more now that I know her). And definitely cute as a button. That was my exact description of her to my husband, actually, when I brought home to him a picture of her when she was around 16 with her little pageboy haircut and cat glasses.
  • Kaptain Kebo
  • Stephen Hostetter
    Diamond David Lee Roth : born Oct. 10 1954 in Bloomington IN
  • Kaptain Kebo
    Yeah, I thought of that after I posted the Guns and Roses guys, I have been friends with the Van Halen camp for years, even slept on Ed's couch.
  • Stephen Hostetter
    KK,, I don't think so... Paula looked Like Gertrude the deep puffy eye sockets ,, high cheekbones,, narrow long chin.. My guess is that she might look just like Gertrude If she hasn't gained to much weight and still even then I think you'd know right off... I could be wrong
  • Stephen Hostetter
    I'm glad to see David back in the game.. Now Van Hallen can get back to their original sound again
  • Kaptain Kebo
    Yeah Stephen, it's a tough one. I have looked at the pictures side by side over and over, check it out if you get a chance. She is the exact age, and I once read about a farm in Bedford, Iowa. Plus she states that she is 5'3" with some extra baggage. Certainly does not look as angry as the Paula pic's that we have seen but 43 years can change a person. If it is her, it is not what I would have expected. Thanks for your opinion though, I tend to agree with you. I guess if we knew whether or not Paula is a registered nurse that would help. And yes, hooray for Dave!! I was never a fan of the Sammy years with Van Halen.
  • Kaptain Kebo
    Also, can anybody tell me if 'The Basement' by Kate Millett is an accurate read? I just ordered it but I am leaving town so I will not see it for a few weeks. Just wondering how it compares to John Deans book.
  • St.
    death house = myspace St.
  • Kaptain Kebo
    Hi St...............care to elaborate??
  • Rebecca Wilkins
    I thought some of you might actually be interested in this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0yXE7rUeNmk The house the Liken's murder took place in still stands to this day, though it's been boarded up for sometime now. A few families lived in it after 1965, but never stayed long (probably due to the overly depressing creep factor), then it was used as a homeless shelter for abused women. It's been sitting vacant ever since.
  • Kaptain Kebo
    WOW!! Doesn't that video just make you want to turn back time and save her from the madness that was going on in that house?? looks like it's about ready for demolition. Thank you for the link Rebecca, that was interesting......in fact I think i'd better watch it again!
  • Rebecca Wilkins
    Finally something we can both agree on, KK. Just by simply watching the video, the house gives off a very deep and powerful sadness to it. You can almost see Sylvia being pushed down those old wooden stairs of that basement, or see Gertrude sitting in the living room in a cloud of cigarette smoke, while the kids are slapping and kicking Sylvia. It's very surreal, even in a video. I can see why no one ever stayed there for very long. I'd like to knock the teeth out of whoever it was that did the spray painting in the upstairs bedrooms.
  • Ross
    interesting Hubbard, Coy June 25, 2007 Coy Hubbard 56, Shelbyville, died on Saturday morning, June 23, 2007. He was born in Appalachia, VA on July 7, 1950, the son of Ralph and Virginia Hubbard. He was preceded in death by his father, and son Coy Hubbard, Jr. He will be deeply missed by his wife of 17 years, Patricia (Gorman) Hubbard; mother, Virginia; his children, Tracy (David) Reynolds, Missy (Jeff) Fausnaugh, Jennifer Stephens, Ronald (Natasha) Conley, and Bradley (Kim) Conley; brother, Jerry (Vickie) Hubbard of Springdale, OH; sisters, Freda (Arthur) Hildreth of Houston, TX and Wanda Foster; 17 grandchildren; and one great-grandchild. Funeral services will be held at 7 p.m. on Wednesday, June 27, at Flanner & Buchanan Funeral Center – Washington Park East, 10722 E. Washington St., with calling there from 4 p.m. until service. Burial will take place at a later date in Big Stone Gap, VA. http://www.flannerbuchanan.com
  • Ross
    patti 1:07 AM EST I am from Indianapolis and I have followed the story of Sylvia since I was 13 yrs old. In 1972, I read the book 'The Indiana Torture Slaying' and since then Sylvia has been forever imprinted on my mind. After I read the book I talked to everyone about this story and everyone had something to tell me. I just couldnt believe something like this could happen. As time went on people didnt talk about Sylvia much but I always wondered what happened to some of the people involved. In 1980, I was married and had a son and I was pregnant with my second child. A friend of mine needed aplace to stay and we let her come to stay with us for awhile. Not that it matters but my friend was a lesbian. She had a lover named Annie Alexander, Annie was a very nice person and she seemed to care about my friend alot. I liked her. Well as time went by Annie seem to be at our house alot and she used my phone alot. I didnt mined. Annie had a sad story about life. She was rasied in foster care and was treated very badly. Before she met my friend she was married but not for long. She married a wealthy man from Carmel, Indiana. He owed car lots in Carmel. Afew days after they were married they were in a car accident. She was a sleep in the car and he was driving, he fell asleep while driving and drove up under a semi and he was decapitated. Like I said a sad life. One day Annie started getting phone calls from the woman prison here in Indianapolis, after a few calls I ask my friend about them and she wouldnt tell me. She told me to ask Annie, so I did. After all she was in my home. I wasnt trying to be mean about it I just wanted to know. Well Annie started crying, Annie ask me if I ever heard of Sylvia Likens and I said yes. I still didnt put two and two together. I ask her what does Sylvia have to do with the womans prison. She told me that where Gertrude Baniszewski is and she is my mom. Annie was Shirley Baniszewski. Annie left my home that day, never to be heard from again.
  • Kathleen
    Hi, Kathe and KK, as to Erbecker having been a scumbag, let alone “maybe more evil than Gertrude”, I’m not sure at all I can agree. Alan Dershowitz says in his book “If the devil were tried on earth he would still have the right to the best defence a lawyer could provide.” Which means a lawyer’s concept of honour needs to be different from yours and mine. Most lawyers are skilled liars and have to be; most don’t get caught at it, but then, most lawyers don’t need to put 11 year olds in the witness box, especially not ones with a conscience. That he did so just shows how desperate his case was. All he could hope for was saving his client’s life. The brutality of doing this to Marie I see mostly in her confusion as to what was expected of her. I’ve yet to meet the lawyer who tells his witness “I need you to lie.” What he can say is something like “It wouldn’t look good if we changed our tactics now.” Then he goes on to make suggestions, as “This noise in the night, might that have been someone else? Who might have been up at this time, Paula maybe?” Most grown up people would understand but you can’t do that to a child already under a lot of strain. Marie at her age couldn’t know that most clever lies are those that stretch the truth just by a bit. If you stretch it too far, the lie becomes obvious. Which is exactly what happened. (“That noise in the night was Paula, getting ready for work. In the middle of the night? Yes, our clock sometimes is very wrong.”) When she burst out “O God help me!” it must have been with as much relief as despair, poor thing. And all this for a line of defence that didn’t even work!
  • Kathleen
    As to Millett’s „The Basement“, KK? Ummmmm … depends on what you want out of it. I love Kate Millett but first, she has remained a naïve woman throughout her life, and second, she can never get away from herself. I should say first, for many people (including me) her book was the first they ever read about the case and it’s responsible for the interest and the fascination it has for at lot of people, so it sure has some qualities. She gives a clear account of what is known of the bare facts and get the dates right which is more than you could say of Denise Noe. Then she goes on to meditations about it. Mostly this is trying to imagine what the people involved were saying to each other and what they were thinking. And here’s the big problem: while she is trying to let them all talk through her mouth the result is just the other way round, Millett is speaking through Sylvia and Gertrude and Paula, sometimes with some good insights, sometimes embarrassingly silly. And some-times it’s wrong to have them speak, that is think in clear words, at all. At one point, she acknowledges the problem herself, admitting that no one would allow herself to name what she is doing “torture” and if one were capable of reflecting about aggression in that way one wouldn’t need to act it out. What’s just great and truly unique is where she describes the perception of the case by the public in all it’s variety. Specially one time when she met a girl from Indianapolis of the same age as Sylvia (Quote: “She was Sylvia or someone from that time and that place who made it”) and interviews her about the young girls’ reac-tions. I’m curious what you’ll think about it after you read it!
  • Kathe Mendelsohn-White
    Kaptain Kebo: That is definitely NOT Paula. I read on another site that she was windinmyhair for a while but now it's just windy. I'll see if I can find the link; but it's restricted to her friends only, so you don't see anything really. I'd also like to know what you think about "The Basement" after you read it; Kathleen described it accurately. I did read it before "Indiana Torture Slaying". Hi Kathleen: Not too much to report; although we go for the EEG this Friday (Den missed the first appt, but did make his MRI); then meet with the neurologist the Tuesday after that. Denny has finally spoken with Stephanie now too a couple of times. She gasped when she first heard his voice and said that it was like speaking with a ghost because Denny sounds exactly like his dad, and then she broke into tears. And Ross: I've seen that passage by "Patti" on several sites now, and I'm not quite sure what to make of it. We haven't spoken to Shirley yet, so I'm not sure if any of that is true. No one has mentioned Shirley being a lesbian to me, however I do know she goes by Ann now, which is her middle name.
  • Kaptain Kebo
    Kathleen, I know that my statement about Erbecker was a bit extreme and probably innacurate, and in Kathes defense I think she was agreeing more with what I said about Marie's bravery than my opinion about Erbecker's strategy. Thanks for the insight on the book!
  • Kaptain Kebo
    Kathe, Thanks for confirming that it is not Paula. Stephen was right, the chin and eyes did not match. I certainly have no intentions of attempting to make contact with her, and certainly do not want to harrass her in any way. I just had heard that she has a page and I was hoping to see a current picture of her.
  • Kathleen
    And, hi Stephen, WOW, vertigo clearly is none of your problems! Just as well, since you are a builder. I would have puked my heart out - but I don't think there were many women among the clients anyway. But were there girls working as Carnies at all? I don't mean just for Lester, I mean in general. Millett has it that Sylvia was sometimes with her parents when they work but doesn't get very precise to if she just was hanging around or helping them. During the time in California that famous party is supposed to have taken place where Sylvia took up with Daddy Kebo (KK, please do not take this badly, I don't mean to be facetious or callous at all, this is just to point out that Sylvia up to July 65 had a happy and normal teenager's life and your Dad belonged to the persons that made things good for her. And that goes, too, for the time when she missed him, afterwards, as I'm sure she did - many teenage couples are torn apart like this and breaking your heart over the separation is part of what makes us grow into mature persons.) Surely the parents were working when the children had the party.
  • St.
    Hello Kathleen,,, You know,,, I wanna say that maybe Jenny worked or walked by my rig... I know from years later that she did cash my check at the Mechants Bank on Main St. in Beech Grove.. That I remember very well but didn't know her at the time as Sylvia's sister.. KK,, I am an artist and I'd like to think I can tell a face when I see one.. The photo you posted of the woman may very well be Paula ... I've studied the photo from the pic I have of Paula from the ITS book... I can match an eye ,, the nose is hard to tell because the older photo is over-exposed some but the mouth is almost a perfect match too and the cheek bones are high as well.. She just has a fuller face now.. I think this is her Also I forgot one: Henry Lee Summer
  • Kathe Mendelsohn-White
    St. (Stephen)?: I don't think it is her. A reliable poster on the imdb board posted this: "The name on her myspace is now "Windy", it used to be "Windinmyhair" before she set it to private(of course, she never said who she is). I thought that she closed the account, but I see that it IS still up. SHe does say that she's 48 now. SHe had her real age and info before. It's really her. SHe has 3 adult sons and a grandchild. I think that she is a janitor/maintenance/substitute teacher for a school. When it was still set for anyone to see, she said that she had a respect for all living things, considered herself "more spiritual than religious" and had recently shot her first turkey while hunting with one of her sons (this was well over a year ago). SHe had a Boyz 2 Men song as her page song. I think that it was called "Mama"." For one thing, the person listed as Paula from Iowa lists her occupation as an RN (not a janitor.maintenance/substitute teacher), and as far as I know, Paula is NOT an RN. I looked but I couldn't find the post that had the actual link in it anymore. I had looked at it, but it was set to private and had no pics to confirm anything. I'll keep looking though.
  • Stephen Hostetter
    Hello Kathe,, Thank you for that... Sylvia did die in the bedroom NOT the basement according to the book ITS. PS... quote: But when Stephanie began to undress Sylvia for the bath, Gertrude ordered them to dump Sylvia in the tub with her clothes on. "Hurry!" she said. Sylvia managed to groan. " I wish my daddy was here", she moaned faintly. After the bath Ricky and Stephanie dried Sylvia and dressed her in warmer clothes, a sweater and pedal-pushers. They laid her on the mattress in the bedroom. Gertrude followed them into the bedroom,shouting frantically,"Faker! Faker"! She picked up a book and slapped Sylvia hard on the side of the head. Hobbs practically pushed the hysterical Mrs. Wright down the stairs. Shirley brought up some hot tea and asked how Sylvia was doing." Oh, she's alright," Stephanie assured; but she had already suggested to Ricky to call a doctor. Stephanie raised Sylvia's head and brushed the girls hair back; she seemed to revive somewhat. "Oh, take me home, Stephenie," she pleaded. "Oh, take me home, Stephanie." would be Sylvia's last words..
  • Kathleen
    Rebecca, thanks so much for the link to the video (Stephen, your description was ever so well!) The sadness of it all comes alive again when one looks at it and the footage of the basement had me positively gagging. I wouldn't take the words spraypainted upstairs very serious, though, they may well have been addressed at Gertrude's memory rather than at Sylvia. Like "You branded her and I'll brand you" - probably it's a teenager's prank.
  • Kathleen
    Something else: did any of you ever come across a description of Gertrude’s voice? (You know, high/low, clear/throaty, loud/hushed)? Not that it is important. It’s just that I have a thing with voices and think you can’t ever know what a person truly looks like until you’ve heard their voice. (Most striking example: Eva Péron. The impression from silent footage changes instantly once you hear her) There are just a few photos of Gertrude (six, all in all, I believe) and each of them is so different from all the others that one has to look twice to be sure this is really the same person. I still have trouble to imagine her and it would help if I knew how she sounded.
  • Stephen Hostetter
    Hi Kathleen,, If you type in youtube sylvia you can find film footage of Gertrude being released from prison. She doesn't say anything but you can see more footage of the actual person... The time I went to the death house it was not boarded up and I entered the backdoor... I first yelled, " is anyone home?" then a voice said yes I'm home, it was the sound of a small girl.. It could very well have been coming from another house.. When I was in the basement I felt a hand go up the back of my shirt.. I seen the video where the guys goes through the cracks in the floor of the back porch.. What a way to be introduced to the place Sylvia suffered... I noticed he just about shit all over himself getting up those stairs, but given that he was still a brave soul..
  • Stephen Hostetter
    I know that feeling, the feeling of wanting to get the hell out of there.. In the video you can hear the guy say lets get out of here at the very same spot my cousin said the very same thing..
  • Kathleen
    Stephen, Sweetie .... Halloween is over and I told you I don't believe in ghosts so you can't scare me this way. If a little girl's voice really answered you, it did come from elsewhere and they were trying to make YOU shit all over yourself - and the hand going up your shirt was probably wishful thinking ... or you were scratching yourself. I've seen the footage of Getrude leaving prison (the one with the comments in Spanish, right?) and recognized her from the 1985 photo. She looks properly put out at being filmed (bit scared even, don't you think?) and a lot healthier than on all the pictures from the sixties. Reminds me of someone, too - ageing Marlene Dietrich, maybe. (And you can see that she might have been an attractive woman. Same goes for Paula. Take off that smirk and the overweight and that awful hair style ... ) As to how Gertrude looked when all this happened, it's beyond me - there's just one photo, in ITS, in court with Richard Hobbs at her side, where you can see that this was a young woman. Enjoy election day!
  • Stephen Hostetter
    Kathleen,, The feeling I had when I had this ,, wind? go up the back of my shirt was a very real thing.. I wouldn't even of mentioned it if it wasn't for my experiance with Lee Shoemaker.. her nephew. Lee would never greet you to your face he would sneek up behind you and run his hand up the back of your shirt... Or he would wack you with a rolled up paper on the back of your knees if you were a girl.. I'm not trying to get any kind of reaction from anyone I'm just telling you my experiance as it happened.. I myself do not believe in ghosts but I do know fully well what I experianced ... Maybe someone that knew Lee Shoemaker can come in and validate what I say is true ,, about Lee anyway..
  • Stephen Hostetter
    One time Lee had one of those long round styrafoam things.. He loved it because he could get girls walking close together and he'd wack them all at the same time...
  • Kathleen
    Stephen, how old was Lee when he got up to this kind of behaviour? Did he do that for a joke or did he intend to be disagreeable?
  • Stephen Hostetter
    Kathleen,,, Lee was in junior highschool when he did this.. Lee just couldn't like normal things in my opinion ,, he had to have a thrill all the time.. He ended up wanting a thrill from watching fires burn which brought him to the garage he burned down.. This landed him in the home on State street and Pleasent Run pk.wy. I remember I road my bicycle there one time to see where my friend was.. I had other friends in homes for exactly the same thing...
  • Stephen Hostetter
    I'm not totally certin but I think the garage Lee burned down was the garage of Barb Sanders on N.5th st. The social worker that didn't go into and check the house at 3850 NY st.
  • Stephen Hostetter
    I had three lawyers(not at same time) working at one time to get my daughter back ,,in response to an earlier post
  • Kathleen
    Go in and check she did, far as I know, she just believed Gertrude more than she should have. Gertrude told her it was true Sylvia had sores all over her body, but hand run away and she didn't know where she was now, then went into her lamento how bad her own health of and how everything was getting too much for her. Ms. Sanders then completed a "once only"-card, meaning a follow-up visit wasn't necessary, and that was that. That might be a motive to burn down her garage if one is Sylvia's nephew - on the other hand, he was too young to remember Sylvia himself, wasn't he? Although you needn't remember her personally to feel your family's pain. Still, I think that was uncalled for - he might as well have harrassed Ms. Vermillion, and the priest, and the Hobbs and the Hubbards. Or turned against his own mother for not getting up against Gertrude.
  • Stephen Hostetter
    by the way,,, I hope I didn't make Lee look like a bad guy ... he wouldn't have hurt a flea
  • Stephen Hostetter
    Jeremy,, his brother would say, "don't encourage him" but you know kids.
  • Stephen Hostetter
    I think Lee had problems yes ,, you wouldn't know it but I think he also had a nervous twitch and these big floppy ears...He was definatly a different personality but what he did was all in fun till the burning incident I never once ,,while Lee was in school know about his and Sylvia's connection ... But I seem to remember ,,maybe in Social Studies ,,the topic of Sylvia came up and Mr. Akinson may have known about Jeremy's connection but I did not.. I remember after some things were said Jeremy said that was my Aunt,,,after that all I remember is the room got quiet... The teacher was good at changing the subject I guess That was many years after Lee left in high school... Jeremy was in just about every one of my classes ..
  • Stephen Hostetter
    Ok, I was unclear if she'd even went in ,,, she looked around but failed to open the basement door where Sylvia was,, at the time..
  • Kathleen
    Stephen, do you remember what was said about her in this school lesson? And which year that was? And how it came up at all? I can see why the teacher would change the subject - for Jeremy's sake, I mean - but I still think he shouldn't have. These things need to be discussed in the open, and if one can do that in school, all the better. To all: As to Gertrudes having sex with Dennis sr. in front of kids, well, yeah, that’s a downright dirty thing to do but it’s probably more a symptom of her disorder than anything else. I’m not implying that any person with bipolar disorder would act like this and I’m not that informed about bipolar disorder, especially when it goes untreated, but my mother in law suffered from paranoid schizophrenia and that is true a disorder of the cyclothymical kind. (Untreated as well, since she objected and boycotted anything that might have helped her) There was not a thing she could do like any other person would do it and everything she did she had to top with something worse. The strangest part of this – to others, that is - is that there is always an explanation behind it with its own logic. Dennis sr. was closer in age to two of Gertrude’s daughters and she probably felt she needed to assert her claim on him. What I find confusing is, Denise Noe has it that he once put out a cigarette on Sylvia’s neck, I think Dean doesn’t say anything about him being there yet or not and according to Millett he had already left by July 1965 and he and Sylvia never laid eyes upon each other.
  • Stephen Hostetter
    Thats funny you should ask why Lee didn't rebel agains't these other ppl in his life he might of resented = as well.. I could be way off as far as Lee and Sanders connection but these happened in the same time frame.. myself I was floored to hear Lee burned down a garage but maybe not real surprized at the same time.. I do remember his mom was a knock down gorgeous woman.. ! Seemed a bit high society for living in South Grove
  • Kathleen
    That would have been Diana? Then Shoemaker later Nutchel and today something else? On the one photo I saw (with Jenny, we all know that one) I find her striking. Bit strange, how the sisters all looked different, I can't see much likeness among each other. Each was pretty a way all her own.
  • Stephen Hostetter
    I remember Jeremy looking right at me when he said ,," that was my aunt" almost as if to say ,,, I have something I been meaning to tell you.. 1979 our senior year
  • Stephen Hostetter
    Yes it was Diana ,,, also my daughter's middle name
  • Stephen Hostetter
    I was unaware Diana remarried
  • Kathleen
    Dianna Bedwell-Knutson is her name now, and she is said to live in Orange County, California. She's a school bus driver.
  • Kevin Chatham (KK)
    Stephen, I know that you were offended when I made the original remark about Indiana. When I said that it was directed at the fact that the parole board voted to release Gertie and not in reference to anyone on this forum. Having said that I have a confession to make, I live in Arizona which IS documented as maintaining the LOWEST I.Q. rate of any State Nationally. When I read back at some of the posts that I have made I am truly embaressed at some of the statements I have made. I find you and other people on this board to be very interesting and knowledgable regarding the Sylvia Likens ordeal. I think that since I have been told that Hubbard relatives have been defensive on other boards, I myself have looked a little too hard for point/counterpoint situations. By nature I am not such a flame thrower when it comes to burning bridges as I have been on this forum, and again, I regret much of how I have communicated here. For what it is worth, my sincere apologies to anyone on this board that I have offended. (including Rebacca).
  • Stephen Hostetter
    Hi Kevin,,, Thats ok ,,, as others have mentioned , this is one highly charged subject.. I don't judge you at all. It was just today I was thinking about your situation and how your connected with Sylvia and my situation with how I'm connected ... I came up with the conclussion we have a very strong desire to know every fact.. I thought maybe it was just a morbid curiosity but it is much deeper then that .. In your case you wouldn't have been born if your dad and Sylvia had been a couple and in my case I was surrounded by the after math .... I just need to know my place in this if in fact I even have one... My heart says that Sylvia trys to communicate but only to those that will listen.. I think her message is to just try to know true happiness and live to your full potential.. I often find myself really pushing myself thinking about her suffering knowing if she can go through what she did I can do anything... I hope Sylvia can inspire us to be kind and considerate of eachother we all need eachother as human beings and also to understand the mechanics of abuse so that it doesn't happen...
  • Kathleen
    Hi, Kathe, I’m really glad about Stephanie’s reaction and even more about its implications. It’s so obvious that she cared for him a great deal, and in all probability she still does, and although he can’t have a memory of Dennis sr., maybe the similarity of their voices will achieve to give him a sense of continuity or of a kind of a bond. All this of course needs to lead up to some change in the way he feels about himself, which is something entirely different, of course, and, I imagine, a reason to fear more disappointments and pain. If everything goes alright, the presence of his sisters in his life can help him but altering his understanding of his own person to something more positive will have to be mostly his own work. Still, one vital step seems to be done and think it took him a lot of courage to talk to Stephanie. I’ll be thinking of you and Dennis jr. on Friday and Tuesday and praying for you both.
  • Kathleen
    Hi, Kevin, it takes some courage to apologize and everyone who manages has my respect. As to the question if Sylvia mentioned your Dad after returning from California, we know from both ITS and Millett that she must have done - that, I believe, offered Gertrude a reason to allege that Sylvia was pregnant. (I thought that was the reason your Dad felt guilty). What we do not know is if this mentioning was anything as described in either book (Millett, in my opinion, is merely imagining and not at her best in this scene) and if she mentioned him by name or just said "a boy". (It's not likely she had two boyfriends, there, unless they were there a long time, which, I believe, is not the case, so she must meant him.) Still, seen what came of it I believe all the former Baniszewskis might find it painful to remember what exactly she said and she might have been more detailed to other persons. (Maybe Stephanie assumed that and that was the reason for her not answering; she might not have believed in your good intentions) Sylvias older sister is still alive, and from the information on the net she's now called, as I said above, Dianna Bedwell-Knutson, and seems to work in Orange County, California, as a school bus driver. There's Jennys offspring to - the daughter at the time of Jenny's death was Tammy Ford as I'm sure you know already. I hope you get an answer to your question and for it to set your mind at peace.
  • Kevin Chatham (KK)
    Thanks Kathleen, Their really is no question that I need to have answered. I was just curious about any details, but not enough to drag anydody on a trip down memory lane, although in hindsight that is exactly what I did with the e-mail, please understand that in the 27 years since I found the book, etc., we have had only talked about it 3 or 4 times and it has always been upsetting to him, so rather than ask for any details I always changed the subject. Guilt was displayed in the context of "If I would of tried harder to keep her in California", but he is not a naive man so I am sure that he realizes that at 16 years old he was pretty limited as to how much influence he had on her leaving or staying, from what I understand her staying was an option but I do not know the circumstanses other than Jenny apparently did not have the option so Sylvia planned to return to California 'someday' and I kind of wonered if that was something she ever talked about with the B's, but you do add a deeper spin that I had not even thought of. I can tell you this, he did not get laid until the front side of college at age 18. Please know that I realize that we are talking about a teenage romance that lasted 3 to 5 weeks, and if Sylvia's life had not ended the way it did I never would have heard about her through my dad, as I could not tell you the names of anyone else he ever dated, other than my mother, so I am not trying to unravel some family mystery, nor do I feel 'connected' to Sylvia any more than all of us who are aware of her sad short life. My dad is merely how I found out about it. Thanks again for your thoughts about it! And thanks for in a nice way, helping me to realize that what I did was pretty dumb (as obvious as it is now), expecting her to want to recall those memories only to satisfy my curiosity. If I look a little deeper it was my curiosity combined with being in 'punisher' mode, which leads to something else that I have learned on this forum, it is not my place or job to attempt to 'punish' anybody.
  • Kathleen
    Hi, Kevin: get me right, I did not imply that your Dad and Sylvia went to bed together - Gertrude did. Although I ‘m quite sure that on a certain level she neither believed it nor cared if it was true or not. It gave her an opportunity to accuse Sylvia of the pregnancy she couldn’t not let herself vent her anger about to Paula. If ever there is a clear example of a transfer in all of it, then it’s this. But suppose, just for the sake of an argument, that they did – nothing wrong in that, is there? And no one’s business except Sylvia’s and your Dad’s. I know it must be hard for him but maybe there is some comfort in the thought that before 1965, she was a reasonably happy girl with a reasonably happy life and part of it was a teenie romance. Not every one who died before their time had that and she wouldn’t have either had it not been for your Dad.
  • Kaptain Kebo
    Kathleen, I totally understand what you were saying. I hope you don't think I was being defensive at all, I was just rambling on about what little I am aware of for anyone who is interested. You are spot on with the 'transfer' statement also.
  • Stephen Hostetter
    Judge Rabb said the evidence reminded him of the D.C. Stephenson case... Stephenson, head of the Klu Klux Klan in it's hayday in indiana in the 1920's, was convicted of mudering a young Indianapolis woman even though he administered no fatal injury to her... There was evidence that he kidnapped her and forced her to submit to sadism and sexual perversion. In despair at not being able to escape, the young woman took poison and died from it. Stephenson was convicted on the theory that his actions induced her to poison herself and the theory that he neglected to seek medical aid for her although he knew her condition.. Stephenie, heartbroken, was joined by her father as she left the courtroom. "But, Daddy,"she sobbed,"I just can't stand to have people think I'd do something like this."
  • Kathleen
    Hello, Stephen: care to elucidate where you are going with this? For the life of me, I can’t see what these two topics in your last post have to do with each other. Judge Rabb did indeed refer to the Stephenson case. If I’m not all mistaken, that was because some medi-cal expert had said that none of Sylvia’s injuries in itself could have been deemed the cau-se of death before he pointed out she could well have died of them later than she did. Okay – and where is Stephanie in all this? Because she as well knew of Sylvia’s condition and didn’t seek medical help for her? If that’s where you are heading, we `ve been there, Stephen. First of all, she DID try, read Kathes posts re: epilepsy. Second, it’s one thing to be afraid someone will die and another one to KNOW they will. You can’t, especially not at sixteen and as the culprit’s daughter. Hence the difference between taking the one or the other half-baked, inapproprate measure and going to the police and tell them what your mother and siblings have been doing. I’m not sure at all though, if that IS what you refer to.
  • Stephen Hostetter
    Hello Kathleen,,, Sorry, I must of been sick that day.... I'm just telling you what was on the mind of the judge that heard the case in regards to ALL the children... and of course w/ the exception of little Denny. I've read the book once more and I can not find any reference to any epilepsy ... Not one word in the court transcripts which means there is no mention of it in any police report.. It's just ,,, what Kevin said about the photos... I can't seem to get that picture out of my mind.. And the judge relected his emotions in words ,,,, I'm almost sure he had to be looking at the evidence when he made that statement...
  • Stephen Hostetter
    We know exactly where Sylvia died.. We know exactly what they did to her... We even know how many forks and spoons were in the house... We would definatly know about any epilepsy through other family members during the trial.. I feel it would have been brought up by someone if not by Steph herself.. Her father would have known,, her brother's and sister's ... Why no mention
  • Kathe Mendelsohn-White
    Hi Stephen: What Stephanie told me is that she did NOT know that she had epilepsy until much later. For some reason her parents did not tell her, and she didn't know why. I don't know if Gertrude kept that from John Sr., or if he knew as well (Gertrude apparently lied about many things). As I said before, the phenobarbitol was Stephanie's medicine, not Gertrude's. None of the siblings knew that Stephanie had epilepsy either. She just knew that she fell down a lot, had losses of time, and her family considered her the "strange" one (they called her "Einy" for Einstein, and she said that was not meant in a good way). I don't know what things in the transcripts, books, etc. are not true, but both Stephanie and Marie have told me that much of what was testified was not the truth. There are things under seal with respect to Stephanie's case (that she tried to get the authorities to the house two separate times the week prior to Sylvia's death) and that is why the charges against her were dropped. Facts proved that Stephanie did everything she could to try to stop what was happening.
  • Stephen Hostetter
    Sylvia had cigarette burns that went to the bone,,, she had a massive infection under the left arm. She was skin and bones,, Sylvia had chewed her upper and lower lips completely in to In the last moments of Sylvia's life everyone w/ exception of Gertrude showed rational thinking behavior... You know, lets get help for Sylvia she looks bad.. In fact it looks like we might be in trouble here... Lets get help hurry.! All the sudden Sylvia's condition seems life threatening
  • Stephen Hostetter
    In the end they showed they could display rational thoughts... They took control of Gertrude and stopped her from beating Sylvia... Also the book explains that Hobbs almost pushed Gertrude down the up-stairs steps... They must of all the sudden lost any fear they had of Gertrude,,, now it turns to survival mode. Same way it happened in the D.C. Stephenson case
  • Kaptain Kebo
    Does anyone know if the stairs were painted red, white and blue when the B's lived there? If you look at the black and white crime scene photos it appears to have been. Also, I assume that the upstairs wall was not painted blue with the clouds until after they moved.
  • Kathleen
    Hi to all: Actually, one cannot even be sure that Gertrude fully understand what her doctor meant when he said „epilepsy“ – Millett has her worrying that Stephanies „fainting spells“ might indicate a brain tumor, and indeed an epileptical fit can look exactly as if the patient had fainted. If they did, her siblings wouldn’t know anything about epilepsy, just that Stephanie lost consciousness now and then and following that, was not too clear about things for a while. Nothing usual in a teenager and not even with some grown-ups - and nothing much to tell either. A doctor advising a patient’s mother not to say anything about it to her would even sit well with the early sixties – because some people regarded epilepsy as something to panic about or even to be ashamed of. I remember my cousin in the early 70ies was forbidden contact with a friend who had epilepsy; my aunt and gran were afraid it might be „catching“. So why would the topic have come up at all and who would have told about it? Not Gertrude, for sure. Erbecker would have had to tell her to shut up about not having taken Phenobarbitol. I’ m sure Stephanie’s dad would not been keen to blurt it out either. Gertrude’s children said in court and later on that they had been afraid of her. Hobbs, not. Gertrude herself said that she was „helped“ down the stairs by her children and Hobbs for her own sake because she tended to be hysterical if something happened. In Hobbs’ case, that may have been his true reason, or else it was because they needed to concentrate on what they were doing. She WAS hysterical and was making matters worse. Also, Marie told Kathe, and Kathe kindly told us, how Marie tried to help Sylvia escape and got what-for from Paula afterwards. I’d call that rather brave than rational, because it wasn’t likely to work out but an eleven-year old … I’ve been there before. More in the line of rationale behaviour, on the Sunday or the Monday prior to Sylvia’s death Marie went to Gertrude to say: „Mummy, she looks terrible“ (Millett, direct quote from the trial transcripts) which resultet in Gertrude putting some ointment or other on Sylvia’s legs. Still, no one seems to have believed that Sylvia would die including Gertrude AND Jenny - who had been told. You can call that delusion – part of it certainly was – or lack of foresight. But when they had realized Sylvia WAS dying, later HAD died, there was nothing to believe any more. Just a horrible fact to deal with - and of course their behaviour changed then. I’m not trying to condone anything and I know Kevin’s description of the photos is deeply disturbing, in fact I knew that before because Millett describes them in much the same words and Deans quotes from the trial transcripts are just as clear. But they do not make a difference in what I think and feel about the case and the people involved because the way she looks can’t make things worse or better or in any way different. Greetings!
  • Stephen Hostetter
    The way Sylvia looked to Kevin is the way she looked ... In the right minds of the children she looked this way too.. As I mentioned they did prove this in the end.. Kathleen could you look at these photos and still have an open mind... ? After all a picture is worth a thousand words
  • Kaptain Kebo
    She was such a pretty girl. It is ashame about Jenny's twin dying alone, the Liken's never really got the 'family' thing down did they? they must have always had so much they wanted to forget about, wanting to leave the past behind and move on. I just got back from Orange County, CA and I found myself looking up at bus drivers to see if one was Diana.
  • Kaptain Kebo
    Stephen, any input on the stairs question? (red, white, and blue?) also, is the clawfoot bathtub still in the upstairs bathroom?
  • Stephen Hostetter
    KK,,, As to the house and the paint... The crime scene photo is over-exposed ,,, the photographer just simply used the wrong aperture flash combination... Sometimes a crime scene will be photographed with a method called painting with light ... This method is better done under low light conditions.. The shutter of the lens is kept open while the assistant uses a light source beam to cover the scene for better detail... This might be a high contrast version of what I just mentioned but the photo is still over-exposed.. I can almost see the burned loops on the rail (crime scene photo) when I turn up the contrast but really can't get any more info then normal setting.. I think by the looks of it the rail was white washed in 1965... The rest of the paint looks to new.. I believe the paint on the basement block walls are original and the way they looked in 1965.. There is a gas pipe in the center of the room painted orange and is rubbed off where the pipe has a bend... At about 5' up from floor.. I believe there was new flexduct put in and glassblocks put in old window openings.. There was a material nailed to the ceiling at one time ,, I'm thinking they tore it down to run the flexduct.. I did find a shovel mark on the exposed joist near the steps and one on the step rail up-right at bottom of steps. About eye level 6' Landing at bottom of steps is original as is all the steps with exception of maybe some trim on the landing.. The kitchen had no stove,,,"still".. cabinets looked original with the countertop missing The was no furnace,, hotwater heater,,and no tub but sign on floor where an eagle claw tub stood.. There is no one part of the house that is more of a crime scene then another.. The whole house is the crime scene.. The walls in the bedroom where John hung Sylvia from nails.. And the up-stairs steps that Gertrude was rushed down as she thought of more lies.. The clouds on the walls are newer then 1965
  • Kathleen